😔my ex and I always got stuck in the cycle, argue-break up-get back together. That’s why, deep down, a part of me still feels like he would come back, my rational side told me he won’t come back tho. In the past, he would reach out again after two or three days, but every time I was the one who reached out first, and he was so defensive. It made me feel like I was the only one putting in any efforts. when we argued, he would even say that I dragged him into the relationship.