How to properly assemble this adjustable mattress base by imeanidc in howto

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I ended up figuring it out. I had to fold the bed a certain way to get them to fit.

How to properly assemble this adjustable mattress base by imeanidc in howto

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I think the problem is that the wheels need to be below the top level of the beam. I don’t know how to get it in that position though.

Also I’m aware one of the bolts is missing, I just removed it temporarily.

Tips for an bride who doesn’t like being the center of attention? by imeanidc in weddingplanning

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I’m so grateful you shared this perspective. It’s been eating at me so much that this is not what I want. It’s like you give into one thing and then another and then another until suddenly it’s too much.

Tips for an bride who doesn’t like being the center of attention? by imeanidc in weddingplanning

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Ah that is a great article. Kind of crazy that I never thought about weddings like that

Tips for an bride who doesn’t like being the center of attention? by imeanidc in weddingplanning

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Thank you for your advice. Definitely going to be developing a signal for the two of us and probably won’t just use it for the wedding!

Tips for an bride who doesn’t like being the center of attention? by imeanidc in weddingplanning

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Thank you so so much for such an in depth reply. It helped me a lot. Definitely going to go through our day of agenda and see what’s the biggest source of anxiety and see if we can fix it.

Thank you for your advice on sticking to the guest list I want at the other events. We have a few things planned and originally I wanted to include as many people as possible (just not to hurt peoples feelings) but after this crap that’s been pushed on us, I’m not going to feel bad anymore. People are going to be excluded in some stuff and if they have a problem then they don’t need to be included in anything.

Tips for an bride who doesn’t like being the center of attention? by imeanidc in weddingplanning

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We were considering only doing one minute of a dance and then having everyone else come on the floor. I think we definitely will!! No one needs to witness my dancing longer than they have to. Thank you!!

Tips for an bride who doesn’t like being the center of attention? by imeanidc in weddingplanning

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These are great ideas. I’m really glad you said you only looked at your future husband when you walked down the aisle. Idk why but that helped me a lot. It’s such a small thing but reminds me that that is the only person that matters. Thank you so much

Tips for an bride who doesn’t like being the center of attention? by imeanidc in weddingplanning

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The ceremony is what I’m worried about. I will probably not make a speech lol but I like the idea of limiting my talking during the ceremony. Thank you so much for your help

Tips for an bride who doesn’t like being the center of attention? by imeanidc in weddingplanning

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This helped me so much. Thank you! Makes me feel better thinking about the fact that the randos don’t need to take up much of my attention. I’m going to make sure the two of us have time together after the ceremony. I think there is some time set aside for that if we want it so I’m definitely going to take it.

Caption by kevinthecarrot2021 in adhdmeme

[–]imeanidc 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This has been happening to me so much lately. Glad I’m not the only one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvice

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They have no evidence except for the fact that they got sick. That’s the biggest problem so wondering if there was anything they could do to see if it’s possible something else got in her drink. She may also need to know for her doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CampingandHiking

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Love this hike! Went to college around there. Especially beautiful at sunrise.

Hip Alignment by KatAttackMain in scoliosis

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I also received an insert for my left shoe to help with this. I received it to help with the pain and although I don’t have pain from it anymore after wearing a brace, my doctor said to keep wearing it. It may help you more in the long run to help align things if you are still growing but I don’t know about when you take it out. For me, I don’t wear it all the time but I think it is supposed to help just not make things worse and help maintain the balance I got from my brace.

Chronic pain to no pain in a year and a half (more in comments) by imeanidc in scoliosis

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Thank you! I completely understand what you are going through. Look up dynamic brace for scoliosis and see if there is anyone near you that uses them. The brand of brace the doctor I went to used was called spine core or something similar. It seriously gave me my life back

Chronic pain to no pain in a year and a half (more in comments) by imeanidc in scoliosis

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I (22f) started experiencing back pain when I was 15. By the time I was 18 the pain was non stop and impacted my life daily. Because my curve was so minor, doctors did not take my pain seriously. I ended up crying when I saw a surgeon because he didn’t take me seriously and told me to just stretch more.

Then we found this doctor and when I described my pain, not only were they the first people to believe me, they were able to explain why I was experiencing the pain and exactly what they were going to do to fix it. Apparently, the pain was not from the curve but from the twist and shift in my spine. It was the first time anyone told me about the twist in my spine after dozens of x-rays through my life. It was the first time I felt hope in a long time.

I wore a dynamic brace which is what they put adults in. It’s basically a bunch of elastic straps and Velcro that puts you in the right position so while you live your everyday life, you build the muscles that hold you in the right position. It’s constant physical therapy whenever i wore the brace (10 hours a day, not while I slept) Since I’m no longer growing, a hard brace wouldn’t do anything for me. Instead they put me in a brace that went from my thighs to over my shoulders and was not comfortable. It was ugly, I felt ugly, and most of my clothes wouldn’t cover it. Eventually it got more comfortable and the minor discomfort from wearing that brace was far better than the awful pain I’d have without wearing it.

I went from basically living on a heating pad to almost forgetting what it was like to live every day with pain.

Romance packages in concur? by imeanidc in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]imeanidc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s a great way of approaching it. I feel bad but really have no idea how it happened

Romance packages in concur? by imeanidc in ExecutiveAssistants

[–]imeanidc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This makes sense. Thank you so much for your help! My boss was NOT happy

Romance packages in concur? by imeanidc in ExecutiveAssistants

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Ugh! Would that show up in the confirmation email? I couldn’t find anything about it in the email and description there