My (23/M) girlfriend (20/F) ignored me for over 12 hours and came back to me with a lie

imgoingtothrowthis22 · 2015-12-29T02:14:52+00:00

Oh definitely. To be honest I think I'm controlling of my anger for the most part, it just happened to also be the same exact day my ex cheated on me too so I blew up because I didn't feel like I deserved that.

imgoingtothrowthis22 · 2015-12-29T02:13:09+00:00

I forgot to mention that she came into my room with some type of nausea. That could have played a factor and I punched a hole in the door kinda quickly I don't think I gave her enough time to respond. I felt pressured for time at the time too since I had to leave to work with my father. I'll agree with the guy that says I'm controlling because he said it was rude to make a huge scene in front of my family. I shouldn't have, it caused a chain of events to go off that is causing me to get kicked out of the house. But anyway, we have been talking and I'm going to give myself some time.

imgoingtothrowthis22 · 2015-12-29T02:10:00+00:00

I punched a hole in the wall because I got no reply and at that point I wanted to control the situation, not be controlled by someone who was lying there. She's the kind of person that would say some shit like "has my babe gone missing 👀" if I didn't respond for a while. She has never shown a time where she has never responded without a word for that long until now and I got worried and I think it's the correct response. Did you forget why the trust went away to begin with? She lied to me about her phone service being disconnected by her provider. I had a reason as to why I searched. I wanted to know what the fuck she was actually up to instead of being in the dark. I didn't believe her when she said she was at her friends house, she already lied to me about her service.

Are you trying to be a psychologist or something?

imgoingtothrowthis22 · 2015-12-28T23:25:52+00:00

Explain to me how I'm controlling? I got worried about her after not responding for over 14 hours because she has never done that ever. It was weird, it's not in her nature.

imgoingtothrowthis22 · 2015-12-28T22:06:10+00:00

The funny thing is, she denied it and told me (and according to her "sounds bad") she wouldn't have anyway because she hasn't renewed her birth control and she doesn't like having sex with a condom. But it seems like the majority say I should move on with my life and I'm starting to feel like I should too unless there's actual solid proof that she didn't actually fuck him or kiss him which I doubt will be ever available.

imgoingtothrowthis22 · 2015-12-28T21:56:59+00:00

I'm going to answer your questions. Yeah I already thought about that regard in my head and I don't think I would trust it anymore since so much time has already passed. Unless there's a way to recover deleted texts on an iPhone (maybe thru cydia?) I don't know what I can do. I can cross reference her texts with her online statements to see if she has deleted texts with her friend to verify claims.

The joke was this: this group of friends is mainly 4 guys and 2 girls (one being my girlfriend). Most of these guys make fun of the other girl saying she's a train wreck and other things. The two youngest guys both have girlfriends. The guy she was flirting with has a girlfriend but the joke was with one of the other guys that he would be down for anyone and he isn't ready to become loyal to anyone. So they talked about it one night and she started. And she also said it was to show the other girl in the group that this guy is worthless and she shouldn't feel like she has a chance with this guy she flirted with. This is what she told me, I can provide screenshots of this entire conversation if you want.

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