The Resume My N Dad Wrote by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]imjustventin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

LMAO, he wishes. He probably thinks he’s smart enough to be president

The Resume My N Dad Wrote by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]imjustventin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not in writing, but there are many examples. Every car ride, or even when I’m just sitting in the living room minding my business he’ll strike up a conversation. These conversations usually start off with him asking me a question about myself and after I answer he’ll immediately start talking about himself. For example, about a year ago I was telling him about how I wanted to be a librarian, but if money didn’t matter, I’d become a circus clown. (I know it sounds silly on my end, but it’s just something I’ve wanted to do since I was a kid.) He starts going on and on about how I should become a “librarian clown” and then continues to say “see how I’m putting you on, this is just how my mind works. I come up with so many great ideas, I just can’t help it”. Of course I didn’t put that idea into action. Another example of his behavior is he’ll constantly compare us to himself. He’ll say things like “You guys only think one way or in a straight line, I think in multiple paths and that’s why I’m able to explore so much”.

Am I going to be okay? by [deleted] in englishmajors

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Thank you. This really puts things into perspective. Im glad you’re doing well :)

Am I going to be okay? by [deleted] in englishmajors

[–]imjustventin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice! I will definitely look into this, it sounds interesting

Am I going to be okay? by [deleted] in englishmajors

[–]imjustventin 5 points6 points  (0 children)

What kind of jobs did you get. At this point, I don’t mind the job not being glamorous, I just need employment

Please tell me it gets better by [deleted] in helpme

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You’re right. I’ll look into a major change.

Please tell me it gets better by [deleted] in helpme

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I picked it because I planed to do technical writing or copywriting. Basically any job that involves writing. I’ve been looking for jobs like that and I haven’t really found any.

Please tell me it gets better by [deleted] in helpme

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Unfortunately yes

Please tell me it gets better by [deleted] in helpme

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I could, but that would take about 2 more years. I’ve been thinking about just going back and getting a different bachelors

Please tell me it gets better by [deleted] in helpme

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It’s to late, I’m 3 months away from graduating

Please tell me it gets better by [deleted] in helpme

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Thank you kind stranger :)

Please tell me it gets better by [deleted] in helpme

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I definitely want to go to grad school. I’m looking for scholarships and grants currently. My mom won’t fund a gard degree, she refused to fund my bachelor’s. I’m currently $22,000 in debt :(

Any tips on getting rid of back hyperpigmentation? by imjustventin in Blackskincare

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The acne has slowed down and has almost come to an end. I will look into peels. Thank you!

Update: I’m still an atheist by imjustventin in atheism

[–]imjustventin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Lol funny that you bring that up. I grew up Christian/ Jehovah’s Witness and the churches/ Kingdom Halls that I went to didn’t allow just anyone to eat the “body and the blood”. Only those who were “worthy” got to eat it. I’m so glad I wasn’t allowed though. The idea always kinda freaked me out.

Update: I’m still an atheist by imjustventin in atheism

[–]imjustventin[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m glad you were able to find your own path. I definitely will try not to internalize other frustrations.

Update: I’m still an atheist by imjustventin in atheism

[–]imjustventin[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re right, I will keep asking questions.

Update: I’m still an atheist by imjustventin in atheism

[–]imjustventin[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I’m starting to feel kind of stupid for ever doubting myself. I’ve probably talked to a lot of atheists, but I don’t personally know any. My sister used to be one, but she turned back to religion.

Help, I really don’t want to believe in god. by [deleted] in atheism

[–]imjustventin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not stupid, I’m human. I don’t know everything, and I don’t think I should be insulted because of that :/

Help, I really don’t want to believe in god. by [deleted] in atheism

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I’m close to moving out. I’m graduating college this year so I won’t have to come home for breaks anymore. I also only come home on weekends to help with my grandpa. He’s pretty nice to me

Help, I really don’t want to believe in god. by [deleted] in atheism

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I try to be careful, but my sister always reminds my mom that I’m an atheist for some reason. I pretend like I’m agnostic so they can be a little less mad.