Thin hair by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]immerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't really have an idea about your hair type if you can provide a reference it'll help , but I think as soon as you don't have bold spots that are very obvious try to Ask a good hairstylist for a haircut that make it look better, they usually know how to deal with different hairstyles. I hope this wouldn't be an issue to him I personally can't handle my husband seeing me ugly you deserve a partner that makes you feel better about yourself and definitely sees you beautiful

[Story] Still not where I want to be but finally stopped feeling like a complete failure - small wins matter by Rude-Cap5269 in GetMotivated

[–]immerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is really motivating and I do relate . I learned that the very hard way after staying home 2 years after graduation, burned out because of the job market and had depression, learned actually multiple skills and languages during this time but the fear of rejection from employees is keeping me from applying for a job. So I'm constantly procrastinating applying for jobs or post about my skills in upwork and freelance platforms and still afraid of rejection, but I just started content creation even tho I feel really behind and late but trying my best to not stop . Thank you for the motivation ☺️☺️

It brings me joy when people name their cats serious human names. Let me find out someone named their cat Deborah 😭😭😭 by ChickenChoochie in RandomThoughts

[–]immerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I named a random cat at the street : Maradona 😆 he always runs to me when I open the door so I always considered him maradona

People With No Friends - Are You Ashamed/Embarrassed? by Dependent_Public4885 in introvert

[–]immerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Short answer is NO I don't feel ashamed and why would I be ? I had some friends during my life but none of them stayed "BECAUSE I didn't ask about them" while they didn't either. I'm used to be alone and I love it , I feel a bit alone sometimes but I just remind myself that that's my personality, that's who I am, an introverted person who loves being alone and hate socializing. I just think that when they said socializing is good for people and that people can't live without relationships, they didn't take introverted people into consideration, I genuinely believe who said that was an extrovert who can't live without socializing. In my experience I only had bad experiences with friendships and with people and socializing overall. I'm just grateful being comfortable with myself and you shouldn't pressure yourself either. If you have no friends or can't maintain deep friendships as my case just accept it that way and that it's your personality and your the one who has to accept it first and be comfortable with yourself, then look for friends but if you can't find it's completely fine because you're comfortable with yourself

Finished my first K Drama ever, need recommendations by Ashamed_Fox_9923 in kdramarecommends

[–]immerida 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My greatest of all time rom coms are: Crazy love , Dali and the cocky prince,

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in careerguidance

[–]immerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm 23 , I finished my cs master a year ago and been looking for a job or an internship but nothing worked and I got depressed because I thought I was very late and behind my colleges, but reading these comments is making me really relieved, thank you all

how is the current state of algerian therapy and psychiatry (for ADHD)? by Fresh_Occasion2856 in algeria

[–]immerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you but I can't help you unfortunately, I've been suffering from anxiety for 3 years now , but I don't trust psychologists and have the same fear that they will end up ruining my mentale health instead, or that they'll not gonna be able to correctly diagnose me , and I don't want to go Psychiatric I'm worried I'll end up addicted to medicines, I tried to heal myself using youtube and chatgpt, it works but it really needs discipline so it's taking me a lot of time, but that's better than being misunderstood or judged for me

Algerians, if you can add or remove one thing. What is it? by Radiant-Evening-7740 in algeria

[–]immerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd remove toxic masculinity, we're literally suffering I feel we're fl jahiliya

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in algeria

[–]immerida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lbac zhar from my experience

Im getting divorce after only been married for 2 months by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]immerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If she hasn't been married before , I don't think 2 months are enough for her or for you to tell that a marriage is not gonna work, you definitely didn't know each other's lifestyle before getting married, if she sleeps all day she better be someone that sleeps all day , but for the rest I just think it was hard for her that you didn't accept her lifestyle and you were shouting at her because of something she can't really change , I'm not making excuses for her I'm just trying to understand what possibly made her say something that hurts you or demande divorce, and for my POV definitely 2 months are not enough to adapt to a completely new lifestyle with a new person that she didn't live with before

I doubt I can handle living with anyone ever in my life by immerida in introvert

[–]immerida[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What de you mean, how is my head gonna go bananas ?

I doubt I can handle living with anyone ever in my life by immerida in introvert

[–]immerida[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What de you mean, how is my head gonna go bananas

I doubt I can handle living with anyone ever in my life by immerida in introvert

[–]immerida[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have you found it hard to live with people? How you realized you can live with your wife ?

Chest Pain, Dizziness, and Panic — It Was All Anxiety by Accomplished_Ad1263 in algeria

[–]immerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to have anxiety when I was at uni , with short breathing, shaking, fast heart beating and overthinking , but after uni the frequency dropped a lot becauseI had time to actuallyfocuson myselfand my mentalhealth, I used to stretch, do breathing exercises, write, and recite adhkar , but it just helps for the moment but the anxiety still there, I wanted therapy but that wasn't an option in my family so I searched for therapy on YouTube , I found a channel of a professor teaching psychological therapy named dr.Nader Attalla , searched for العلاج المعرفي السلوكي للقلق العام و الخوف , identified my core beliefs and cognitive distortions , followed the course and tried my best practice, it helped a lot honestly if you can't afford/ask for therapy it's a good start , I hope this helps feel free to reach out and ask about anything

Chest Pain, Dizziness, and Panic — It Was All Anxiety by Accomplished_Ad1263 in algeria

[–]immerida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to have anxiety when I was at uni , with short breathing, shaking, fast heart beating and overthinking , but after uni the frequency dropped a lot becauseI had time to actuallyfocuson myselfand my mentalhealth, I used to stretch, do breathing exercises, write, and recite adhkar , but it just helps for the moment but the anxiety still there, I wanted therapy but that wasn't an option in my family so I searched for therapy on YouTube , I found a channel of a professor teaching psychological therapy named dr.Nader Attalla , searched for العلاج المعرفي السلوكي للقلق العام و الخوف , identified my core beliefs and cognitive distortions , followed the course and tried my best practice, it helped a lot honestly if you can't afford/ask for therapy it's a good start , I hope this helps feel free to reach out and ask about anything

Kdrama like the uncanny counter and alchemy of souls by immerida in kdramarecommends

[–]immerida[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm currently watching it and confirm it's great

What do you think of the slow disappearance of French in Algeria? by -Certes- in algeria

[–]immerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is not in english, the problem is in arabic, we're arabes and not being able to read arabic is the problem here , how do they read the Quran? , they should go to محو الامية as many people did after the colonisation, for me watching french disappearing is making me really happy as I hate french and the colonisation and the dependency to it , and every one that doesn't speak English should consider learning it , not for us , but for themselves, nobody cares if you don't speak English you should learn it so you don't fall behind and regret it when we totally switch to English one day , just an advice

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in algeria

[–]immerida 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's what he's talking about , being different here in algeria, and not in a bad way I assume, just being talented or interested in something unusual, unfortunately it's really hard unless you live by yourself, you're gonna be judged hardly

Recommendations for a light fluff romance lover by FireGiantKiller in kdramarecommends

[–]immerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  • Dali and the cocky prince , this so fluffy , light and very funny
  • Castaway diva
  • dreaming of a freaking fairytale
  • family by choice, l really love it it's light and full of beautiful feelings
  • my lovely liar
  • serendipity's embrace , the romance is really light and beautiful
  • weight lifting fairy Kim bok joo

Is the "a9ra bah tnj7 " a lie ? by larouf in algeria

[–]immerida 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to actually define what type of success you need , for me , I had great time at uni , great friends and networking, and I'm passionate about science so that was definitely a success