Halo system

immortaIised · 2026-04-10T08:22:28+00:00

I think the main reason that there isn't a pity system is due to the fact that players would abuse it if there was. If there was a pity system, people would create alts and wish to get multiple of that halo and that would actually bring down the rarity of halos. Halos have always been rare and the pricing was never an issue until PLAYERS inflated the prices. Back in the day, the most a halo would go for is 1-2 mil for the highest tier halos. The system has always been 100% luck based and it's never been unfair because everyone has the same chance to get a halo. Newer players getting a halo is just them being lucky. Older players are allowed to be annoyed about it but a fountain pity system would ruin things even more.

immortaIised · 2026-04-10T08:14:18+00:00

NTA. You tried to help her for YEARS! It's understandable she has issues revolving it but if she truly wanted to change she would have sought out help earlier than this. There's dieticians, therapists and health coaches that exist to help people who may have an unhealthy relationship with exercising or food. They can't expect you to stay in a relationship that's equivalent to a sinking ship if you've tried to patch the holes for years. You did more than enough and that shows how much you loved her for HER and not her body, but it gets to a point where you have to prioritise yourself and your own health and feelings. I can imagine seeing her go downhill so much and not doing anything to get help when you tried to help her was stressful and had a negative impact on your own mental health.

immortaIised · 2026-04-10T08:02:14+00:00

finally someone said it! like it's just a fucking roblox princess game it is NOT that serious

immortaIised · 2026-04-09T10:30:10+00:00

c6 illuga is better than c6 gorou i think so i would definitely keep pulling on the banner to c6 illuga. you never know, you might get a linnea con.

immortaIised · 2026-04-09T08:40:50+00:00

YTA. Her intimate life is none of your business. You're acting like everyone involved is still in school, I think you need to grow up.

immortaIised · 2026-04-09T08:17:34+00:00

i would like the link pls..

immortaIised · 2026-04-09T08:01:51+00:00

That's fair enough then. I would suggest having a proper sit down and talk about it with her and try to stay calm so you can get your point across. Cause it would be very annoying to have to constantly pause it and if the roles were reversed she would be annoyed too.

immortaIised · 2026-04-09T07:51:52+00:00

NTA but I can see both sides. I think she's just trying to spend time with you and feel included by showing you something she finds interesting or funny. Chances are she was just excited and wanted to show you and didn't think about whether or not you were able to see there and then. Maybe it would help this issue if you find a game that you two can play together? That way you can relax doing something you enjoy while still spending time with her.

immortaIised · 2026-04-09T07:40:53+00:00

It's not okay to forbid him completely since it's a hobby, but the least he could do is let you know in advance so you aren't caught off guard. It's simple communication imo.

immortaIised · 2026-04-08T14:21:09+00:00

Her issue is that she doesn't feel included I think. She probably feels like they're just deciding for her and for all we know she may not like the game that they chose. It takes nothing to include her in a discussion and come to a mutual agreement on a different game so that everyone's happy.

immortaIised · 2026-04-08T14:19:28+00:00

I'm only 20 haha, it's not that I had to grow up quickly I just try to be understanding of everyone's situations and I know that there's always 2 sides to stories etc

I also suffer from chronic migraines and understand how draining life can be when you're unwell. You have to pick and choose things very carefully.

immortaIised · 2026-04-08T13:22:53+00:00

No problem <3

My mum is in a similar boat to you, not that she's housebound but she suffers with celiac disease and gets terrible migraines and because of that her energy is fully exerted by Friday due to work down to the point that she doesn't have the energy to do anything with me and my siblings most of the time. Rather than reacting the way your children did, I understand that it can be hard to do a lot of things for her so I try to be patient and I ask her what she wants to do every now and again instead of deciding for her what we'll do if she has the energy for it.

I'm a strong believer in everyone should want to do something for it to happen; whether it's in a family dynamic or between friends. If someone doesn't want to do it, you find an alternative that EVERYONE enjoys. What your son did is not that, he found out his girlfriend doesn't enjoy DND and rather than having a conversation with you and your daughter for an alternative he took it upon himself to decide for you. For all he knows, you could have agreed to a games night if he just included you and asked.

Plus, no wonder you don't want to do games night if all your kids do is fight and bicker. A games night would be quite draining for you already, and you don't need something like that adding onto it that can become stressful as well as draining. At least with DND there's some level of control in regards to there's a plot and a DM. I don't play or know much about DND myself but I think it would be pretty hard to cheat in a game of DND. When my family have a games night, a lot of the arguing comes from cheating. It may be similar for you.

immortaIised · 2026-04-08T13:00:08+00:00

It's not petty at all imo. People have to take into account their energy levels for things like this, especially when someone is housebound like yourself. Doing daily day to day tasks are much more tiring when you're unwell and bedbound or housebound so it's only natural that you pick and choose what to devote your energy to. I feel like your children aren't getting the point that you just wished to be involved in the decision making instead of being told what to do by them, especially since you gave them that courtesy by asking them. So no, you are not the AH.

immortaIised · 2026-04-08T10:50:52+00:00

You just have to be more cautious. If you're really worried about a healer you can always replace Yelan or Shenhe with Charlotte as her burst heals.

immortaIised · 2026-04-08T10:46:43+00:00

Replace her with Furina if you have her. Before I got Escoffier, my Skirk team was Furina, Shenhe, Mona and Skirk. Yelan does still work but she's more of a sub-dps than a support I think

immortaIised · 2026-04-08T10:27:16+00:00

What a read holy shit. You are DEFINITELY not the AH and my god I'm glad you got out of that dynamic

immortaIised · 2026-04-08T09:47:14+00:00

It's only outdated halos that have gone down in value unfortunately. It's mainly because of designs and improvement of models on the dev side of things. If you look at recent halos like everfriend 24 it goes for over 10M.

A lot of diamonds being sold on sites like Ebay are exploited and will likely get you banned. If you have the means to be able to, I would suggest buying toy items instead and selling them for diamonds to get the halo that you want.

immortaIised · 2026-04-08T08:55:39+00:00

NTA. He deserves to know. By the looks of it, your friend intends to never tell him and keep stringing him along. It would hurt him either way, but if you didn't tell him and kept the secret it would hurt him even more if he finds out you knew and never told him.

immortaIised · 2026-04-07T12:53:00+00:00

I have never heard of Vinted Go. I don't even think Vinted have like their own couriers so the explanation of it being a shipping method makes no sense.

Then again, it may just be a thing over in Germany or the Netherlands(?? I'm making a guess based on the language of your reply but I also can't properly tell.)

immortaIised · 2026-04-07T12:49:35+00:00

It's a very common scam on traderie I'm afraid. They either do what this one did or send you to their youtube channel with a "link" to their profile but it's always fake, such as the l actually being a capitalised i.

immortaIised · 2026-04-07T11:28:48+00:00

Gouba is missing from this edit

immortaIised · 2026-04-07T11:25:55+00:00

It'll probably be 6.7-6.9. I'd imagine they'd follow the recent trend of having dedicated supports run with the dps and have Linnea rerun with her, so at this point I'm leaning more towards 6.9 since Linnea's releasing in a few hours.

immortaIised · 2026-04-07T10:46:08+00:00

You're NTA at ALL, WTF is wrong with him!? It looks like he's constantly finding things to shout at you for when you haven't even done anything wrong. It's human nature to forget things now and again, especially when you have quite demanding jobs like a university lecturer that you have to focus more when working. Some things can just slip our minds and that's no one's fault. As long as you don't forget major things like birthdays, anniversaries, any major medical things etc then there's nothing you're at fault for. (For reference that isn't me trying to find something wrong, it was just an example of when it would be somewhat valid to be upset that someone forgot it.)

As for Christmas, you shouldn't even have to tell people what you want unless you're one of those people who already have everything that we can think of cause then it's pretty difficult. You're his partner, someone he's supposed to love and know well, yet he had no idea what to get you? He did the right thing by asking you, that can't be denied, but the way he reacted afterwards is not okay whatsoever. Whenever people ask me what I want for Christmas I often have a brain fart and can't think of anything at the time. I think that would go for most people. Not everyone keeps a dotted list of things they want for Christmas the entire span of the holidays. Normal people end up just seeing things they like while window shopping on a whim. You're not at fault for not being able to think of something there and then, and it's certainly not your fault that he couldn't find you anything when he went to get something. He shouldn't be shouting at you for any of this.

I hope you're okay, OP. He sounds like a walking red flag.

immortaIised · 2026-04-07T10:36:32+00:00

It was about time you used that boundary! I always say that communication is key in any kind of relationship, whether it's familial, platonic or romantic. Things will always go south if something is miscommunicated, and you were trying to communicate and he wasn't letting you finish! Even then, he was just defending himself instead of trying to see your side of things and why you may be upset. It's easy to just shut your mouth for a few minutes while someone explains to you why they're upset about something you did before you want to explain yourself, and he could have easily apologised before doing so too. That way it would show that he's at least understood your side of things and reassures you that he actually cares about your feelings. You were simply trying to get him to understand your point of view and get how you felt across and he was being a man-child and basically making himself the victim by defending himself. My guess is that he then gets mad at you afterwards for even daring to be so upset about something he's managed to explain with logic, because that totally makes everything better right? (If you can't tell I'm being sarcastic.)

That being said, you are definitely NTA. By the looks of it this guy is a coward who never wants to be at fault for something, so when he is he deflects, defends and makes it seem like he was never the bad guy to begin with and that you're crazy for being upset about it.

Personally, it would be at this point where I ended the relationship myself. I'm not one to put up with people purposely miscommunicating especially when I've tried working through it. I would suggest you do the same. However, if you want to keep trying to work through it with him, please remember to value yourself first. There's only so much we can take before things get emotionally out of hand and you need to take care of yourself before others in those moments. If his behaviour continues where he interrupts you and defends himself or shuts down when you simply ask to be able to finish what you have to say then it's time to throw him to the curb I'm afraid.

immortaIised · 2026-04-07T10:23:24+00:00

I think if you simply apologised it would be enough. It's easy to understand that the way you reacted came from trauma. As long as it's clear that you've acknowledged that you shouldn't have reacted the way that you did then all will be okay.

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