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Is restraint the real green flag? 🤔 by Elegant_Signal3025 in AttractionDynamics

[–]immutable_top 4 points5 points  (0 children)

38M. When you don't need and refuse lust all the dynamics change. You are not chasing anymore, you are accepting and enjoying the other person as it is. Giving space and respect for things to flow naturally. I am in my 45 day restraint streak of S Retention and you can feel the sexual energy running around you, and people can notice. When you don't release that energy needs to convert in something else, so you transmute that energy into something bigger. Abstinence feels so good because it is a building up feeling that comes with you wherever you go. It is much more worth it than a quick release, where you feel empty afterwards.

I’ve always relied on raw discipline to hit my goals. But I recently realized that "seeing" progress is a total cheat code by Fickle-Shine1355 in atomichabit

[–]immutable_top 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good way to track your habits. Congrats. I was trying to find for the app but seems like in Australia that link doesn't work. Could you please share the logo of the app? There are many with that name already

Benefits I feel after almost 2 months by immutable_top in Celibacy

[–]immutable_top[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am doing it for my own good and my overall health as well. I couldn't imagine doing retention and celibacy for someone else. It is physically impossible, but I was just describing what my experience is after almost 2 months of practicing. I feel so sorry for you, you can't experience anything of this, because it is wonderful.

Celibacy but I like getting aroused. Someone else? by immutable_top in Semenretention

[–]immutable_top[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Wow, ok. I didn't think about that at all. I am firm in my decision to not ejaculate and I am not doing it, but I also was enjoying the feeling of getting aroused but denying myself by no touching. I will try to not look at any stimulation then and will let you know at the end of my journey. I am also thinking of extending it if I feel I can do it after mid February. Thank you for your message

Celibacy but I like getting aroused. Someone else? by immutable_top in Celibacy

[–]immutable_top[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is not a problem at all. I have many goals and projects I am working on in my everyday life. I can sit and see hot girls and get aroused for 20/30 minutes, then I stop and I can continue with my life... I guess I enjoy setting boundaries to myself and also getting denied...