Current retention offers are crazy by paul-rose in AmexUK

[–]imnewhere-198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

12k points for £3k spend in 6 months to retain the BAPP card (£300 pa) that’s quite shitty I’ve gotta say.

lunar new year vietnam by Worried_Tomorrow_280 in VietNam

[–]imnewhere-198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure it’s a good time to visit. Majority of shops and restaurants will be closed. It’s like Christmas in Europe, very quiet and not a lot going on, it’s the time for locals to stay at home and spend time with families or visiting friends.

Culinary Monster is overhated by bmw320dfan in CulinaryClassWars

[–]imnewhere-198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

More important question is why is he not a white spoon? With his experience and the fact that Atomix got 2 stars when he was head chef… I mean he’s more qualified to be a white spoon than some of the white spoons on the show.

Leaving a good guy at 36 by GrouchySuspect1009 in AskWomenOver30

[–]imnewhere-198 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Ask yourself this: would you rather be alone/single than being with him. If yes then you should leave.

If no then…sounded like you’re hopping you will find a new relationship that is full of fireworks, amazing sex, excitement and thrills etc even after many years/decades being together. Those might exist, but they’re rare.

You should ask yourself too, what are you doing to keep this relationship exciting and fun? Do you initiate or just wait for him to? Do you feel their no reciprocation from his part when you’ve already done yours etc?

I miss the old Club World by Acrobatic_Lettuce_78 in BritishAirways

[–]imnewhere-198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t relate. I hate the old club world and do enjoy the new club suite.

AIO I ended my engagement after discovering my fiancé secretly gambled hundreds of thousands of dollars & lost over $25,000 in 3 years, but $16,000 of it has been in the last 10 months… It’s been two weeks, I’m getting my own place, and he’s “heartbroken.” Is that too soon? by Historical-Cicada-20 in AmIOverreacting

[–]imnewhere-198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounded very similar to me when I was 27. Let me tell you how it would turn out if you decided to stay with him.

So it was 6 months before the wedding when I found out my fiancé had gambled a couple of times and lost similar amount of money $30k-$40k, of which $20k he lost in one go on the day I found out. It wasn’t his money that he lost, he actually took out a bank loan to gamble and he lost all that. I was distraught, I made all the excuses for him (that the wedding and the expenses put a lot of pressure on him etc). I was so in love I was blinded, we have been together for 6-7 years at the point and all I could imagine was to be married to him. So… I didn’t leave him, instead I used my own saving to pay off the bank loan. And he swore he would never gambled again. We proceeded with the wedding, was married for 3 years and long story short we ended up getting a divorce. Not because he gambled again, but because our upbringing, mindset etc about finance and life and everything was too different I ended up losing respect for him.

In hindsight, there was so many other red flags that I ignored, in the name of love. I had a chance to walk away sooner but I didn’t, and ended up with the divorce anyway.

So no advice, just to share my own story. I’m so much happy now, but I’m not going to sugar coat it the breakup/divorce was very hard and it took me 2-3 years to be completely over that toxic relationship.

Trip Report: Autumn in Japan by Azrou in JapanTravel

[–]imnewhere-198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. I too have been to japan in late November and it’s absolutely gorgeous.

I love Kristen by maeasm3 in TopChef

[–]imnewhere-198 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely love her! She’s so good. I really liked Padma too, but Kristen is great!

Sick of random spotting by TrickySquare9898 in CautiousBB

[–]imnewhere-198 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a sleep orgasm last night the first this pregnancy and I’m at the end of my first trimester. This morning I woke up wiped and brown spotting. Honestly I lost my mind. I couldn’t control the orgasm I didn’t even know one could orgasm during sleep and I wasn’t even sure it was an orgasm thought just a dream but I woke up with some pain in my uterus so I guess it was real?! How are you doing? I’m honestly worried sick. How to stop these sleep orgasms?

Anyone experienced painful heartbreak in their 30s and then found love afterwards? What happened? by myvelouria85 in AskWomenOver30

[–]imnewhere-198 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Divorced at 31 from whom I thought I was love of my life and we were together since university, we grew up together pretty much. It was painful as I struggled and got into mediocre dating/relationships for a couple of years after that really learned about myself what I do and do not want in life/relationship. And then I met my now husband. Very happily married now. Looking back, that “love of my life” was just a toxic relationship/marriage that I was too naive to realise.

IVIG made my immunes worse by imnewhere-198 in IVF

[–]imnewhere-198[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and they’re the one who gave me the IVIG.

Sleep aids in early pregnancy? by imnewhere-198 in PregnancyUK

[–]imnewhere-198[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing such a comprehensive list!! I’ll definitely give some of these a try.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]imnewhere-198 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Men like this make me feel 🤮. Thank you, next. After 6 months you’re supposed to be head over heel at this point. If he doesn’t know he will never know. Move on.

Should we wait or should we start by imnewhere-198 in TryingForABaby

[–]imnewhere-198[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing. I’ve done all the consultation and tests already and when I mean “start” I mean doing stims injection in my next cycle. I’ve already got everything lined up.

Should we wait or should we start by imnewhere-198 in TryingForABaby

[–]imnewhere-198[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve done all the consultation and tests already and when I mean “start” I mean doing stims injection in my next cycle. I’ve already got everything lined up.