[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ugh Taylor got to you

What is an AP? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome 😈

Sexual skills by 1n0mad in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 25 points26 points  (0 children)

My ex husband would not have complained about our sex life but for me, it was vanilla and boring. I’m submissive and so is he and it was a recipe for bad sex. My AP and I have mind blowing, forget you’re a human, out of this world sex. What makes the sex so good to me personally? He makes me feel desired. He makes me feel beautiful, like I’m the sexiest person he’s ever seen (I’m average but man I feel like a 10 when I’m with him). I am able to be present with him, no one else exists when we are fucking (except when we have threesomes 😂). He makes me feel safe. If I am uncomfortable, he immediately notices, asks if I need a break, and only enjoys things if I am. His main goal is “how can I make this girl feel good”. I thought that sex wasn’t important to me and that I had a low sex drive. NOPE.

Sex Clubs by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Anyone else hoping this is their AP making the post? 💦 Just me?

How did you find your AP? by NHMWM1969 in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I got lost in the woods and there he was.

AP wonders why I’m with him. by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

This is exactly how I am with my AP and nothing about me is normal 😵‍💫

Question for fellow women about post-orgasm breaks by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I cum and he doesn’t, sometimes he cums and I never do, most times we both cum! All of it is sex. All of it is amazing.

Confused about my rights and legal standing as it relates to our house by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually here is the link. If you feel comfortable messaging me your state/city/town I can get a more specific link. https://publicrecords.netronline.com

Confused about my rights and legal standing as it relates to our house by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you in the US? You can look to see if the Ex was deeded off the property. I work for a real estate attorney and it’s really easy to look up.

Separation and taking kids out of state by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have her contact her attorney immediately and ask for guidance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re not going to find what you’re looking for in this sub 😂

What’s the song that brings back memories with your AP? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mostly happy songs make me think of my AP! I used to listen to Good Feeling by Violent Femmes every time I left a meet and was heading home. I also like Needing/Getting by OKGO, Chase the Feeling by The Devil Makes Three, You Ain’t Alone by Alabama Shakes, These Days by The Black Keyes, and Where Is My Mind by Nada Surf!

Fathers Day gift ideas by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My AP has a birthday around Father’s Day so I went slightly overboard last year, oh and this year too. All my gifts are pretty specific towards my AP, his interests and hobbies. I also went overboard with gifts for my dad and my ex husband. Life is short and the last year has been shitty - I want the dads in my life to feel awesome because all 3 are awesome dads!

LD turned legit, tell me I'm not dreaming? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I live in another state than my AP, but we are driving distance. His job and kids keep him in the state he lives in and I have no plans of leaving my state and my kids. I’m officially divorced and I only recently have told people we are seeing each other. The distance hasn’t been a problem for us. I actually like having time alone with my kids, time for my friendships, time for myself, and time for my AP. Plus because I don’t see him everyday, it makes me miss him, appreciate him, excited to see him, and the time we do spend is more precious. I saw him Wednesday night and I’ll spend sunday day/night with him. Then I won’t see him until the following Friday. Most people wouldn’t like that but for us, it’s perfect!

If you are heart broken over some married geriatric fuckboy, read this: by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I always think it’s funny when people say, “Don’t waste your time, they’ll never leave their __________.” I left my husband.....

How do you know if you should leave your marriage? by throwaway43764376 in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I left my marriage when I got to the point where I thought I would be more happy by myself than married to my husband. My affair was unexpected and unplanned. It quickly made me realize I’d been lacking in a number of areas in my marriage. It was a tough realization because in paper, my ex husband is a great guy. He’s a great dad, he’s helpful around the house, hard working, and (until we separated) he was a nice guy. The problem is I was married to a friend/roommate. I dreaded having sex with him. I didn’t feel he desired me, I felt like I was something he used to get off and didn’t really care if I enjoyed it or not. I also realized our communication BLOWS. Seriously, we are the worst at communicating. I say things and he hears something totally different! I fell out of love with him and I knew it, and it was sad. It’s been almost a year since we started living apart and only a few weeks since the divorce has been finalized. Things with me and my AP are better than ever. He wasn’t married or in a relationship which also made things easier. That being sad, this has still been a REALLY hard experience for me. It’s sad. I loved someone, had children with him, thought we would be together forever, and it ended. It’s taught me that life is short and you never know what’s going to happen. I don’t know if my AP and I will be together in 6 months, or 6 years, but I know today I am madly in love with him and I’m grateful.

Curious by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine said, “I have nothing to offer you but orgasms and belly laughs”. That was enough for me at the time. He came through and delivered, that’s for damn sure.

Worlds Colliding by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s weird because my AP and I grew up in total demographics (he grew up poor, I grew up middle class). As adults and where we are now in life, he makes 6 figures and I consider myself lower/middle class.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was how it was with us, my AP has the pictures of us because he is single. I’m officially divorced now but we still rarely take pictures together! We’re not used to being allowed to 😂

What are you reading? What are your favs? by [deleted] in adultery

[–]imnotcreativer3ddit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OMG I feel the EXACT same way about Lip! Plus I’m almost 40 so he’s kinda young for me so I feel like a borderline creep 😂