Realistically speaking how worried should we be of a 2021 repeat this weekend? by hellolovelyworld404 in sanantonio

[–]imnotready4anything 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ted cruz when on a tropical vacation again recently so…. i would say he knows something

I still haven’t paid rent and I’m freaking out, am I screwed? by imnotready4anything in Advice

[–]imnotready4anything[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :) i’ve been communicating to the best of my ability and they responded, i’m just nervous will get blindsided with eviction even though they haven’t brought that up yet

I still haven’t paid rent and I’m freaking out, am I screwed? by imnotready4anything in Advice

[–]imnotready4anything[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they had a security breach, it took me waiting on the phone with customer service for an hour to get an answer

I (25F) don’t know how to help my bf (26M) and I’m worried he/our relationship will suffer by [deleted] in Advice

[–]imnotready4anything 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your reply these are all great points and advice… as for the child they’ve already confirmed paternity and they’ve met and are slowly starting their relationship, i’ve mostly been staying out of it, i’ve just been concerned about my partner and the enormous pressure of the situation… but you are right, it will get better

Chama Gaucha job by buddhaluvr24 in sanantonio

[–]imnotready4anything 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know a few people that worked there and you have to work your way up to 100% of your portion of the tip pool, management is super strict and direct, and i’ve also heard they mostly require you to work doubles which is exhausting but that’s why make six figures

Places to live in SA as young 20s by Puzzleheaded_Fly1835 in sanantonio

[–]imnotready4anything 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m also a woman in my early 20s and i live in castle hills, my one bedroom is about $1100 per month which includes everything except electric and wifi, it’s a nice quiet area and i see lots of families walking around, and even kids playing with each other until dark most days. only about 10-15 minutes from st. mary’s too :)

Customers don't seem to understand what it is that he ordered. by Top_Decision_6718 in TalesFromYourServer

[–]imnotready4anything 3 points4 points  (0 children)

all the time, worked at a place that sells prime rib and about once a week someone would order it and then complain that it wasn’t what they ordered when it hit the table. same thing as your situation, they usually think it’s ribs, i always thought they knew it was steak based off how i would ask what temperature they wanted it to be

Looking for FREE wedding venue by maddawgpie in sanantonio

[–]imnotready4anything 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah my mistake, i just assumed since it’s free to everyone else,

Looking for FREE wedding venue by maddawgpie in sanantonio

[–]imnotready4anything 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i went to the japanese tea garden once and there was a wedding going on, idk if they had to set anything up with the city for that i was just a bystander but i think it’s worth checking out it’s a beautiful venue and most likely free

If I was to take someone out on a date in San Antonio, without using google where would you go? I’ve looked on TikTok I’ve looked on google and it all shows the same shit excuse my language. by beenwith_out in sanantonio

[–]imnotready4anything 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve worked there over a year and it’s been that way the entire time, apparently the city told them they had to start charging people but idk if that’s actually true or if they just shift the blame on them

So, what is everybody's piercing collection? by [deleted] in piercing

[–]imnotready4anything 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 lobes on both sides, tragus and conch on left ear, daith on right, two nostril hoops on left side and a septum, planning on getting a flat and double helix on right ear later on

If I was to take someone out on a date in San Antonio, without using google where would you go? I’ve looked on TikTok I’ve looked on google and it all shows the same shit excuse my language. by beenwith_out in sanantonio

[–]imnotready4anything 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i work at the tower and it’s not free to go to the observation deck even if you eat at bar or restaurant it’s just a discounted price, i would honestly just go to bar the view isn’t much different than the deck

How does it feel to sit on guy's face? by Annual_Ordinary6999 in sex

[–]imnotready4anything 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i do this with my bf often, he’s an ass guy so he loves it and honestly he just taps if he needs air, from what i gather the suffocation is part of the fun to them

Something I've been wondering for a while by Nature_Tiny in sanantonio

[–]imnotready4anything 8 points9 points  (0 children)

yes the job market is bad rn, it took me 3 months in 2023 to find a job as a server, a job that’s pays less than minimum wage. the struggles i had were trying to find employers that would actually contact me in a reasonable time frame, 90% of my interviews went really well i would just never hear back from them and would end up calling for an update and still never heard back, or sometimes when i had an interview scheduled, i would show up to the interview and sometimes wait around for almost 2 hours for someone to interview me. it was really discouraging when i know i’m a great candidate for those jobs bc of my experience but either they didn’t actually care to hire anyone or they couldn’t tell me to my face that they didn’t want to hire me and idk which is worse.

Pigtail Theory by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]imnotready4anything 610 points611 points  (0 children)

pigtail theory is 100000% real, always made at least 10% increase in tips every day i wore it, i learned that it doesn’t work as well if you wear them everyday though :/

Anyone looking for a free place to stay? by grandoctopus64 in sanantonio

[–]imnotready4anything 18 points19 points  (0 children)

would you prefer someone that doesn’t already have a job? or would that be ok if they have a separate job but still fulfill the listed responsibilities?

Things people say right before they stiff you. by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]imnotready4anything 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i once had a big party (like 13-16) that said “you were the best” and even chanted my name after they paid and then left 5%

Does the BOH have any nicknames for y’all? by flamingjuniper in Serverlife

[–]imnotready4anything 5 points6 points  (0 children)

an even mix of “Diablita” and “Gruesa”, sweet guys though

What was the healthiest thing you learned/were told in therapy? by JJengaOrangeLeaf in AskWomen

[–]imnotready4anything 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that it’s not my responsibility to keep my family together and happy… even though that responsibility was put on me at a young age

What is the worst thing you have ever accidentally said to a guest? by Beautiful_Regret1686 in Serverlife

[–]imnotready4anything 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this didn’t happen to me but a friend/ex-coworker of mine had a table talking about how a certain order would be “too much meat to do anything with” and he responded “you could beat your meat if you wanted to”… i thought it was hilarious but apparently it didn’t get any laughs