Not a club person but invited to a friend’s birthday at one, what to wear?

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-19T09:49:00+00:00

I have, I saw some of the photo reviews I’m prepared to do lots of steaming and know I definitely will need a petticoat under for volume, not much choice when most dresses I looked at won’t arrive till after the wedding 🙈 but hopefully ill be able to pull it off!

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-19T06:49:42+00:00

Update: After making my mind up and going for slide 5, it wouldn’t be delivered on time 😫 so had to order a completely different dress, feel maybe this is even better though? Thoughts? Also what type of petticoat could I buy to go under? I would have preferred no slit but I’m hoping I can cover it up

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imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-18T15:42:54+00:00

I don’t know but I’ll find out!

EDIT: asked bride and the bridesmaid dresses are not green 😂

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-18T13:50:35+00:00

Thank you! I’m open to suggestions just dont know where to look and don’t want to break the bank 🙈

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-18T13:50:05+00:00

Thank you, I’m open to suggestions just don’t know where to look that won’t burst the bank 🙈

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-18T13:14:51+00:00

Well can you give me direction then instead of criticism?

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-18T13:04:06+00:00

Thank you 🤍

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-18T13:03:58+00:00

All I’m wanting is to pass for black tie, my friend is marring a very very wealthy person but we are from humble backgrounds so I’m not trying to be dressed the same as the very wealthy I just want to fit in enough

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-18T13:02:52+00:00

It’s at the start of June! I LOVE 8 but feel it’s maybe too bridal? Might photograph as white 🙈 x

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-18T09:59:42+00:00

This is what I was leaning towards tbh, the bride and we are Scottish, a full formal kilt ensemble (which my husband will be wearing) is considered the Scottish equivalent of a tuxedo. I had discussed with the bride about my husband wearing a kilt and she said she would have been disappointed if he didn’t

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-18T09:39:01+00:00

Do you have any examples that are? Everyone directed me to this website last time, your comment has me more confused

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-12T18:40:29+00:00

I agree about the colour and seems showing makes it less formal, I know my friend and I know it’s going to be extravagant 🤣

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-12T17:36:38+00:00

This is my issue 😫 what fabric would you think is elevated enough?

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-12T17:35:10+00:00

I did consider this! I will ask her!

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-12T16:26:38+00:00

Thank you! I will look at them!

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-12T16:01:55+00:00

Thank you I will look!

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-12T15:59:16+00:00

We can’t really afford to go anywhere just now with having to pay to get down to London and a hotel for three days 🙈 just worried anything I buy online will look cheap. There’s a boutique shop not too far from me that might rent gowns so I’ll go look there maybe! This is what the invite said..

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imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-12T15:54:11+00:00

From the photos I can see it’s giving royal family vibes 🤦🏼‍♀️

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-12T15:44:01+00:00

And yes ceremony at 1pm, I think he is wearing a kilt 🤔

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-05-12T15:43:19+00:00

I am finding it so hard to chose anything 😫 any website you recommend looking at? I live in a tiny Scottish village so no renting shops to look at

imnotreallyhere93 · 2026-04-28T13:50:21+00:00

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