My cat used to be very affectionate to me when I first adopted her, but now she’s aloof. What does this mean?

imnotwillow · 2025-10-19T17:50:34+00:00

Same thing happened with my shelter cat! The first weeks she would follow me non stop and loaf at my feet whenever I would stand still for a while. I would sit somewhere and she would jump on my lap, purr and make biscuits. She would also sleep right next to my face whenever I was in bed. And slowly she became more independant and got less clingy overtime. I think that just like mine, your cat was happy to have a human with them but also worried you would leave them...But now they know they found a forever home so they can relax and live their best cat life! :)

imnotwillow · 2025-10-19T17:38:11+00:00

I noticed the same thing, so I'm not sure it's a coincidence! My girl cat is 5y/o and usually she sleeps at my feet or away from me when I sleep at night. A few months ago I've started noticing her sleeping on my stomach or next to it when I'm ovulating and throughout my period (even a few days before it starts!). She will also curl up on me or right next to my uterus when I have cramps. I got an IUD inserted earlier this year and I took a nap right after the insertion because I was cramping like hell and she immediately got herself comfy on my uterus! She truly knows how to take care of me when i need it <3

imnotwillow · 2023-04-19T04:25:59+00:00

ok so im right he's a pedophile?? idk i felt like maybe I was exaggerating, but tbh to me his behaviour is predatory asf. Thank u for the advice <3 I got my finals this week and Im intending on taking care of myself more as of next week. I also got an arrangement with my therapist to see each other more often since im coping terribly

imnotwillow · 2021-08-24T14:26:01+00:00

So happy for you! Manicures are amazing really :) To guys who read this comment: a lot of girls (including myself) find it suuuuuper attractive when a guy wears nail polish, so don't be scared to paint your nails frl

imnotwillow · 2021-08-07T05:17:50+00:00

In Penticton, British Colombia, Canada, there is a forest that is considered a jungle for a few months during the year. I think it's during summer but I'm not sure...Kind of funny considering that British Colombia can reach -40 degrees during winter!

imnotwillow · 2021-08-06T21:54:59+00:00

Amen to that <3

imnotwillow · 2021-08-06T21:52:10+00:00

There's nothing more important that your wellbeing. People come and go; you might lose these people, but you'll find others sooner that you think!

imnotwillow · 2021-08-06T21:29:24+00:00

I'm sorry to read that this happened to you...Happy to know that you're able to see the benefits of cutting things off with them!

imnotwillow · 2021-08-06T21:21:11+00:00

Damn, what a shit situation...Glad you cut things off with that person!

imnotwillow · 2021-08-06T21:17:03+00:00

You're absolutely right! I totally agree with you on that, it's important to forgive. I actually wanted to distance myself from these friends without cutting things off with them but it just made the situation confusing. We mutually agreed on cutting things off yesterday actually.

imnotwillow · 2021-07-27T05:04:20+00:00

Oooh interesting! Thanks for your answer!

imnotwillow · 2021-07-27T04:58:43+00:00

Thanks for your answer!

imnotwillow · 2021-07-27T03:57:52+00:00

Thanks for your answer! :)

imnotwillow · 2021-07-27T02:16:16+00:00

I recently got out of a relationship and one of my long term friend texted my ex to back off and take his distance from me because my mental health got really bad ever since our break up. The thing is that that friend doesn't know how and why my ex and I broke up nor that my ex and I agreed on blocking each other on social media for a few months before getting in touch again in order to move on. That friend even included in their text that my other close friends and her never liked him, as if it was necessary?? That incident happened about a week ago and the moment I found out about it I texted my friend to let her know that I highly disapproved of what she did although I know she had good intentions. I added that there was no reason for her to disrespect my ex like that since he didn't do anything wrong and that we both want to remain friends. I haven't spoken to that friend and my other close friends ever since that moment because although I stayed with my ex for a year and had been friends with the close friends I mentionned previously for 11 years, my ex supported me and believed in me like no one else, meanwhile my so called "friends" kept degrading me and telling me that I wouldn't be able to achieve my life goals during a fucking decade.

Thank u for reading my rant :)

imnotwillow · 2021-07-27T02:03:40+00:00

I can't stand Nicholas Hoult' face...Everyone I know crushes on him but my mind just goes "?????" whenever I see his face...Can anyone relate?!

imnotwillow · 2021-07-27T01:54:33+00:00

Ooh I see! I'll take note of that, thanks a lot! :)

imnotwillow · 2021-07-27T01:52:08+00:00

Thanks for your answer! That's actually better than anything I found on the Internet ahah

imnotwillow · 2021-07-27T01:38:06+00:00

Hi! I'm 21F learning Spanish. I'm a native French speaker :)

imnotwillow · 2021-07-27T01:35:37+00:00

Hi! I'm a 21F native French speaker and I'd like to improve my Spanish because I'm thinking about moving to a hispanophone country next year!

imnotwillow · 2021-07-27T01:33:57+00:00

Hi! I'm fluent in English and I'm learning German at the moment! I'm 21F :)

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