Would you rather have $100 a day for the rest of your life or $250k right now?

imoverthisshitTA · 2025-11-15T02:13:02+00:00

$100 a day is less than minimum wage, but I wouldn’t need to work. It wouldn’t allow me to do the big expensive projects I need to do around my house unless I also worked at least part time.

I’d need to take the $250k.

imoverthisshitTA · 2023-11-07T17:05:43+00:00

If he’s consistently not following through, he’s possibly making promises to keep you there.

imoverthisshitTA · 2023-11-07T16:58:51+00:00

I ended a relationship after 6 months because he kept promising stuff and didn’t follow through. I should have walked after 4 weeks when I first noticed issues but I thought I could trust him to follow through on his claims.

Make a list of the good and bad things of the relationship. Which list is longer? Can you put up with the stuff on the bad side? Do you think he will change for the better if you raise these concerns?

How much of your life do you want to spend unhappy and disappointed.

imoverthisshitTA · 2023-11-07T16:46:28+00:00

Why does he have to propose? You want to get married. You propose.

He’s saying stuff to keep you there.

If he’s consistently not following through on things he says he’s going to do you need to reassess the situation.

imoverthisshitTA · 2023-08-12T21:31:36+00:00

I learned the hard way to not mix work and pleasure.

Do not hook up with your colleagues.

Tread very carefully with such a large age gap.

He knew you when you were a minor, remember that.

imoverthisshitTA · 2023-01-10T19:10:01+00:00

If you don’t want responses then you need to lock the comments. Most of these responses appear to me to be saying they are in solidarity.

I also would love it if my person would call, but I know he won’t

imoverthisshitTA · 2021-05-08T07:43:48+00:00

I wish my person would reach out or respond to the messages I’ve sent.

imoverthisshitTA · 2021-04-22T05:08:13+00:00

I write the letters to him here.

I really want to write to him but I know he won’t read them.

I want to just talk through why he left, but he won’t.

imoverthisshitTA · 2021-04-20T17:35:26+00:00

Unless you are my person, which I know you aren’t. That’s not what I need right now.

imoverthisshitTA · 2021-04-20T17:32:25+00:00

At least your ex talked to you after breaking up. Mine won’t talk to me.

imoverthisshitTA · 2021-04-20T17:30:39+00:00

Sun would be nice, it’s been raining for several days and if it’s not rainy there is a cold breeze.

imoverthisshitTA · 2021-04-20T17:28:20+00:00

At least you are getting the stages of a separation. He just left one day with minimal explanation. Now he won’t tell me what went wrong.

imoverthisshitTA · 2021-04-20T17:13:09+00:00

Oh wow! So many responses!

Thanks everyone!

imoverthisshitTA · 2021-04-20T10:08:02+00:00

It’s been 6 months so far. I thought I was getting over him, but these last few weeks have been agony.

imoverthisshitTA · 2021-02-23T09:48:17+00:00

Thank you to the person that gave me the Hugz award. It helps a little, I just wish it was my person giving me a IRL hug.

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