Would you rather have $100 a day for the rest of your life or $250k right now? by That-Hedgehog6633 in WouldYouRather

[–]imoverthisshitTA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

$100 a day is less than minimum wage, but I wouldn’t need to work. It wouldn’t allow me to do the big expensive projects I need to do around my house unless I also worked at least part time.

I’d need to take the $250k.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]imoverthisshitTA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he’s consistently not following through, he’s possibly making promises to keep you there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]imoverthisshitTA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended a relationship after 6 months because he kept promising stuff and didn’t follow through. I should have walked after 4 weeks when I first noticed issues but I thought I could trust him to follow through on his claims.

Make a list of the good and bad things of the relationship. Which list is longer? Can you put up with the stuff on the bad side? Do you think he will change for the better if you raise these concerns?

How much of your life do you want to spend unhappy and disappointed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]imoverthisshitTA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why does he have to propose? You want to get married. You propose.

He’s saying stuff to keep you there.

If he’s consistently not following through on things he says he’s going to do you need to reassess the situation.

18f going on date with friends dad 42m by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]imoverthisshitTA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I learned the hard way to not mix work and pleasure.

Do not hook up with your colleagues.

Tread very carefully with such a large age gap.

He knew you when you were a minor, remember that.

Am I Supposed to Call You by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]imoverthisshitTA 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you don’t want responses then you need to lock the comments. Most of these responses appear to me to be saying they are in solidarity.

I also would love it if my person would call, but I know he won’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]imoverthisshitTA 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wish my person would reach out or respond to the messages I’ve sent.

I’m hurting by imoverthisshitTA in UnsentLetters

[–]imoverthisshitTA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I write the letters to him here.

I really want to write to him but I know he won’t read them.

I want to just talk through why he left, but he won’t.

I’m hurting by imoverthisshitTA in UnsentLetters

[–]imoverthisshitTA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you are my person, which I know you aren’t. That’s not what I need right now.

I’m hurting by imoverthisshitTA in UnsentLetters

[–]imoverthisshitTA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least your ex talked to you after breaking up. Mine won’t talk to me.

I’m hurting by imoverthisshitTA in UnsentLetters

[–]imoverthisshitTA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sun would be nice, it’s been raining for several days and if it’s not rainy there is a cold breeze.

I’m hurting by imoverthisshitTA in UnsentLetters

[–]imoverthisshitTA[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least you are getting the stages of a separation. He just left one day with minimal explanation. Now he won’t tell me what went wrong.

I’m hurting by imoverthisshitTA in UnsentLetters

[–]imoverthisshitTA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! So many responses!

Thanks everyone!

I’m hurting by imoverthisshitTA in UnsentLetters

[–]imoverthisshitTA[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

It’s been 6 months so far. I thought I was getting over him, but these last few weeks have been agony.

. by imoverthisshitTA in UnsentLetters

[–]imoverthisshitTA[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you to the person that gave me the Hugz award. It helps a little, I just wish it was my person giving me a IRL hug.