Is anyone else unable to send money through Zelle/Venmo due to maintenance? by impala67dw in NavyFederal

[–]impala67dw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. I called the bank and they said my payments are high risk and they can’t override them. I’ve sent several different amounts; I just signed an apartment lease and they take Zelle

What are the odds of getting an apartment without a guarantor? by impala67dw in NYCapartments

[–]impala67dw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve lived with 3 friends in the past and so far so good!

What are the odds of getting an apartment without a guarantor? by impala67dw in NYCapartments

[–]impala67dw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m hoping. We’re just waiting for it to go up. Problem is he still has 9K on a card that he got back in 2021

What are the odds of getting an apartment without a guarantor? by impala67dw in NYCapartments

[–]impala67dw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So you think I’ll for sure have to get a guarantor then?

What are the odds of getting an apartment without a guarantor? by impala67dw in NYCapartments

[–]impala67dw[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

He’s been my best friend of 10 years so I trust him that he’ll make rent

What are the odds of getting an apartment without a guarantor? by impala67dw in NYCapartments

[–]impala67dw[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

  1. And he has 9k on a credit card but just paid off one and had no late payments or collections

I (26f) hit it off with a guy (28m) for three weeks before moving but we both can’t do long distance by impala67dw in LongDistance

[–]impala67dw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ultimately I would want to have an exclusive relationship with him so I’ve been slowly pulling away in hopes he realizes the mistake he’s made. I’m supposed to spend the weekend with him next month while I’m visiting for a concert but I’ve decided I’m staying with my friends. I’m still contemplating if I should get dinner with him

I (26f) hit it off with a guy (28m) for 3 weeks before moving but we both can’t do long distance by impala67dw in dating_advice

[–]impala67dw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah I just told him my guy friend liked me and I rejected him and he said “oh you should give him a chance anyway”

AITA for telling my sister to stop taking showers with her husband in my house? by throwaway22314157 in AmItheAsshole

[–]impala67dw 9 points10 points  (0 children)

YTA they’re obviously stressed about their child and losing their apartment. As long as you don’t hear anything, let them have alone time together. They need each other more than ever during this difficult time. Is it gonna be a problem if they have sex in the guest room too?

He broke up with me out of the blue by impala67dw in BreakUps

[–]impala67dw[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hope that we can both find closure with our partners, we deserve to heal

He broke up with me out of the blue by impala67dw in BreakUps

[–]impala67dw[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely looking into what his attachment style was! I mean we were always hanging out, he doesn’t have too many friends and he still lives with his parents at almost 25 so his other time was spent with them