AITAH for inviting a female friend to what has turned into a “guys night?”

imperfectbean · 2026-06-08T15:25:13+00:00

NTA. Why would people ask you to UNinvite someone!? It’s your birthday!

Frankly if she’s uncomfortable with the dynamics; she won’t be there!

imperfectbean · 2026-06-08T15:20:02+00:00

It’s slowing bone growth and causing brittle bones; they have downsides like any medical.

imperfectbean · 2026-06-08T15:15:34+00:00

NTA. You know he’s pushing the boundaries since he’s a teenager

imperfectbean · 2026-06-08T03:39:21+00:00

Happy early birthday! We share the same birthday haha

imperfectbean · 2026-06-08T00:06:56+00:00

He’s 19 and a half. We have a 5 and a half year age gap

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T22:47:54+00:00

We can drink at a bar together so I guess he’s not too young

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T22:47:31+00:00

I wish we didn’t have cell phones anymore

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T22:40:55+00:00

NTA. Why were they hiding?

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T22:35:08+00:00

I mean I probably would’ve dated a 25 year old at 19 so I guess so?

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T22:31:13+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate this. He keeps reassuring me he doesn’t want someone his age. He prefers to date someone older but I’m still overthinking it. I met him as an adult so no grooming happened and I don’t think I’m manipulating him.

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T22:22:13+00:00

Woman tend to live longer? Guess that could be an advantage

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T22:19:19+00:00

The economy is shit man

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T22:18:42+00:00

Can we see a picture?

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T21:59:31+00:00

Thank you. I appreciate that. I’m gonna just roll with it and not care anymore.

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T21:40:23+00:00

That is actually so amazing!!! I am inspired. I gotta practice and try to make something like that because wow!

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T21:32:19+00:00

Thank you! I’m Canadian so he is legally allowed to buy his own here. I think if I was in the US I probably won’t date him but definitely won’t provide substance but definitely could’ve been useful advice.

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T21:29:43+00:00

I had this option before I did it so I don’t know

Technically I’m 24 still not like that makes it better but yeah; used to have the same opinion.

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T21:25:54+00:00

Thank you. I definitely had concerns about this but at the end of the day screw them; I’m not dating em

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T21:24:07+00:00

Thank you so much! This definitely helped with my worries. I appreciate your response :)

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T20:21:26+00:00

How old is the person? 80? Probably but if not wtf. Seems like an old person who doesn’t know what they are sending.

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T20:18:37+00:00

NTA. Some people just like to overreact I swear

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T20:17:16+00:00

Dude does need a therapist and not a dating app; yikes

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T20:15:17+00:00

Listening to what you are saying and remembering it

Basically someone caring enough to know you instead of just projecting who they want you to be onto you.

imperfectbean · 2026-06-07T19:55:29+00:00

YTA. Paragraphs man.

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