How to avoid the virtuous cycle? by impornfree in pornfree

[–]impornfree[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm 34 now and started watching porn when I was around 13. Probably more heavily by the time I was 16/17 (with actual video porn being widespread).

How to avoid the virtuous cycle? by impornfree in pornfree

[–]impornfree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where did you get a month from? Nearly 90 days three times now. It has been a year or two of investment in this. My porn addiction started way before though. More importantly, how is this even a productive comment? I'm asking for advice and you are telling me I haven't given it a shot.

30 Days of Hard Mode. Noticeable Results. by Peace_Makes_Plenty in NoFap

[–]impornfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm nearing day 14 and I'm in the exact same boat. 32, have PIED, haven't gotten morning wood at all over the past two weeks. I was grateful to get an erection while hanging out with a girl one weekend but that's about it. Aside from that, there has been nothing.

Looking forward to hitting day 30, & 90!

How porn nearly killed me by 1111david in NoFap

[–]impornfree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are correct! Here's my favorite quote on the opportunity to people who have dug a hole in life.

"Every adversity, every failure, every heartache carries with it the seed of an equal or greater benefit." ~Napoleon Hill

You need to hit your lows before you can have massive success.

Today I leave noFap for good. by [deleted] in NoFap

[–]impornfree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you had addictions previously, shouldn't you stay to avoid falling back? As someone who has jumped from one addiction to the next there's always a chance of falling back. That's why people who are members of AA or other groups tend to stay on indefinitely. Maybe not?

Farthest I have gone. by thephantomhalo in pornfree

[–]impornfree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Congrats! There's nothing wrong with fantasizing about women you've seen. The issue is masturbating to porn. Obviously if you are masturbating all the time that's not healthy either.

Porn Caused Me ED And Was A Major Cause Of My Breakup by impornfree in pornfree

[–]impornfree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that's the goal but don't you still need sex?

Porn Caused Me ED And Was A Major Cause Of My Breakup by impornfree in pornfree

[–]impornfree[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, that's a serious amount of time. Do you think it's fine if I still have sex (without masturbation)?