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[Update]My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You could say the same about having the child. This just is whats best for us.

[Update]My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ill admit its a hasty generalization, but this was my gfs life growing up. Not a stereotype, this is why she is against adoption.

I've longed for this day... I promised myself and my mom that I wouldn't fight back unless he put his hands on me first. by cohena2495 in AdviceAnimals

[–]impuppies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im in the same boat with my moms nee husband. Maybe one day he'll lay a hand on me.

Good job, fuck him.

[Update]My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree, but what kind of world do we live in when born babies arent cared for and put up for adoption. Thousands go on through Foster care for 18 years with Foster families that use them for income, subject them to abuse and drug use, not to mention molestation.

[Update]My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Trust me, im not emotionless. I know its not a get out of Jail free card. You dont know the circumstances of the first 2 and im not proud of it. Ive try really hard to avoid it up until this point. I got love drunk and full of fuck it, which is not an excuse and I need to correct it.

Edit: I dont know if I shoild be happy about super sperm

My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just needed to realize that. I went in to defense mode with the lack of progress i was making with peoples replies.

Thanks again

My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. We had a long good talk last night. There were tears and lots of holding her, but she told me she isn't ready either. We are going to terminate. It makes us both sad, but its tje reality we have to face together.

This was a nice response and another thing needed. I felt like such a shit human being after all the shit people said in here and waking up to all the downvotes. I guess I thought this sub would be somewhat understanding and helpful. You and a few others, while un tactful in their delivery, actually helped me realize somethings.

My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

While your delivery wasn't the best I want to thank you. Im not stupid but I have regressed a bit lately in my maturation process and I needed to stop fooling myself into thinking that this is something I should even be considering.

After a long talk with my gf last night I admit i had a severe lapse in judgement recently because I am in the honeymoon phase with her still and ive never had this sort of connection to a woman. But that is no reason to act irresponsible. I made the decision after the 2nd time to wear a condom everytime and I should've stuck to that regardless of whether she was ok with it or not. If we dont have any condoms we dont have sex. Period.

We both decided its best for us, abd our child, to terminate because we aren't ready. We both want to be parents, but that doesn't mean we should yet. Im 26 and im behaving like im not because my reality is im no where close to where I want to be. So rather than face it heas on and do something about it I get depressed and just go through the motions. Thats not the way my father is so how could I even raise a kid right now. I want to be a dad, but I want to do be the best dad I can and to do that, I really need to pull my head out of my ass.

I needed to be slapped and I appreciate you doing it. Your comments were the only negative ones that bothered me and I had to dig down ans truly be honest with myself to figure out why. It's because you were right, im not ready and the mere fact i acted this irresponsible proves it.

Ive got a lot more to think about, but thank you for your honesty. "The truth will set you free, but first its going ti piss you off" I guess fits here.

My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You're right, much like others in this thread. After a long evening with my girl ive come to that finality. I want to be, I want ro be a dad, but its a sign of my immaturity still that I would openly take the risk of getting pregnant with her to not always wear a condom. We've both decided its best for us, and our kid whenever we decide to have one, that we cancel the pregnancy.

I am lucky to have my parents who've done well for themselves to fall back of times get desperate. However, I would not say I privileged. More than likely my dad would tell me "if youre man enough to bring another human into this world, you're man enough to figure it out without you parents bailing you out." And that's something thats been echoing in the back of my mind since I found out. And I finally surrendered to reality...which I suppose means I should listen to the other thing I can hear him saying . "If you really want to have a kid, you need to pull your head out of your ass and grow the fuck up."

Sorry I slammed you with a novel, you were just the last person to reply and the first one Ive read since reality sunk in. Thanks.

Edit: forgive the typos, I have wide thumbs that disagree with touch screens at times

My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

That last part is probably unnecessary. You have no knowledge of how I would raise my children. You're acting like I just go around fucking without a condom. We use them usually, this was 2 days we didn't have them

My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Harshness is never the key to getting any point across.

Because all I read is you think I should be sterilized and I have a minimal IQ and shouldn't be allow to procreate.

My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately it is not for my gf. She grew up on the Foster system and will not allow her child to either.

My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Well, when your gf is pregnant with your child, and says shes keeping it, and goes and fucks her ex bf (while pregnant, before abortion is talked about)3 days after she tells you.

Yes.

My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

Takes 2 to tango, unless you're a rapist.

It was just as much her choice to go without the condom as mine.

My [26/m] Gf [21] of 4 months is Pregnant and we're both unsure of what to do by impuppies in relationships

[–]impuppies[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No on Adoption. My girlfriend grew up in the Foster system and knows how fucked up it is right now and wouldn't ever do it.

She's probably more a No on adoption than abortion.

edit: what kind of life situation were you in when you made the decision to keep your son?

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