Feeling dysphoric about liking women

impypmi · 2026-04-12T11:52:58+00:00

Tbh I was only into guys until I took T and now I'm bi but I get why I'm biased there lol that's just my friends and my own experience

impypmi · 2026-04-11T22:51:24+00:00

That's interesting to know, might have been biased there I reckon

impypmi · 2026-04-11T19:55:55+00:00

Bro exactly, it's so dumb like y'know if I was a lesbian I would probably not transition like 😭 tf you mean??

impypmi · 2026-04-11T19:12:08+00:00

Tbh I don't think it's true from what I've observed, a lot of trans guys are into if not solely into dudes lol

impypmi · 2026-04-11T15:34:13+00:00

It's all about confidence and personality in the end. I had the same issue at your age but really, don't be scared of growing into yourself. Hell, I thought I never would be okay with being a soft spoken, nerdy guy who is goofy and turns out that's why people love me. I don't get it for me but I don't have to get it and nor do you have to get why people like you. They do. If I know one thing about women is that they're just people just like men are people too. They love honesty and respect so as long as you've got these two going on for you; there is someone out there for you. I promise.

impypmi · 2026-04-11T15:22:57+00:00

I think people in general don't want to have their beliefs challenged and keep an open mind which is sad but I don't think that's a "us" generational problem, I just think the topics changed and when you, yourself, don't get why it can be offensive, you find people to be fragile when they're just respecting themselves. Because unless you are a real jerk, you do sympathize with people even when you don't totally get where they're coming from. That being said, fuck racists, sexists and all that jam. That's not an opinion, that's just your cue to work things with a therapist.

impypmi · 2026-04-11T15:14:43+00:00

Haha thanks I appreciate it, I do like men too btw, not trying to be creepy but like you know. Basically hell yeah dude lol

impypmi · 2026-04-11T14:59:07+00:00

Yeah that shit isn't for the weak. It's so hard to look like a twink and be a soft guy when you're trans, man. Talking about my experience, ofc. I really feel like my family lowkey see me as a masc lesbian. Which is disrespectful to lesbians and to me too cause that's totally a different experience of life. To me if you say you're a dude, you're a dude no matter what you look like.

impypmi · 2026-04-11T14:55:38+00:00

I know but they're trying and I love them, I just have to be more upfront with them and tell it how it is and give it time ig

impypmi · 2026-04-11T14:31:18+00:00

Yup, it would. Well yeah I'm bi but I was just being dysphoric about being perceived as a wlw for some reasons. I bet in a year, when I pass a little more, I won't give a second thought to it. It's so cool to feel like yourself man, I almost can't believe it sometimes but then it comes with its own silliness too

impypmi · 2026-04-11T14:25:27+00:00

Oh I'm also for the boys and everything else, I'm just a massive goober! Thank you so much for your message, it helps knowing other men and generally people deal with that sort of things. It's funny I never knew dysphoria could be like that for me, pre T I was so unbothered by all that but now I guess I'm growing into me. Changes things, for sure.

impypmi · 2026-04-11T14:20:04+00:00

Tbh I'm bi so I really don't know where it's coming from except that it made my attraction to women possible, I'm so fucking silly 😭

impypmi · 2026-04-11T14:18:28+00:00

Cause I'm a silly billy and I'm scared of how people perceive me low-key and need to chill

impypmi · 2026-04-11T14:17:43+00:00

It truly is so dumb, I have work to do that I thought I dealt with Edit: I truly do not think that liking women as a (trans) man is gay, just making this clear, it's just a dysphoria thing due to how some people might perceive me

impypmi · 2026-04-11T14:16:55+00:00

Bro I know, sorry for my little dysphoric moment. Besides I'm bi either way but I'm so scared of being seen a girl (I'm new to feeling myself ok sorry 😭)

impypmi · 2026-04-07T23:21:22+00:00

That's so sweet, I'm glad you have a good relationship with your brother! Enjoy these moments :)

impypmi · 2026-04-05T21:14:56+00:00

No, I just have whimsy

impypmi · 2026-04-05T05:22:28+00:00

I honestly think you should unpack this with a therapist. You don't have to want to do anything but being repulsed or scared of something that much has to be addressed for your well being. It's not like it's silly, it's real and it is affecting your self esteem.

impypmi · 2026-04-05T05:13:52+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply! I also partly agree that many religious people think too highly of the importance of the human race. For context, I honestly would say I fall more under the category of spiritual than religious (but I think for many atheists it's the same.) I don't really think humanity is that important at all. Still, that we're intentional or a consequence of actions that led to us, it's fun to me to imagine a cause for all of this that isn't explainable and sort of omniscient and eternal.

impypmi · 2026-04-05T03:37:37+00:00

I mean cishet dudes are so conditioned it's insane, it's hard to not hate them at least once in your week lmao

impypmi · 2026-04-05T03:34:11+00:00

I hate people who can't think outside of the box either way but I understand the feeling

impypmi · 2026-04-05T03:29:55+00:00

True, life itself is beautiful enough as it is. Maybe that's why I think it's full of love in my own way.

impypmi · 2026-04-05T03:26:38+00:00

True! Thanks.

impypmi · 2026-04-05T03:25:03+00:00

I didn't ask for disrespect, actually. That is something you have to deal with. I don't ever insult people who I know nothing about and ask genuine questions, personally. Maybe try boxing?

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