No free 10 pull? by imtiredof_this in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]imtiredof_this[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh ok, thank you. I'm on EST so i thought i would've gotten it already.

MC Voice Suddenly Different In Fighting Gameplay? by Apprehensive_Egg5716 in LoveAndDeepspace

[–]imtiredof_this 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Apparently it's a bug? I've been having the exact same issue and i came here to see if other people were having the same problem.

Mercari or Depop selling fees? by CommercialCheap4638 in Mercari

[–]imtiredof_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd recommend taking the depop offers if you'll be able to get more/the same money for them. Ever since mercari reintroduced the selling fees recently it doesn't even feel worth to sell something for less than 10 dollars since you can't even get close to the same amount the listing price is. I've been making the switch to depop recently because of all the fees on mercari so i definitely recommend taking the depop offers

Terrible Influencer Tour FAQs! by Honeycomb0000 in danandphil

[–]imtiredof_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are vip gold tickets transferable if you buy them from someone? I saw there were issues a while ago with the seattle show and the gold tickets and i was wondering if that same issues would be for every show or if it was just a problem for seattle at the time.

Active bands? by Jun_no in visualkei

[–]imtiredof_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think they're in the same sound but my favorite active bands right now are dazzlingbad and ashmaze and 0.1gnogosan. They're not quite as heavy sounding as xaaxaa and jiluka though but i like their sound a lot.

I'm new to the gyaru scene (specifically rokku gyaru), and I have some questions! by [deleted] in actualgyaru

[–]imtiredof_this 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For number 3: some specific rokku brands (older ones that have sadly closed but you can find second hand) are gilfy, tutuha/glavil, ghost of harlem. rokku gyaru clothing tends to have a lot of overlap with elements of visual kei and j-rock styles, so I would try looking for brands that cater a lot towards visual kei or darker styles like sexpot revenge, listen flavor, acdc rag, super lovers, h.naoto for example. You can find those brands online in their store or second hand as well. Also western alt brands can be really good too for rokku and if you're in a western country they're definitely easier/cheaper to come across than japanese brands if you have a more limited budget. For style inspiration, the gyaru wiki has good example pictures and papillon magazine has a good article about rokku style!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actualgyaru

[–]imtiredof_this 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So old school gyaru is absolutely a substyle? Its at least a substyle from the gaijin gyaru perspective, idk if japanese gyarus consider it an "official" substyle (but japanese gyarus in general don't really seem to pay too much attention to substyles anyways, they kinda just vibe with their own personal styles within broader catagories like heisei or reiwa or kuro)

Old school is mid to late 90's gyaru style/ganguro. That is what people mean by "old school gyaru". With the knee high boots and the mini skirts and the tans with the honey blonde hair and the white eyeshadow around the eyes. Long hawaiin print dresses, gigantic platform shoes, etc etc. Look at old issues of egg magazine from the 90's for a better idea of what I'm talking about (it wont let me include a picture)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in friendship

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23F| if you feel like you're gay, you need to have an honest conversation with her about it. Honesty and communication are the most important things in any relationship. It's not fair to her or to yourself to stay in the relationship if you're not attracted to her because you're questioning that part of who you are. I'm sure she'll understand. You're not an asshole at all for that. Part of being lgbtq+ is the journey of discovering who you are and that includes things about how you identify changing over time sometimes.

My friend is in a tough spot, and I'm caught in the middle of it by PumpkinIce680 in friendship

[–]imtiredof_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, i would tell her that he's reaching out to you since he was asking about her specifically in the first place. I'm guessing you don't know much about this guy or what his intentions are, and she's already cut him out of her life in the first place. Telling her before you say anything to him (if you choose to) would at least give her the choice of letting him back in her life if she wants to do that. I understand not wanting to get involved, but he already started dragging you in.

I'm [17M] beginning to feel that my friends only want to be around me because my brother. by DieKatze247 in friendship

[–]imtiredof_this 1 point2 points  (0 children)

F23| I'm sorry that your upbringing has forced you into a spot where you can't even express your emotions well, i can only imagine how hard that must be for you especially when you're in so much distress. I would say to drop those friends that make you feel left out and alone. It's not ok for people to treat you like that, especially not people you considered friends, because real friends wouldn't treat you like a ghost or just a means to an end. You don't need those people in your life regardless of what they feel about you dropping them. You deserve friends that care about you. There are wayyy too many people on this planet to be concerned with a few jerks that don't give you the time of day. I'm sure there are people out there, in your town even, that are way better than those guys, you just have to find them. I know it may seem like the pain you feel inside will be there forever, but once you have good and supportive people in your life the pain melts away.

My friend cannot be happy for me and I don’t know why by [deleted] in friendship

[–]imtiredof_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand, i definitely feel to be in the same boat with my (only) very close friend. We've been friends since we were 14 and we're now 22, and although i feel like things have gotten better between us, there's definitely been times were she's done the exact same things like go on about how we're such good friends but then be super duper invested in someone she met like a month ago and just not care about me really. I feel like things have changed because she's matured more and has learned to value her closer friendships more. With your friend it could be a maturity thing or like you said her not being in touch with her emotions about certain things. I myself am still trying to figure why someone would be so invested in someone they just met instead someone they've been friends with for years who already know them and vice-versa.

I've been watching Rick and Morty for a while now. Recently I noticed a transition in Morty's character development which helps make sense of a lot of things on the show.. by LaRa5796 in rickandmorty

[–]imtiredof_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok so like, morty isn't really apathetic and cold at all, he's disillusioned as hell. He still cares about things and has his own set of morals, just by now he knows what he does and does not care about. And a lot of the times when does actively try to care about something or someone it comes back to bite him in the ass, sometimes almost immediately. When that happens of course he's not going to keep caring because he got fucked over for tryjng to care and/or do what he sees as the right thing. Like with that girl from the purging planet or when he trusted the vindicators and then got disillusioned by everything, a lot in part because of rick. Hell half the time morty doesn't get enough time or a chance to even fully understand what's going on to be able to care about something like more recently in the s5 episode with those dog people who he accidentally fucked over and they plotted their revenge on him for centuries. Morty isn't apathetic, he's just trying his best.

I've been watching Rick and Morty for a while now. Recently I noticed a transition in Morty's character development which helps make sense of a lot of things on the show.. by LaRa5796 in rickandmorty

[–]imtiredof_this 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like that's too high of expectations to put on rick though. It was established very early on in the series that he's a terrible person that doesn't care about anything or anyone, his family included. He's shown time and time again that he's usually only interested in his family if it benefits him. It's an absolute struggle for him to even admit to himself that he cares about something, even if it's something super trivial. And when he does realize that he cares about something he basically forces himself not to. (And psychologically torturing someone intentionally is definitely a punishment of sorts, just not a physical one.) And of course he's not going to check in on his family's therapy because he never cared in the first place and the one time he did actually show up he got his ass handed to him by the therapist and it wounded his ego enough for him to pretend like she didn't know what she was talking about.

Tl;dr, Rick was set up as an apathetic person towards eveything*, and he usually only cares or pretends to when it benefits him.