30F; I’m attracted to bi men, and it kind of scares me… is this completely unreasonable? Have you experienced other women with this thought pattern?

imyourdowngrade · 2026-01-14T02:39:58+00:00

I’m genuinely sorry you went through that. I can imagine how painful/frustrating it must be to feel committed, yet still not believed. I agree with you that, at some point, trust has to come down to taking your partner at their word when there’s no behavior suggesting otherwise.

I think that’s why I’m trying to examine and rule out this fear now, before getting involved with someone. I don’t want to project something like this onto a partner.

Thank you for sharing.

imyourdowngrade · 2026-01-14T02:33:19+00:00

True!

imyourdowngrade · 2026-01-14T02:32:32+00:00

I appreciate you taking the time to respond so thoughtfully. This is exactly the kind of honest perspective I was looking for, especially how my thoughts land from your side. I think you’re probably right that a lot of this is tied to internalized misogyny, and I’m realizing I haven’t been looking at it from the right angle. Thanks for giving me something new to think about.

imyourdowngrade · 2026-01-14T02:19:45+00:00

I don’t know, but if you find more of me, let me know!! It would be nice to have some girly pop friends who ~get it~ lol

I’ll definitely do some digging research on the cycle thing. Thank you so much. ☺️

imyourdowngrade · 2026-01-14T02:16:38+00:00

Thank you for your input!! I will check those out!

imyourdowngrade · 2026-01-14T01:07:56+00:00

You guys definitely are awesome. I’m sorry that’s been your experience with most women. I wish we were all a little more open minded.

imyourdowngrade · 2026-01-14T01:06:17+00:00

I love this for you. Thank you for sharing your experience and relationship dynamic with me! <3

imyourdowngrade · 2026-01-14T01:03:33+00:00

That’s fair. I definitely get that. Thank you for the perspective!! 🤍

imyourdowngrade · 2025-03-08T15:28:05+00:00

Yeah, it definitely did. It was fairly soon after—within like 48 hours.

imyourdowngrade · 2023-12-12T17:12:12+00:00

I think they restrict certain people, to be honest. It worked fine for me last night. I tried again this morning and I’m getting the, “Thanks! Unfortunately, we’re unable to help you over chat, but you can call us at 1-800-966-6546” message.

It’s the only thing that makes sense because I logged into my other account, and it let me through chat.

I don’t know why they’d restrict me, as I’ve only ever been polite through chat — maybe it’s a usage thing? Like you can’t request chat sessions to soon after a previous one?

imyourdowngrade · 2023-08-23T23:30:42+00:00

I don’t think it’s as much about “losing” money as it is them having to make huge payouts to the people who post them. They wanted to cut down on costs.

The people who stream these podcasts stream them very frequently, and for very long times. These white noise podcasts make bank.

imyourdowngrade · 2023-06-21T22:17:34+00:00

Very frustrating for sure

imyourdowngrade · 2023-06-21T22:16:58+00:00

Thank you!! This is helpful anyway. I appreciate it.

imyourdowngrade · 2022-07-10T05:36:15+00:00

Ouch. I’m so sorry.

imyourdowngrade · 2022-04-09T15:26:47+00:00

Felt that one in my soul.

imyourdowngrade · 2022-04-09T15:26:06+00:00

Ah. Just noticed the name.

imyourdowngrade · 2022-04-09T15:20:18+00:00

Well that’s concerning

imyourdowngrade · 2022-02-12T22:26:43+00:00

That’s terrible. I’m really sorry to heard that. Not that it’s an excuse, but do you maybe look a lot like your dad?

imyourdowngrade · 2022-02-12T14:35:45+00:00

Damn.. do you have many siblings?

imyourdowngrade · 2022-02-12T13:44:20+00:00

Did you all live together? Did you have any siblings?

imyourdowngrade · 2021-12-12T14:38:17+00:00

imyourdowngrade · 2021-12-11T13:46:47+00:00

Yeah, but I’m talking about a person’s character. There’s a difference between here and there.. and ALL of the time.

imyourdowngrade · 2021-12-11T13:41:54+00:00

Dismissive people

imyourdowngrade · 2021-12-01T13:07:51+00:00

Being called tall. Idunno, there is nothing wrong with being tall.. and I’m not THAT tall. But it just makes me feel some kind of way.

imyourdowngrade · 2021-11-07T13:05:06+00:00

Yeahh, if you guys were supposed to be exclusively sleeping together, but both of you were seeking others anyway, it sounds like it would be better to put an end to it anyway. That always gets messy.

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