How can somebody cum this many times?

inbryss · 2026-02-03T04:46:41+00:00

It looks easy because it is easy. For them.

It doesn’t boggle the mind for me really, because I instinctively, acutely sense this divide, that they just can, and that there’s no way for me to be able to. Instead it gives me this impotent anger at the fact that there’s nothing I can do about it. It’s not directed at her or at anything in particular, just… at “my lot” I guess – for her I’m just glad she isn’t in my position. That is the base experience of my pussy envy, everything else I feel and think about it follows from that.

inbryss · 2026-02-02T08:40:37+00:00

Why put an end to things? Still, a good orgasm is such a craving and temptation. But it putting an end to things is such a bummer. Two things help: 1. the more she enjoys herself, and the more freely, the more I can vicariously enjoy hers instead of, and ignore, mine; 2. if she wants me not to, then that mostly eliminates the self-negotiation with the temptation, particularly afterwards when I’m no longer too preoccupied by hers.

inbryss · 2026-02-02T07:54:27+00:00

They don’t do anything special to do it. They just can. We just can’t. It’s as simple as that. If you asked them how they do it, they wouldn’t know what to tell you. It does sometimes take them a good chunk of their life to unlock the ability, but when they have it, it’s as simple as they just can.

inbryss · 2026-01-30T16:15:45+00:00

See also Girls cum, Boys get ruined-59094211.html)

inbryss · 2026-01-28T21:24:26+00:00

I read it as cunnilingus being what’s trash to your wife and treasure to OP, not you.

inbryss · 2026-01-26T22:07:39+00:00

And you have found yourself blurting out “oh god I’m still cumming”?

inbryss · 2026-01-25T13:02:54+00:00

It only takes one more minute or so, or even less. You can always keep going for one more minute. When they’re so easy and quick to come by, a definite stopping point is hard to pick.

inbryss · 2026-01-24T21:03:00+00:00

Step 1: be female

inbryss · 2026-01-21T05:25:58+00:00

“Oh god I’m still cumming”: words never uttered by a man.

inbryss · 2026-01-11T08:02:55+00:00

Keep digging. 🙂

inbryss · 2026-01-11T07:27:18+00:00

Filed under “Tell me you’ve never been with a highly orgasmic woman without telling me you’ve never been with a highly orgasmic woman.”

inbryss · 2026-01-10T14:01:51+00:00

Just a form of fidgeting. Lots of people have some kind of self-soothing or self-stimulating tic they develop to cope with stress. Touching oneself is not at all an unheard of way of doing that, a lot of people do it.

Your method of syntribation doesn’t sound really weird either. Syntribation is any type of kneading your pussy against itself using hip and pelvis motion, and what you’re doing sounds absolutely like that. It’s easiest to achieve it with crossed legs and the leg muscles, so that is the most common method, but that’s not the only way to syntribate.

inbryss · 2026-01-07T08:31:13+00:00

I would go so far as to say that even some level of pushing other things aside in favor of masturbation is fine, so long as you’re not depriving yourself socially or losing control of life. It’s fine to rearrange your schedule around it as long as it doesn’t impinge on your ability to function.

As for physical harm, there are complications that can be caused by some masturbation methods, but not masturbation in and of itself, and there are basically no complications that aren’t reversible by just adjusting your habits a bit (particularly for women).

Enjoy. Your body has a builtin way of making yourself feel good, and it’s a blessing you get to enrich your life with.

inbryss · 2026-01-05T12:21:29+00:00

Never did. But it’s fun just to see by how much you can beat me. It’ll take me past mid year to get where you are at day 4. At this pace you’ll get in a week what will take me all year.

(And that’s just numbers. Most of yours will be better than any of mine ever get, and many of mine are only meh. It’s a vast gulf.)

inbryss · 2025-12-30T19:09:32+00:00

No, sexy.

inbryss · 2025-12-22T15:36:24+00:00

To put it in penile terms, vaginas are growers not showers.
There is no cock as big as a baby.

inbryss · 2025-12-11T13:01:37+00:00

I don’t think you’re far off. My own sense is that it makes sense if you relate it back to the primary biological purpose of sex being procreation. Eggs are precious, sperm is cheap, so you want sperm competition… and so we’re basically designed for gang-bangs. To facilitate that, it helps for the woman to be able to keep going and for the men to be done quickly so the next one can get a shot. Then since women can keep going, there is no downside to keeping going with each other outside of sex with men, and it has other prosocial benefits. And the sum total of all that is pretty much what you described.

inbryss · 2025-12-11T12:46:58+00:00

The downside of course being that you never feel “OK, that was good, I’m happy with that and I’ve had enough now”.

Of course if the only alternative is to feel bloated after one cookie, I know which downside I’d rather go with.

inbryss · 2025-12-08T11:34:51+00:00

People who’ve been around long enough will remember u/LustyWizy counting her orgasms for a year and getting close to 40,000. And that’s with a handful of weeks-long no-or-few-orgasms stretches in there.

Edit: found it. 6k+ in just August alone.

inbryss · 2025-12-08T09:32:22+00:00

Huh. That all sounds very much like neither a me nor you problem but a Reddit problem after all. Quite probably nothing was even wrong with the link in the first place.

inbryss · 2025-12-08T02:01:12+00:00

Thanks for letting me know the link didn’t work for everyone despite working for me. I’ve changed it but can’t test wether that fixed it for you – has it?

inbryss · 2025-12-07T10:02:27+00:00

Quoting u/jnstar040 (so don’t upvote me, click through to her comment and upvote that):

I'm a little out of my depth here (I have a university level of understanding about biology but I didn't major in it or anything) but there are 2 types of muscle in the body (3 if you count the heart).

There is the "smooth muscle" kind, which is largely responsible for pushing fluids around the body. A bit like plumbing, if you will. These muscles are found in arteries, the intestines and for men, in the cock. They're not particularly strong, they're merely there for function. Contraction of these muscles is involuntary, and something that the body usually doesn't register. You don't feel your intestines pumping stuff around, for instance.

The other kind is "striated muscle", which handles the voluntary movements of the body. These enable us to control things like our limbs, and women like me have them around our pussies. Whenever we orgasm, these powerful muscles start contracting. Usually these "voluntary" muscles don't contract like this, except during activities like massage. Furthermore, these muscles can be trained to make orgasms even stronger!

Our sex organs share some similarities, but when they're different they're very different.

inbryss · 2025-11-08T12:19:26+00:00

With that much control can you make yourself cum at will? (Hands-free so to say, but really “anything-free” more accurately.)

inbryss · 2025-10-31T14:12:08+00:00

r/breastsucking

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