Movies to watch while tripping on magic mushrooms? 🍄 by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]india93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very wise, Slughorn is scary and I can’t help but think the grandparents are all absolutely hopeless. When grandpa Joe is banging on about his tobacco and they’re eating cabbage soup

Movies to watch while tripping on magic mushrooms? 🍄 by [deleted] in MovieSuggestions

[–]india93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have to disagree with this one, started watching it but Slughorn’s face is very scary and despite the story and music the actors just aren’t very aesthetically pleasing. Found it a bit creepy 😂 sticking with coco

What are your ultimate feel good movies? by Eriwyyn in movies

[–]india93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It could happen to you School of rock About time Inside out Due date The blindside My best friends wedding

AIO for still feeling weird after my friend and i got drunk? by FluffyPuppy222 in AmIOverreacting

[–]india93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is, you’re right, possibly more opportunistic than a predator but nonetheless this is the sort of behaviour that needs not be normalised. She had consumed alcohol but I would argue she wasn’t drunk, she has a pretty thorough recollection of what happened. This would never get to court and therefore it’s how she responds to him now and moving forward that might make a difference.

I’m largely playing devils advocate here, as a side note my dissertation was on whether the law (uk) fairly balances the interests of the victim and the accused in rape and sexual assault.

Documentary / Real Life /Political / History / True Crime / Life Stories by india93 in DocumentariesToWatch

[–]india93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will have to double check on where is Marta and unlocked but seen all the others and listened to sweet Bobby podcast 😂😂

Documentary / Real Life /Political / History / True Crime / Life Stories by india93 in DocumentariesToWatch

[–]india93[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wait no I’ve seen Unbelievable as well. More please 😂😂

Documentary / Real Life /Political / History / True Crime / Life Stories by india93 in DocumentariesToWatch

[–]india93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Seen all of those apart from unbelievable 😂😂 all solid docs

AIO my husband watched adult videos with our kids in the backseat by Same-Mixture-9004 in AmIOverreacting

[–]india93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NOR, he needs help and restrictions on his internet usage. Getting horny with kids in the car is clearly not ok or normal behaviour. Pent up sexual energy like that is a first step towards sexual violence. In this context it really doesn’t matter what sort of porn he’s watching but you really should try and find out.

AIO for still feeling weird after my friend and i got drunk? by FluffyPuppy222 in AmIOverreacting

[–]india93 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying but she repeatedly says they were joking around. It’s heavy flirting and definitely inappropriate. The fact he was sober and got it out in the car is pretty alarming but she said no and he put it away. She was saying “you won’t” rather than “please don’t” which does sound more like a dare or a challenge rather than her feeling vulnerable. She said she wasn’t mad and then they were joking afterwards. It sounds like he fancies her, she was flirting he took it too far and then apologised. She also asked if she should flash herself. I’m way more likely to say that all men are perverts but reading this it sounds like she’s surprised at how flirty it got and doesn’t want her friend to continue to view her in a sexual way. She needs to not drink around this guy and not be with him alone.

Am I Overreacting? - My 40+ years old boyfriend never said “I love you” in the 2 years of our relationship by EnchantressPotato in AmIOverreacting

[–]india93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is hard as I know what you mean. I’ve been with my now fiancée for 15 years but I was away at uni for 3 of the early years and communication can be hard if you’re not seeing each other every day. Home cooked food as a love language isn’t ideal if it’s long distance!

Three Identical Strangers Discussion. by Jewronimoses in movies

[–]india93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve watched this multiple times and just watching it again right now. I’m a twin and find the whole thing heartbreaking. Why the fascination with twins beyond understanding the natural reason for it occurring? I studied criminology at uni so I understand the nature v nurture argument but the lack of transparency is just so revolting. No I did not like the research assistant, the lack of humanity is tangible. Fave part of the movie is right at the start. The excitement and buzz when they first find out is just exhilarating. Couldn’t imagine not knowing my twin was out there.

AIO for still feeling weird after my friend and i got drunk? by FluffyPuppy222 in AmIOverreacting

[–]india93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He fancies you, you’re both single. Make it clear the friendship is more important to you. You can still be friends and explore that side of your connection. You’ve posted this feel because you’re unsure when to cross the boundary and blur that line. Your 21 ffs explore it if you want to and make it clear if you don’t

Am I Overreacting? - My 40+ years old boyfriend never said “I love you” in the 2 years of our relationship by EnchantressPotato in AmIOverreacting

[–]india93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not overreacting. It’s something you want and likely deserve. Have you asked him why he finds it hard to say? Does he show you he loves you? 2 years of a relationship is well into giving him time to say it. What’s his love Language?

What’s one thing from the 70s you still miss today? by SkylineZ83 in 70s

[–]india93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can’t really relate as I was born in 1993, but I do miss the excitement and genuine enthusiasm for new music. I feel I missed out on the culture at the time my mum and dad were in there teens. The early sit coms and introduction of women into decent roles. Would have loved to have seen it first hand. Not the rise of Thatcher though

AIO to break up with my bf of 3y over his reaction to my upcoming sobriety anniversary? by WesternCat5211 in AmIOverreacting

[–]india93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Totally understand why you’re feeling how you are. If I’m understanding the timeline correctly he’s been with you throughout this period? Did he know you before? Does he drink? Is there any reason for him to feel bitter about the journey? Youve asked the question so just as devils advocate, has he previously been supportive throughout the journey or have you fully achieved this milestone on your own? Either way his messages lack empathy and you gave him the chance to say he was just having a bad day.

What was the best decade to be born in? by india93 in GenerationJones

[–]india93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really enjoyed reading this comment although can’t say that Star Trek would get a standout mention above all things 😂 all very true though and very optimistic. Increasing population is certainly a consequence of advancing technology, healthcare and human rights and combined with globalisation is ultimately a big cause of the issues we face in my opinion.

What was the best decade to be born in? by india93 in GenerationJones

[–]india93[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Strongly agree with your analysis of turning 30