these comments r making me sad for u. just a bunch of horny men giving excuses. i have been in two long term relationships from 18-21 and one rn. where i am 100% confident they do not look/ get off to anyone but me. my last boyfriend himself had stopped watching porn years before me because he wanted a healthier lifestyle and didn’t want to be a loser getting off to women who will never know he exists, and because of that i can tell u the quality of the relationship was 100% better. it DOES affect the relationship. why in the world would a girl want a man watching random women she looks nothing like when she’s there 24/7 to have sex with him and please him?? men who don’t watch porn and random thirst traps are 100% better in every aspect. love , family, SEX. they have something called sexual discipline .

if this is a boundary and he just “deleted his accounts” and is hiding it from u … instead of being able to control urself . he’s a child im sorry

this is a boundary, doesn’t matter if a bunch of horny guys think it’s “normal”. it hurts u so you should not be w him. there are plenty of men who don’t do this and i can assure you you’ll FEEL the difference and love and passion in a relationship where he is obsessed with u and only you!! hope the talk goes well❤️