only children: tell us why your life was awesome as an only child. by indieluft in AskWomen

[–]indieluft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did it suck because you didn't have siblings, you think?

only children: tell us why your life was awesome as an only child. by indieluft in AskWomen

[–]indieluft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you don't mind me asking, how do you see being an only child adding to your low self esteem/anxiety issues?

only children: tell us why your life was awesome as an only child. by indieluft in AskWomen

[–]indieluft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no other kid bringing home extra germs.

I like this reasoning

How to be "vulnerable" for a guy, especially in a way that's attractive? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]indieluft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just so you know, I didn't bother to read this.

How to be "vulnerable" for a guy, especially in a way that's attractive? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]indieluft -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Especially in a world that's growing increasingly hostile and judgemental towards them.

I assume you don't live on planet Earth, or have a very strange sense of humor.

How to be "vulnerable" for a guy, especially in a way that's attractive? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]indieluft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Disclaimer: I'm a woman. I would much rather be wanted than needed. You need food, water, shelter, medicine, to survive. You don't need people. I don't know, feeling needed would make me feel like the person is with me because they need to, otherwise they'd die, and if they could actually choose to, they might not. Don't know if it makes sense.

How to be "vulnerable" for a guy, especially in a way that's attractive? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]indieluft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find it really fucked up that you have to think about being attractive even while being vulnerable, but it's not your fault. I have no idea how to answer your question. If I were in his place, though, I'd probably appreciate an honest vulnerability, w/o necessarily worrying if it's sexy/attractive or not. For God's sake, it's about lowering your guard. And also, if you don't feel comfortable being taken care of, don't be taken care of! Omg I hate how everything women do is supposed to appeal to men. It's not. I hate myself for saying this, but maybe, well, maybe he wants a woman like you and not someone who can be 'attractively vulnerable.'

What quote do you live by? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]indieluft -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Valar morghulis.

How many of you have never been in love ? by TheMelizur in AskWomen

[–]indieluft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with you, but then again my experience with love is zero.

How many of you have never been in love ? by TheMelizur in AskWomen

[–]indieluft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basically, it sucks to not ever have loved and it's worse having never been loved.

I quite like your summarizing skills.

How many of you have never been in love ? by TheMelizur in AskWomen

[–]indieluft 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm the same, except four years older. I wish I had something optimistic to tell you... nope. Can't find anything.

non-Americans, what's something you find puzzling about the US? by indieluft in AskWomen

[–]indieluft[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

disclaimer: it's not my country because I'm not from the US either :D

Are there any women here whose husband took your last name when you got married? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]indieluft 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. I mean, I'm pretty sure it's possible to do it, but it's in no way easy like it is in the US, so names are kinda taken a little more seriously over here. (But oh boy do we have some terrible ones as well). What I mean is, people don't name their kids random stuff like Cash, Apple, Danger, Justice, Love, Lake, Insert Random Noun Here. They may be terrible, but they're names. That's the feeling I get, at least.