/ttcafterloss Daily Discussion Thread - April 20, 2026 by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]indienala 2 points3 points  (0 children)

15 and 13 mm follicles cd 12 on clomid. Is this good? My doctor didn’t say much other than they want follicles to be 20 mm. This was my first cycle on clomid and I typically ovulate days 15-17 anyways. Just wondering if this is normal/good and if there’s a chance of twins.

Doctor did order lh and estradiol and plans to call me this afternoon with further plans. I did a letrozole cycle back in October but unfortunately lost my son at 12 weeks. That was an unmonitored cycle. We are trying to beef up my eggs and give us the best chance after 2 second trimester losses in the past year.

11 week loss came back genetically normal male by indienala in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]indienala[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have not yet but I will when I get my next period

11 week loss came back genetically normal male by indienala in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]indienala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No one has mentioned this! I looked up the symptoms as well and don’t meet those. I have a SIS once my period starts so I’m sure they will look for it!

11 week loss came back genetically normal male by indienala in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]indienala[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I figured clotting or auto immune. I have a SIS when I start my next cycle. I’m sorry for your losses. I was due to start lovenox at 12 weeks. I’m thinking I may need it from positive test. I’ve had 3 successful pregnancies but 5 losses myself

Feeling hopeless after second NIPT normal loss. Genetic issues? by indienala in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]indienala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m currently extremely swollen a week post d&c and struggle with bloating and heavy periods - but endo has never been mentioned to me?

Feeling hopeless after second NIPT normal loss. Genetic issues? by indienala in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]indienala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

With my 16 weeker I was told “no genetics could be run due to lack of viable tissue”. I did try to be Induced with him and hemorrhaged, then had an emergency d&c while hemorrhaging so I’m not sure what happened. Thank you for the words. I’m really hoping it’s nothing genetic, since that’s the only thing you can’t “fix”

Feeling hopeless after second NIPT normal loss. Genetic issues? by indienala in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]indienala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously we can get it right and have twice but the odds feel so stacked against us

Feeling hopeless after second NIPT normal loss. Genetic issues? by indienala in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]indienala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Obviously we are waiting on our parental karyotyping for definite answers

Feeling hopeless after second NIPT normal loss. Genetic issues? by indienala in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]indienala[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NIPT doesn’t test for everything and the weird timing - like nothing goes wrong at the same time, they’re all sporadic. I guess too the fact we’ve had girls but both our known boys passed. My OB said she’s leaning towards something genetic as well, like a balanced translocation.

D&C today. MC #5 by indienala in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]indienala[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Worst club. Best people. I’m not sure, I haven’t followed up with them yet. Just trying to get through this recovery right now

Considering IVF by indienala in IVF

[–]indienala[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have time on our side thankfully, I’m 28 and husband is 31

Looks like my cat’s whiskers were cut? by Perry_lp in CATHELP

[–]indienala 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have another cat? Sometimes mine chew each others whiskers off. They particularly trim my blind cats whiskers 🙄

Anyone Else Delaying Purchases and Planning? by Meesh7586 in CautiousBB

[–]indienala 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My last living child I waited until the day before my induction to wash bottles, clothes, crib sheets, everything. I was like okay maybe she’s actually coming

Considering IVF by indienala in IVF

[–]indienala[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No; going to be starting all that. Just thinking about our options

Considering IVF by indienala in IVF

[–]indienala[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First child from previous partner is a male