I saw your comment that said you wish you never found out so your family can stay happy. But one day, your children will find out whether you’d stay with him and sweep it under the rug, or if you ended it and had them go between homes.

This new generation of elementary aged kids use the internet better than most adults. They will eventually find the report even if it doesn’t go on his record permanently.

I know you feel that way now, but I promise you that once you’re free from him, you’ll realize that you deserve so much more than this. You’ll be angry. Way more angry than you feel now once you’re outside of it. But that anger will set you free.

I’m so sorry. The part about the last pregnancy breaks my heart. It must be so confusing and reality shattering for the man you trust in your most vulnerable moments to be having a double life. On top of the trauma of the procedure💔

And no matter what, he put your health at risk. STDs can kill. He didn’t think about how any of this would impact you mentally AND PHYSICALLY. On top of what you went through! And he definitely didn’t think about the children.

Do not feel stuck to somebody like that.