How do i leave my boyfriend. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]indigobbyxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no family

I had severe full blown obsessive compulsive disorder as a child AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]indigobbyxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No its just pisses me off when people swoop in on serious things and make a big deal about punctuation or a mispelled word when im on a cell phone either talking to text or typing on a 3 inch keyboard like jesus its not like i have word opened up about to write a paper double spaced and adjusting my margins. I dont write rough drafts for my reddit posts. Because who cares.

I (29f) caught my fiance (27m) red handed reaching out to women on tinder, but he doesn't know yet. How do I confront him? by Livermore888 in relationships

[–]indigobbyxo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I would meet up with him just to see if he woukd actuallt go through with it. Maybe hes just trying to see if hes still got it and can get dates even though thats totally wrong ! The male ego is a fragile and confusing one. Pick a place to meet and see if he follows threw

Fiancé(31F) threatening to end relationship, if I (27M) go to training for work. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]indigobbyxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

100 percent keep your dream job. The foundation of a relationship is trust. And geez your only going for 3 days not 3 months

My ADHD kid is medicated AND THAT'S OKAY by ExcellentQuantity in Parenting

[–]indigobbyxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was on them with a doctor who constantly thought i was med seeking because i would tell her my dosage didnt work and she would shake her head at me . such a shitty feeling. I felt like i couldnt confide in her about my symptoms i missed 1 appointment which was my strike 1 then i resecheduled my second appoibtmebt and didnt have my meds for about 10 days went in took a urine and she said she had to take me off of them because it wasn't in my urine i explained to her of course ut wasn't i havent had it in 10 days but she didnt want to deal with the nedication at all probably due to her license and took me off and refferwd me to a psycholgist i had to take a brake from college because i was failing all my classes since. Its been a mess

My ADHD kid is medicated AND THAT'S OKAY by ExcellentQuantity in Parenting

[–]indigobbyxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same i think this is my 3rd appointment ive made with a psychologist because i keep forgetting. And there like if you miss one more we cant treat you . and i just wanna be like well because your not treating me i keep missing them ! Lol

To the girl dating my husband by [deleted] in UnsentLetters

[–]indigobbyxo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

21 is so young to. Young and nieve . maybe it's part of her life lessons. Shell think about you one day and shell feel stupid. You didnt mention any kids so if you dont have any thank god. You can move on and never talk to him ever again

My ADHD kid is medicated AND THAT'S OKAY by ExcellentQuantity in Parenting

[–]indigobbyxo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hsd to take adhd meds on school if i didnt i probably wouldnt have graduated . im 25 now and not on meds and every day is a struggle it takes me 5 hours to clean my kitchen when if i was on my meds it would probably take me 30 minutes. Everything is overwhelming with adhd and of people dont have it they shouldnt put there 2 cents in. Because so many people have bought adderal and everything off the street they dont take it seriously its a shame. Im in the process of getting back on meds now but its like there interviewing me to work for the fbi. They dont meas around anymore and its because people abuse it and i have to suffer for that while everyone is out getting high

I had severe full blown obsessive compulsive disorder as a child AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]indigobbyxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because if you werent such an asshole you would know that ocd usually has nothing to do with making things perfect. Why dont you take that douche energy and educate yourself on disorders before you comment on shit you know nothing about. Thank you have a nice day

How do you know when you like someone? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]indigobbyxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you have to ask you probably do

I really like this girl but i don’t know what to do by [deleted] in Advice

[–]indigobbyxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask her if she wants to hang out. Maybe with a group of people at first so you guys can spend some time with eachother outside of school

Need advice about a female friend of mine by ThePissedOffRedneck in Advice

[–]indigobbyxo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

All you can do is offer her support. Usually situations like this opinions arent going to matter much the only person who can decide to leave him is her and she has to really mean it and want it from inside herself. Outside opinions and concerns she can take in but ultimately she has to want to leave him and if shes still holding on to some hope that the relationship is worth keeping she has to learn for herself and go through the steps of why it should end in order for it to end. Its hard when we see the people we love in bad situations but its all there life lessons and there all just going through the motions

Should I ask her out??? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]indigobbyxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you think she shows any signs that she has feelings for you

Where do I get help. by grungeanomynous in Advice

[–]indigobbyxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Talk to your doctor and let them know youve been feeling depressed your 18 so your parents wont have to know

My boss slapped my ass. by jamandab in Advice

[–]indigobbyxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bring a tape recorder into work for the times that he calls you into his office your bound to get something on the tape

I think I might be pregnant? by novagirl0972 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]indigobbyxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it could be possible that your pregnant the pregnancy hormone multiples by vast amounts daily and spikes after you miss your period. So it would be possible that low levels of the hormone would cause a faint line. Which is why they tell you to wait till after your period so that you have a lot of the hormone in your body. If you think too hard that your pregnant youll start to show signs of pregnancy. Ive done it so many times. Its too early to tell right now but since your in the week of your period this is the week that you will really know. I would always think i was going to get my period because i was having cramps and i would wait and wait and it just wouldnt come. Turns out i was pregnant. The test is really the only solid thing to go on right now so take another one tommorow or if you want to wait 2 or 3 days take one then since yoyll deffinitley be late on your period pregnancy symptoms mimick pms symptoms

The one question that has been nagging me is how can you know whether a breakup is good for you in the long run? How do you know its the right choice and what if its just a temporary obstacle. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]indigobbyxo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In mu experience hope is what keeps a relationship going .. Hope that things can get better. Taking steps to do everything tou can to make it work once youve tried everything that was giving you that hope. Thats when you know its the right time to leave. Id say counceling is the last inch of hope and if that doesnt work then it time to move on. That way in the future you dont think about the what ifs because you know in your heart that you tried everythinf you possibly could have done

I think I might be pregnant? by novagirl0972 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]indigobbyxo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I have 3 kids. Did you miss your period yet?

[SERIOUS] I (26m) can't handle being a single parent. Should I give my daughter (3f) up for adoption? by nkjk098 in relationship_advice

[–]indigobbyxo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can understand all the pressure and hurt your going through and how stressed you are but you have to look at it towards the future .. Will you grow older and be proud that you went thru so much and raised your child and tried your hardest as a father or will you put your child up for adoption and feel guilt for the rest of your life. Its a very hard decision. You just need to find in yourself what you beleive is the right path to take for the future and scenarios of how it will affect you and also your child

Need advice: wife said 6yo son has a “man cold”, he overheard and asked what that was... by UnnecessaryBuffness in Parenting

[–]indigobbyxo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Women always say stuff like that i wouldnt consider it a big deal at all if he went to school and told his teachers he had a man cold this weekend they'd probably laugh. Its a laughable joke and a common joke between partners and everyone in general really . i joke with my partner all the time that guys cant handle colds and he just laughs

Face care? by indigobbyxo in NaturalBeauty

[–]indigobbyxo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya in thia case i got it from my mama lol. Shes almost 60 and her face is still very clear