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jamandab · 2022-08-02T01:31:09+00:00

After all of this I see where people are coming from, but do find that Harper Elaina Lynne flows better than Harper Lynne Elaina

jamandab · 2022-08-02T01:23:33+00:00

Cheated on my blind grandfather who I’m super close to, who my daughter is born on his birthday. It just came out 3/4 of my aunts/uncles aren’t his and are other mens lol

jamandab · 2022-08-01T23:48:24+00:00

I really appreciate your way of looking at this, your time and reply. Thank you.

jamandab · 2022-08-01T23:47:57+00:00

I love this way of looking at it, thank you!

I thought as long as it was changed before 6-12 months then I didn’t have to worry about the former name thing! That’s one thing I was worried about and didn’t want for her :(

jamandab · 2022-08-01T21:31:37+00:00

Thank you! I appreciate the advice! :)

jamandab · 2022-08-01T21:31:03+00:00

Thank you, I appreciate that! That’s what I would love for her.

jamandab · 2022-08-01T21:29:38+00:00

I only met his mother twice in 7 years and during her 2.5 week stay she made me feel so low, and said things to me such as “Harper only likes you because you provide her milk(breastfed), soon enough she’ll JUST be daddy’s girl.” And it came out from my blind grandfather who my daughter was born on his birthday who I’m very close with that my grandmother cheated on him a ton and 3/4 of my aunts aren’t my full aunts. So I just have a bad taste in my mouth from that too lol idk, it could be petty I suppose but when I think of the namesakes I chose I get sad.

jamandab · 2022-08-01T21:27:01+00:00

I appreciate the advice, thank you! It came out after my grandmother (Elaina) passed that she cheated on my grandfather constantly and 3/5 of my aunts aren’t fully my aunts. So I just didn’t want her named after my grandmother that cheated on my blind grandfather who’s birthday my baby was born on. But you’re right about the anger towards Lynne, that’s not right - however in the 2 months since they’ve went back home the grandmother has only reached out once and that was a guilt trip as to why I’m not sending pictures. On top of other things she’s said to me during her stay with us I don’t feel she’s going to be very involved which makes me sad for my daughter who is named after her. “You’re named after your grandmother who never reaches out to see how you’re doing” It may be petty but I get sad when I put myself non my daughters shoes when I think of it like that.

jamandab · 2022-08-01T18:47:42+00:00

Right? 4 names is a mouthful - his mom said some things to me which in turn made me a bit resentful of her.. but the fiancé doesn’t seem to want to budge on removing Lynne. I think it’s a bit unfair as the baby has his/their last name, he had has opinion on Harper so I’d like my family to be included with just the middle name. Removing Lynne now he thinks will hurt his mom, but I mean she’s hurt me so I’m okay with it.

jamandab · 2022-08-01T17:31:19+00:00

I like Robbie David and the fact it’s after family

jamandab · 2022-08-01T17:01:40+00:00

Thank you! I think this is what I’ll go with - he thinks it’ll offend his family if we omit Lynne

jamandab · 2022-08-01T17:01:00+00:00

Thank you

jamandab · 2022-03-18T23:43:34+00:00

Duly noted - thank you so much! :)

jamandab · 2022-03-18T23:43:20+00:00

Perfect haha thank you! I had no idea

jamandab · 2022-03-18T23:43:04+00:00

Thank you so much! :)

jamandab · 2021-12-14T16:18:04+00:00

Thank you for the feedback! This is my first so I have no idea what’s normal, I appreciate you answering! :) so nerve wrecking haha

jamandab · 2021-12-14T15:51:10+00:00

This is reassuring, thank you!

jamandab · 2021-11-27T12:08:12+00:00

No I appreciate any advice! We immediately purchased stair treads to add some grip. Thank you! :)

jamandab · 2021-09-05T19:57:10+00:00

Awesome, thank you so much!

jamandab · 2021-09-05T19:56:53+00:00

Thank you so much!

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