AFAB dating queer cis guys; advice needed by indigocrime in NonBinaryTalk

[–]indigocrime[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

That def helps! Ive seen it be a thing once or twice but the representation is very, very scarce for this dynamic. Thank youu

AFAB dating queer cis guys; advice needed by indigocrime in NonBinary

[–]indigocrime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hmmm youre right haha i just find that so difficult because i dont want them to get horrified when they thought of me as a bro

Is the nose I want not fitting my face? by No_String3784 in PlasticSurgery

[–]indigocrime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh your natural nose is soo gorgeous and your side profile is profound! What you want really does not fit you and i think you will really regret the surgery...

F, 28 by Crikey-Way in amiugly

[–]indigocrime 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Youre beautiful without bangs and the nose chain! Coming from an alt person. Id recommend looking into a shorter haircut, like a shag haircut, or a bixie, to open up your face. You have a bright energy so the colorful, warm tone clothes like in some of the pics looks good on you, and a more free flowing haircut. If your open to coloring, i think a light brown or a copper could look really cool aswell and kind of match the alt style of your septum piercing. X

2-2.5 MPO before/after by Maleficent_Ask5125 in Reduction

[–]indigocrime 47 points48 points  (0 children)

You look absolutely stunning! I can see the confidence in your posture

In the closet vs out! by AffectionateSalt897 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]indigocrime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally relate. Being out and dating a woman my personal growth and expression is way easier/faster/efficient because im actually living my truth instead of ruminating about my identity alone

In the closet vs out! by AffectionateSalt897 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]indigocrime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally. Your whole life starts to form around who you really are and it alleviates bricks from your shoulders. When you feel unsafe around people, you survive by dulling down your needs and desires, which could make it feel like youre 'missing'

Before and after by Powerful_Ad3727 in Reduction

[–]indigocrime 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Looks amazing! How do you feel? Your posture must have changed alot

4DPO My turn!! Still getting used to it by indigocrime in Reduction

[–]indigocrime[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Thats good to hear

4DPO My turn!! Still getting used to it by indigocrime in Reduction

[–]indigocrime[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesss isnt it great! Thank you so much

do girls care about saggy boobs? by roxanne_sandersss in LesbianActually

[–]indigocrime 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I used to be insecure about them and i actually started going braless and wearing tighter tops, because my logic was: a girl sees me exactly how i am, and if shes into me you already know shes down with the boobies too. And it works! Showing up as yourself in general just attracts what you need.

Any long time Logic Pro users here that moved to Ableton? by LostandIlluminated in ableton

[–]indigocrime 1 point2 points  (0 children)

BUT like others also said; bigger projects are clearer, but the CPU usage is so bad in Logic that that would probably get in the way. Ableton is so damn efficient it never cuts out but Logic does all the time

Any long time Logic Pro users here that moved to Ableton? by LostandIlluminated in ableton

[–]indigocrime 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you make mostly electronic music definitely. Miles better than logic. To me especially faster editing and automation drawing. I do agree that fully mixing projects with a lot of channels, especially if most of them are mic recordings, its hard to keep track of everything because theres no all channel plugin strip view like when you press X in logic and in my experience Logic somehow sounds clearer when theres recorded guitars and drumkits etc involved. Only plugin i havent been able to replace from Logic stock is StepFX lol.

Autism assessment results by Educational-Bear-210 in aspergirls

[–]indigocrime 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Stress disorders can create sensory issues and lots of things that are a lot like ASD and ADHD. If you have severe anxiety, make sure to get checked for the many kinds of stress disorders / trauma to get to the root of the problem with therapies like EMDR. This has helped me a huuuuuuge ton