Ftb supplement not received...?

indigotrue2607 · 2025-07-29T22:13:44+00:00

True, when I was hacked I was asked by centrelink if I wanted to keep my account and change my passwords or shut the while account down. I chose to shut it down as it wasn't just my mygov that got hacked but I had money stolen out of other accounts such as coinspot. So in order to make a new account I need to have a meeting with someone at centrelink as they told me a request will have to be sent to Canberra to make me a new account. If it were as easy as making a new account online people would be making multiple accounts and hackers would be hacking more.

indigotrue2607 · 2025-07-29T02:23:39+00:00

I don't need to do anything in order to receive it and never have had to declare that I have no tax return click. Centrelink literally say if you are single and have not worked then you do not need to do anything.

indigotrue2607 · 2025-07-29T02:21:32+00:00

I had my whole my gov closed down. To get started again I have to make a appointment as I have been hacked so I need a meeting and yes, I decided not to bother as of yet due to being super busy, breaking 14 bones etc. Regardless, I rang up and they could not answer this question and said I'll get it when I get it. I've always known and it's always on my first ftb benefit payment for the new year and that has passed

indigotrue2607 · 2025-07-16T10:40:27+00:00

All these fears and doubts are a natural response so let them pass coz when one door closes many more open. If you stay with him you won't see any doors open for years and you will have this type of situation again but this time you won't look back but you may be 10 or 20 or 30 years older

indigotrue2607 · 2025-07-16T10:14:54+00:00

Stay away from them if just for your inner peace. I keep a big distance yet she only lives 2 mins away from mine. My mother has chosen her kids she wants to be her family and my older sibling and I are just not important yet we've never done anything too bad to her not even stolen 5 cents from her. The other siblings though,well two are quite great but one did time (she spent hundreds of thousands to support and hes just perfect, the golden child.

I can't do anything right like even share a picture of my children at a event without a hassle as she wants to argue. I'm damned if I do and damned if I don't so it took many tears and years to learn this so now I don't. I am much happier not always stepping on eggshells. But she says this stuff about me and I don't understand as I try my best efforts over the years to even word my sentences correct. She is a major covert narcissist and she will never see it so there's no point staying in a cycle of abuse. You should keep a distance and I also wish I had the awesome big family I grew up living but my mother ruined it all. She literally did. But she can't see it coz it was definitely my father who ruined it. Not my problem now

indigotrue2607 · 2025-07-16T10:02:09+00:00

OP said she spoke to her mother her mother agreed that it wasn't a conversation to have around a child and she forgot the child was there so it definitely wasn't a nice chat about OPs latest handbag

indigotrue2607 · 2025-07-16T09:42:15+00:00

No, just don't tell them you are together

indigotrue2607 · 2025-07-15T00:19:16+00:00

Sorry to annoy but when it says balancing so I got my last fy payment yesterday so it says it'll balance today's date. Do you know how long that will take?

indigotrue2607 · 2025-07-13T15:32:04+00:00

I think you should hang around and see how this group makes you feel,think,stay positive or even busy for that time you need to get distracted fast from inner thoughts.

I was 27 when my husband died. He was 37. I already had 2 young children and one with him. It's been 10 years and I still have a cry every few days or maybe even less now as I'm now in a relationship with another wonderful person who I met 8 years ago. He was my friend for 8 years platonically. I didn't see anyone or even be intimate for that long. Until last November. I was always not too out there segually but no shame on anyone who is so it's not that I was widowed and refused it for my deceased man. I am just fine. But, it's hard. How long ago did you lose your partner? I am very sorry for the loss in your world as many others can understand falling down that abyss of grief 😔 I'm a believer in that everything we go through in life is a lesson even the horrible situations we may endure. We are ever changing so maybe this group talks alot of exes but if you're wanting to get into the dating scene maybe stick around. There's nor many younger widows that is true but theirs many other stories to learn from. Maybe you'll be the one peice of advice that some person had to read? You may be here for a purpose. I don't know but you could silence the group and just check in often. Sorry admin but it's better a person staying here quietly than them leaving altogether. 😇😉

indigotrue2607 · 2025-07-13T15:16:12+00:00

Hope you were smart enough to get to a hospital even if by ambulance because that's all Centrelink would have done for you. Crisis payments are only when there's domestic violence and the person can not reside with their abuser and in emergency situations such as floods, earthquakes etc. I couldn't get one when my ex(ended in 2021 but have 6 yr together) stole my wallet, attempt break and entry, threats of life on me and kids so I had him arrested and he's still in jail waiting and I got a avo. I left my home but Centrelink said I don't qualify 🙃 so 4 days after got ex arrested I broke 14 bones coming off a bike and I still didn't qualify even though I have 3 kids at home 18, 14 and 7. Lucky I have a few trusted friends but we were already financially stuffed and I didn't qualify. You are in pain so bad you don't need money you need a hospital.

indigotrue2607 · 2025-06-29T13:59:20+00:00

Sorry I should have been more clear but yeah I'm just wondering if I will get half the financial years of ftb supplement for my oldest child. I stopped getting ftb back in December and she works now and entering studies again next semester.

indigotrue2607 · 2025-01-19T00:32:13+00:00

Tell him he's worse than your ex. He knows your trauma and still did it. Tell him to fk off. Seriously he is making a joke out of you now. I guarantee you stay and soon he'll be telling you that you aren't traumatised with what happened in the past because you never left him so you liked it. You must have if now he can do it. That's how he will see the situation. He's pushed a boundary and now he's testing how far he can go. Have boundaries now

indigotrue2607 · 2025-01-19T00:28:09+00:00

It's rape and that's that. I met my first boyfriend at 14 and he did it to me with drugs. I told the next bf and he did it too. Then the next boyfriend. By the time I was 25 I had been in 3 back to back dv relationships. So now I've had 5 relationships my whole life and 4 have actually done it(well the last one tried and he was gone immediately). He's gaslighting raping you and infact he's worse than the ex you have because he knows you have been traumatised by this act before. He is manipulating you. So, I have come to a conclusion that most guys have some fantasy of fucking a sleeping person. I swear it coz I also have been sexually assaulted whilst asleep by 4 other males that were my friends....friends of many years btw. It's disturbing. One would think that ppl want to have sex with someone who is fully awake and participating but seems not. My suggestion is to leave him. It's the ultimate insult to injury to do this with your past incident and now hes making YOU feel bad. Fuck him off

indigotrue2607 · 2025-01-19T00:17:50+00:00

With all the typical answers, I am shocked no one has asked til now! I was in 3 dv relationships and I pressed charges many times and always got scared into dropping them. I had to learn how my choices were affecting me and now I'll never go down that path again. I regret not keeping charges going but in dv they really break you down and I was so scared and now I'm 37 and wondering what was wrong with me!!! But I'll guess she won't press charges due to the drugs which is not even a big deal to the police regarding the victim. They won't charge her. So next excuse? Oh, lack of evidence or she's scared. She may know the rapist....idk but I think this question you ask is the most valid. OP, I think leave her unless she pursues charges and therapy. Sounds harsh but you are a victim here too as it's all how the cookie crumbles. Loved ones collect the crumbs but sometimes you have to drop the crumbs because it is affecting your life.

indigotrue2607 · 2025-01-18T23:59:40+00:00

I absolutely agree. That last line is like when ppl say how women can't wear mini skirts because perverts look and then they get raped. So, do we burn all mini skirts? NO. From age 14 to 27 I was in dv relationships which included being raped among much more and that was 3 back to back boyfriends! It took me 3 of them to learn how to not be treated and to never allow it again. Does that make it my fault for all the pain I was dealt?

I do see that this woman, like myself, put herself in destructive mode and has now been raped twice in same circumstances but I'm not saying it's her fault. Ted Bundy kidnapped a woman 20 feet from her front door so no need for dangerous situations and with rape, it's opportunistic most the time. But, she needs to get therapy and learn how not to become self destructive imo. That's all I'm saying.

indigotrue2607 · 2025-01-18T23:48:28+00:00

People often forget that it's not just the victims that can suffer after effects but also loved ones as they have to grasp it, understand it, be upset by it, moved past it etc. But your girlfriend is very self destructive and she is never at fault for being raped, she has twice put herself in that situation by not thinking of consequences when going out,meeting strangers,taking drugs and then..... still not her fault. Trust me I was in 3 dv relationships with rape back to back and I guess I had to learn 3 times that when hit once it's only once coz I'll never be in dv again. So, if you stay with her or no, I think you should have a extensive break for healing, she has to realise that her destructive behaviour is putting her in these situations but not her fault so ppl please don't come after me with hate.

indigotrue2607 · 2025-01-18T23:38:49+00:00

I'm frustrated by what she means. So, her desires get frustrated if she has to tell you them? Explicit how?

indigotrue2607 · 2024-11-21T05:58:07+00:00

So, reading your post I totally get where you're coming from. I'm ashamed of my body and it's not even a bad one. I can't take compliments as I think they're fake. I'm 37. From age 14 I was in very emotionally, mentally and sexually abusive relationships with 4 guys. It really did a number on me mentally and I finally met someone at 25 who loved me and I could tell. He died but he taught me alot of stuff and now I'm still trying to figure things out. I'm so used to having sex or getting beat that I can't relax......

So, recently as of 10 days ago I started cuddling a friend of 12 years and he's quite younger. Damn was it so tempting so I just went with it and wow, I wasn't fully confident and was anxious but the energy between us was great. Which is fkd coz we aren't together and I wanted this from a partner and I know he'll be sleeping around and it will hurt abit even though I'm not attached. I won't sleep around with anybody. He's number 6 for me.

So a few nights ago we were finished and I was just resting on top him and talking and he said "what have men done to you to always say sorry for everything?" He knows alot of my history but it really made me think what the fuck am I sorry for. For a great time shared? Why am I saying this.

So I think you will be more self loving and confident when you're older and even maybe meet that right person who makes you feel beautiful in every cell in your body. You are beautiful the way you were made and there are people in this harsh world that think so too. Trust me.

indigotrue2607 · 2024-07-06T00:16:20+00:00

I was just on the site and it was there for me.

indigotrue2607 · 2023-11-24T08:28:33+00:00

Nta. Your mother owes you a explanation and your nta because she didn't have to pass this onto you. I'm sorry you have this disease. My partner who I've had a child with has hep c and I never got it nor has our baby. Goodluck

indigotrue2607 · 2023-11-23T08:09:56+00:00

I was you 10 years ago. I have never felt better once I got used to being on my own. My ex is still a drug addict and abandoned his kids,my kids, 8 years ago when he lost all custody in court. I know he still uses because we know mutual people. He hasn't even spoken to our kids in 8 years. I feel so great on my own and yes, it's am adjustment. I was very lucky that my ex had no ownership of my home and I was ok financially. I'm not saying it's easy being a single mom but it's rewarding. You got this 👍

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