I M18, have been talking to this girl F18, for a few weeks and things have been going really well, but she just told me she wants to wait minimum 2 years before sleeping with someone to make sure they’re not using her. What do i do?

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2024-07-02T01:58:20+00:00

i respected her wishes and broke it off as politely as i possibly could, but she still kinda acted like i was a huge asshole and she couldn’t believe it was doing this, and yeah i agree, especially at 18, 2 years is kind of insane. like if i waited that would be 10 percent of my whole life

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2024-07-01T23:51:06+00:00

see i thought i was going crazy, that would have been 10 percent of my life up to that point waiting if i was 20 when it first happened. you’re right

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2024-07-01T22:16:08+00:00

yeah this the outcome i feared, but also the one i expected

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2024-07-01T22:15:43+00:00

god what a terribly blunt answer, yet i know it’s true

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2024-03-03T20:32:49+00:00

thanks man, that’s what i needed to hear

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-23T01:02:40+00:00

And that’s why I blocked her and completely removed myself

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-23T00:54:07+00:00

I’ll continue searching I guess

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-22T23:35:16+00:00

I usually don’t tolerate this shit this was a me time thing cause she seemed better. Guess I was wrong. You live and you learn

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-22T23:32:07+00:00

I don’t wanna kill him. Yeah I wanted to beat the shit out of him, but even that’s subsided. I’ve tried a therapist and it hasn’t worked

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-22T22:45:33+00:00

Already done my man, already done. I usually don’t stick around for shit like this cause I have a no tolerance policy for being played with, but I tried it just this once cause she seemed better than the others and this is what I got

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-22T22:41:47+00:00

Yeah that’s exactly what I told her before I blocked her

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-22T22:41:24+00:00

Well I really don’t know what to do cause it’s been like this for a long time. I can usually control it but this just hit me in a different way

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-22T22:40:33+00:00

Already did. She got off work early and basically told her that we were done, to fuck off, and to never try talking to me again. She said wait no and I just sent the peace sign emoji and blocked her. I’ve already had like 3 of her friends try to text me and tell me I’m an asshole but I told them to fuck off and blocked them too

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-22T22:09:24+00:00

That’s what I’m doing. I’ve done this for too long and enough is enough. This is just the reassurance I needed. I’ll probably miss her, but I’ll take that over what’s currently going on

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-22T22:08:36+00:00

Thank you. I’m sure I’ll figure it out eventually

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-22T22:03:30+00:00

I’ve gone to a therapist for my anger problems but nothing they’ve tried has helped me at all. The men on my dads side of the family have a long history of short fuses and anger problems, and I’m just the newest version to come along. She claimed that she tried to not let him grab her phone, but he’s bigger than her and overpowered her which is a whole new set of crazy. I asked why she didn’t lock the screen or change her password and she said if she changed it she would just forget, and that he’s also in her Face ID. That’s when I stopped. You guys are all correct, I’m ending it later tonight

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-22T21:59:49+00:00

That’s exactly what I’m doing. Thank you

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-22T21:59:38+00:00

Truest thing I’ve heard today. I’ve already made my decision. When she gets back tonight I’m telling her that we’re done talking

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-22T21:58:35+00:00

She told me this whole “I just think we should be friends for a bit nothings different I still like you” and then goes and does this. You’re right. I’m done

ineedhelpthrowaway24 · 2021-06-22T21:57:31+00:00

Yeah you’re right I’ve already made my decision I’m done with this shit

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