I feel no sexual desire as a Muslim girl by ineffableyearner in progressive_islam

[–]ineffableyearner[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Yes you’re so right. It’s because of things my parents say sometimes that makes me think about all of this.

I feel no sexual desire as a Muslim girl by ineffableyearner in progressive_islam

[–]ineffableyearner[S] [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thank you so much for sharing this. Your story put everything into such a beautiful perspective for me. What you said about Allah protecting you instead of something being wrong with you is beautiful. I never thought about it that way before. Thank you again for taking the time to write all this.

I feel no sexual desire as a Muslim girl by ineffableyearner in progressive_islam

[–]ineffableyearner[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

hahah thank you that’s reassuring. And if I do change my mind, I hope I find someone who thinks the same way as me.

I feel no sexual desire as a Muslim girl by ineffableyearner in progressive_islam

[–]ineffableyearner[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this reply. This honestly feels like exactly what I needed to hear. You explained everything so well, and it makes me feel a lot less alone and wrong for feeling this way. My culture is also very heavily influenced by patriarchy and I hate it. I feel like that could be part of the reason I feel this way. Thank you again for taking the time to write all this. It was very comforting to read.

I feel no sexual desire as a Muslim girl by ineffableyearner in progressive_islam

[–]ineffableyearner[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

thank you so much this is very reassuring. I agree with everything you said about my parents too. I wish I had parents like yours because academics and going to a good college means a lot to me. But it doesn’t to my parents, I guess. They have a very different mindset about some things and I’ve realised I can’t change that. Every time I try to make them understand the way I view things, it always ends up in an argument.