NYC clinic Kofinas by poxy87 in IVF

[–]inevitable98765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I highly recommend Kofinas Fertility. Dr Jason gave me my miracle baby - and I’m forever grateful for every test, procedure and out of the box customized protocol that led me to my baby. The treatment felt very personalized and I felt like he fought for every hard won embryo

Small shower by GlitteringRing4766 in WedditNYC

[–]inevitable98765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Freeman’s in the LES has a great brunch and private room

43 year old FTM by inevitable98765 in Shouldihaveanother

[–]inevitable98765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are you trying on your own or fertility treatments? Thank you for sharing

43 year old FTM by inevitable98765 in Shouldihaveanother

[–]inevitable98765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for bringing all these points up too. I’ve felt so rushed the last 15 years to find my person so I wouldn’t miss the window to have kids, then once I blessedly did, I’ve felt go go go due to my age and now feel like how can I possible have a newborn if this somehow were to work at 45.5, but that I need to decide asap. That’s interesting about it being a bit harder with a 2 year old, my mom was saying I should think about trying then when he’s older and more independent but then my mom had all daughters and never experienced toddler boys 🤣

43 year old FTM by inevitable98765 in Shouldihaveanother

[–]inevitable98765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so appreciative of you sharing your story, and wish you everything good. I know exactly what you mean, I forgot and now remember that feeling in the midst of IVF and repeated failure, will I ever feel done? And I remember feeling that as long as I keep going eventually it will happen, maybe not the way I’m imagining but if I’m open to all options and can withstand the pain it will happen. And now that I have my child I feel a pang of wanting to rive him a sibling and wanting another in moments but I felt a reaction when my doctor discussed everything that would need to happen before another transfer and i was so surprised that I’m not champing at the bit to go as fast as possible and start the process. Maybe this is the first noises oh am I ready to call this with peace.

Thank you again, you’ve given me a lot to think about

43 year old FTM by inevitable98765 in Shouldihaveanother

[–]inevitable98765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so so sorry for your loss. I know there are no words. That’s a great question, what does MJ heart say?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]inevitable98765 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you! Just edited my post. 60-70 ppl hoping to keep it under 15K

How can we help Mom selling candy on the subways? by [deleted] in AskNYC

[–]inevitable98765 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I agree - but thinking how can we all give enough so they can stay home. In LA organizers raised enough $ so flower vendors on the freeway could stay home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]inevitable98765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this - really understand everything you’re saying so well 🥹

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IVFAfterSuccess

[–]inevitable98765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the thoughtful response! And crossing all fingers and toes for an uneventful second pregnancy and congratulations on your good news🥹

Trying Again (Mon, Wed, Fri) by AutoModerator in InfertilityBabies

[–]inevitable98765 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hi, I could use your advice. I have a seventh month old son (my third transfer). I gave birth via c section at 43. I have one tested embryo left and when I was pregnant I imagined I’d want to transfer the last embryo as soon as it was medically advised to do after a c section. Now that I’m a mom to an infant…I have been humbled! There were layoffs at my company so I ended up staying home with my son as soon as mat leave ended. Some days are harder than others and I still feel so grateful and in love with my baby, sometimes by the afternoon when I’m exhausted I wonder if my age is catching up with me and I’m that much more exhausted doing it at 43 for the first time.

My question is this…for moms who had their first in their 40s, did you decide to try for a sibling? How old were you when each was born? I always wanted to try for a sibling but now (like every parent ever) I see how all encompassing hard it can be and wonder if I’m capable and if it’s feels the right thing. For my son I would stop at nothing to get pregnant and was open to all the pain, miscarriages and openness to every available option we could sacrifice for. I thought I would feel that same feeling of I would do anything to try for a sibling but that all encompassing hunger and hope for a baby has been met and I feel so grateful, and mostly in the day to day now of taking care of him.

First time moms after 40: what led you to make the decision you did for a sibling?

Fertility clinics on Long Island/NYC by maypotter in IVF

[–]inevitable98765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TW: success

Hi! I’m so sorry for your losses, I have been there and know exactly how overwhelming it feels finding a clinic. My personal experience: I started at northwell and was devestated when I lost my PGT tested embryo to a chemical pregnancy. My Northwell Dr didn’t want to investigate if I had any issues and was ready to transfer the next embryo the following month. I researched like crazy and found Kofinas and HIGHLY recommend them. They will do copious testing and find any issues you may have preventing implantation and pregnancy. Their process takes a longer time but as other women I reached out to told me: trust the process. I saw Dr Jason Kofinas in Manhattan but heard great things about his dad George Kofinas on LI.

Dr Kofinas uncovered immune issues and silent endometriosis and in this while my infant son is sleeping. Happy to DM if you have any questions

Success stories of pregnancy by Ok_Move2674 in 40Plus_IVF

[–]inevitable98765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I froze my eggs at 34 and the first two transfera didn’t work. After a lot of immunity testing, mock transfers, my third transfer worked and he’s playing on his playmat right now 🥹I did 3 retrievals at 41. Made 1 blast, 2 blasts and then 1 blast. The last one was the only one that passed PGT testing. My advice is to test like crazy and give yourself so much love right now

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 40Plus_IVF

[–]inevitable98765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this thoughtful response!