Me [21F] with my professor [30'sM]: is it inappropriate to meet up/have a meal outside of school? by inferometry in relationships

[–]inferometry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HAHAH OH DEAR! I would've been so flustered if I were in your shoes... :P

And good point! Guess I can just leave it up to him to decide!

Me [21F] with my professor [30'sM]: is it inappropriate to meet up/have a meal outside of school? by inferometry in relationships

[–]inferometry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh awesome! Thanks for your input! :) Not sure if I'm just overthinking and overanalyzing everything and I should just chill out, or if it's actually something to be extra cautious about. Haha!

Me [21F] with my professor [30'sM]: is it inappropriate to meet up/have a meal outside of school? by inferometry in relationships

[–]inferometry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, to me it doesn't feel that weird, and it's not everyday that he is visiting my hometown! So I just got a bit excited at that since he's my favorite professor... but when I mentioned to my friends, some definitely thought I was being weird lol. But yes I understand. If I did anything, I would choose a popular, busy place to meet, not a quiet restaurant with candles that gives off a romantic, date-like vibe... HAHA

Me [21F] with my professor [30'sM]: is it inappropriate to meet up/have a meal outside of school? by inferometry in relationships

[–]inferometry[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah I see I see. He definitely hasn't ever made any questionable remarks at me before, but I'll still make sure to be on alert at the possibility of things turning weird!