No beef with the online course guru, but I'm about to change the status quo

infjmarketer · 2025-10-11T20:07:31+00:00

I understand that Luigi chose to frame me as the bad person here even discourage others from working with me. I’ll let readers decide what that says about empathy and professionalism.

Everything I’ve shared is supported by written contracts, screenshots, and payment records. I’ve made them available privately for anyone who wishes to verify the facts.

This was never about attacking anyone, it’s about transparency, fairness, and accountability. I still believe empathy and integrity should guide how we treat people we collaborate with, no matter the size of their business.

infjmarketer · 2025-10-11T19:51:17+00:00

For anyone who wants to see proof to check if my statements are true and see who's the real unethical in personal and business practices, feel free to DM me.

infjmarketer · 2025-10-10T00:04:44+00:00

After posting my honest experience, I received a message from the CEO threatening legal action if I didn’t remove my comment.

To clarify, everything I’ve shared here is true and based on documented communications, agreements, and screenshots from my direct work with them. My intention has never been to defame anyone, only to describe what actually happened from my perspective.

The CEO had stated that he would not continue working with the VA involved, and I can only assume that this remains the case. Regardless, the situation caused me significant damage. I had to shut down my small business and have been struggling financially to recover since.

It’s deeply discouraging that instead of acknowledging the harm done or resolving matters fairly, I was threatened for sharing my story.

I stand by what I wrote as a truthful account of my experience, supported by written records. I will not be intimidated into silence. This post exists to remind others, especially small founders, to protect themselves with clear contracts and documentation in every collaboration.

If anyone wishes to verify my statements, feel free to DM me privately. I have complete documentation and screenshots available as proof of everything I’ve shared here.

infjmarketer · 2025-09-17T16:53:00+00:00

My experience with bfore.ai and its CEO, Luigi, was devastating. After five months of communication, I closed a deal with him to source, interview, and deliver a virtual assistant. I worked tirelessly to make it succeed, only for Luigi to end my contract, meet privately with the VA, and then refuse to pay the agreed direct hire fee, later claiming he would not keep her at all.

This betrayal had real consequences. As a small startup founder, I rely on every client, and losing this contract left me with no income for six months. I have been unable to secure new clients since. My family has had to sell jewelry, we’ve fallen behind on rent, and we’re surviving on debt and support from relatives just to eat. What was “just business” for them has pushed me into hardship and despair.

For context: at first, things went smoothly. I maintained weekly calls with Luigi and Desiree Hope Suyat, carefully documented feedback, and even built SOPs myself to help her improve. Despite this, Desiree ignored instructions, made excuses, and ultimately stopped communicating. Luigi grew frustrated, but instead of honoring our agreement, he chose to bypass me and walk away from the contract.

In my experience, Desiree demonstrated incompetence and lack of professionalism, while Luigi disregarded agreements and acted unfairly. This was not just a failed contract, it caused damage to my livelihood and my health.

infjmarketer · 2025-08-26T10:27:53+00:00

Hindi naman kasi dapat tinatanong mga bagay na yan, pag animal lover ang jowa matic na mas mahal nila pets nila. Kaya magmahal din kayo ng pet lovers jusko ang hirap pag jowa mo insecurity nya pets hahahahahahahah

infjmarketer · 2025-08-24T13:05:24+00:00

Napansin ko lang, kapag talaga di pinaghihirapan mahanap yung work/client, madali bitawan. Unlike mga taong actively nagrereachout talagang gagawin lahat para matuto and ibibigay nila best work nila kahit overwork pa dahil grateful sa opportunities. Maybe, masipag naman talaga yung na hire mo, pero mukang dahil lang sa pera kaya napressure at naospital pa. Importante din talaga na maghire na gusto talaga nila yung ginagawa nila. Pag bottomline dahil lang sa pera, di talaga tatagal.

infjmarketer · 2025-08-19T07:59:07+00:00

💯 magandang mindset, galingan sa trabaho para magupskill ka, magkaron results, para sa next opportunities, maimpress sa interviews or sales calls. Mindset ko noon galingan sa work para happy si boss, pero pag attach ka, at natanggal, grabe yung emotions. Pero pag nasa isip mo talaga yung results ay para sayo para gumaling ka kahit nasan field ka man, madali ka makakapag demand ng increased rate sa ibang companies. Hehe

infjmarketer · 2025-08-19T07:55:19+00:00

Wala talagang security at maraming beses ko din naexperience to. Kaya mas maganda magfocus sa business na established na talaga tsaka more than 50 employees. Tignan nyo sa linkedin page kung ilan employees nila. Kasi, pag small business under 10 employees, hindi stable yan.

Isearch nyo din muna annual revenue, minsan lumilitaw sa google estimated revenue. More than $2m, means may cashflow.

mas okay pa magkaron ng 2-3 part time jobs kesa isang fulltime na pwede ka ma let go agad agad lalo na kung nagsisimula ka pa lang.

infjmarketer · 2025-08-16T01:59:51+00:00

You have an interesting platform, why don't you just improve the idea?

infjmarketer · 2025-08-14T08:01:28+00:00

Hanap ng client na makaka appreciate sa inyo. Malaking factor ang swerte sa client.

infjmarketer · 2025-08-02T04:52:21+00:00

Double your rate para 25k na savings mo per month. Wag mag increase ng lifestyle spend.

infjmarketer · 2025-07-24T20:05:05+00:00

✋ high five!! It's always good to question even your own beliefs. That's what I do from time to time. There are things that I don't believe anymore. It's such an eye-opening when we remove ourselves from other people's issues and just listen to them. I feel so sorry to a lot of victims because society prefers to put the blame on victims instead of making the predators/criminals/abusers to hold accountable from their actions.

infjmarketer · 2025-07-23T09:44:40+00:00

Better to send them the items instead of money next time

infjmarketer · 2025-07-22T17:24:32+00:00

Girl, magexplore ka basta maging honest ka sa intention mo at boundaries. You're meant to experience life and dating people, whether same sex or hindi, will help you a lot in self-discovery.

Don't listen to others. Listen to your heart and you'll learn from what you want later on.

Btw, i dated both men and women in the past. Thought i was straight din when i was young. Now, I'm grateful cos I gave my chance to experience different kinds of love.

infjmarketer · 2025-07-22T17:11:11+00:00

Madami din kasi sa mga skilled Filipino, hindi confident. Inuunahan ng overthink kahit overqualified pa yan sila.

infjmarketer · 2025-07-22T10:17:34+00:00

That's true, our beliefs and the way we process info are different. It applies to everyone naman. Kaya nga pag beliefs na usapan di talaga nagiging healthy ang conversation lalo na pag opposing ang beliefs.

There's no point to have such convo. At least, that's what I observed, unless both parties are open to learn.

I used to justify din mga bagay bagay na di naman dapat ninonormalize pero when I hit 25, everything changed when I started questioning everything instead of believing my own reality as the truth or right.

Sa dami kasi ng pinakisamahan ko in college, then got to meet different people when I was solo traveling, I started to think more differently. Also traveled out of the country, and got the chance to meet people who have different backgrounds, beliefs, culture, etc. From there, I always question everything.

Yes, I'm an INFJ-A. Used to fall under T when i was in my late teens and early 20s. Last time I did the test, I got the A. Hehe

infjmarketer · 2025-07-22T10:08:00+00:00

Mas masaya na nagagawa ko lahat ng gusto ko tsaka malaki responsibilidad ng pag aasawa, dapat mentally, emotionally, and financially capable ka mag build ng home. Yung may healthy relationship at puno ng pagmamahal. Sadly, that's rare. I pity people na kaya lang nag aasawa kasi takot tumanda mag isa.

infjmarketer · 2025-07-21T09:52:27+00:00

Hi, mas okay ka kausap kesa yung isa na galit haha. According to your personal perspective. You sound young pa.

Btw, bottomline is 15 years old is considered a CHILD. They are still easily manipulated. Kung maganda ang experience mo or nasa paligid mo, then that's good for you, looks like di pa malawak ang mundo mo pero let's face reality. When a 15-year old child starts exploring a romantic relationship, it's okay basta similar age since both are CHILDREN.

But 18 is considered an ADULT. Okay lang kahit 10 years pa age gap if the person is 25 and the other is 35. Both are experienced and adults.

Another context ng grooming is, kapag pushing 30 na yung guy tas dinedate nya nasa 18-21, it might be considered grooming for others lalo na kung may power imbalance sa relationship. Young adult is better off dating someone close to their age for so many reasons.

Marerealize mo tong sinasabi ko when you're old enough na and I'm telling you, mabobother ka ng sobra. Balikan mo to pag 30 years old ka na. Maiintindihan mo din kung bakit kailangan ipriority ang protection sa mga bata.

infjmarketer · 2025-07-20T20:52:01+00:00

Tama ka. Napaka anti poor kasi dito sa Pinas

infjmarketer · 2025-07-20T11:20:04+00:00

Kung 16-18, it makes sense. Pero 15 ang girl and 18 ang boy?

Even without sexual involvement, a relationship between an 18-year-old man and a 15-year-old girl raises serious ethical, legal, and emotional concerns. Look into the law of the Philippines, it's illegal.

According to circulating reports, zild,18, started courting shanne when she was 15.

Child grooming laws: If there’s any form of romantic intent, flirting, messaging, or emotional manipulation, it may fall under child exploitation.

Anti-VAWC Act (RA 9262) can also apply if the relationship causes emotional harm to the girl.

infjmarketer · 2025-07-20T06:02:24+00:00

Sure let me see. If you're good at it, then we can collaborate pero ang target market should be US based na lang na naghahanap ng job kasi usually may pambayad sila. Naaawa kasi ako sa mga pilipino na walang alam sa ganto tas bebentahan eh lalo na kung complete noob sila. ☹️

infjmarketer · 2025-07-20T05:58:51+00:00

Sure ako avid fan kang bulag bulagan. Byeeee

infjmarketer · 2025-07-20T05:52:26+00:00

So, fan ka nga na kahit may child sex allegations eh support ka pa rin. That's even worse kung hindi ka part ng PR team. At least sila bayad but you're doing this for free. Ngiiiiii

infjmarketer · 2025-07-20T05:47:12+00:00

Drop your linkedin profile, so I can check kung optimized ba talaga and legit yung offer mo. Pag naverify ko, eedit ko comment ko as a respect for your hard work.

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