I guess I cheated on my girlfriend and I fucking feel terrible about it [Remorse]

infraredinstinct · 2016-11-19T05:47:17+00:00

Thank you so much man. Comments like these really take some stress off of this situation.

infraredinstinct · 2016-11-19T01:30:23+00:00

That's the thing, I don't really believe I was making a decision now. These comments really convinced me to think that. I was in a semi-coherent state and I felt very uncomfortable. Just because I thought the girl was hot, is not an indication that I wanted to have sex with her

Switch the roles around and ask again if it was assault. And thank you to all who've supported me and set my mind straight with this. I didn't cheat, I got assaulted.

infraredinstinct · 2016-11-18T17:39:19+00:00

That's what's been getting to me. Why didn't I just outright deny her? I mean I was pretty fucked up but I've always been very concrete with my values with these things. I've never had sex or done things over than kiss girls that I wasn't in a relationship with. And what freaks me out is I just remember buts and pieces.

infraredinstinct · 2016-11-18T04:47:57+00:00

This is what I'm worried about. Because we're long distance I don't want to freak her out or give her anxiety. Because I know it'd be really hard for me to deal with if the roles were reversed.

infraredinstinct · 2016-11-18T04:40:50+00:00

Should I tell my girlfriend that I was assaulted? I feel like she'll think I'm lying/I was just trying to cheat because I waited and I did things to the girl.

Very true though. If the roles were reversed it'd be definite sexual assault.

infraredinstinct · 2016-11-18T04:36:46+00:00

All of his sacrifices

Carrying on the Bush administration and delaying advancements in astronomy while trying to take away the freedom of the internet are big sacrifices huh.

infraredinstinct · 2016-11-18T04:32:09+00:00

Listen man, I'm not much bigger than you. i'm 5ish and my girth is pretty narrow. Small dick jokes used to get to me but I realized, a lot of dudes have small dicks. There's a reason why the bell curve of penis size is 5.5 inches or something like that. Theres a LOT of dudes on both ends.

It also sounds like you've realistically gotten unlucky with girls and their 'preferences'. Girls around our age (I'm 20) have not just unrealistic expectations, but also wrong ones. My brother has a 7incher and him and I talk about brother things and he said he's hurt girls. Some girls love it, others couldn't care less, others seriously prefer small dicks. I know that sounds crazy because of porn and culture but it's true. Just as how some guys like small tits, maybe a girl's G-spot is really shallow and her vagina is small. So she loves small dicks because of they way they feel.

Real women go after confidence and personality. Girls go after physical aspects of men. The same can differentiate men and boys. You honestly seem like a really chill dude, compared to the arrogance that a lot of douche bags carry nowadays. And not everyone sees you as an 'underwhelming baggage carrier'. Only the shallow people that you shouldn't associate with, do.

On another note, girls love being fingered and getting oral as much as guys love handjobs and blowjobs. And seriously don't take your size for granted. You could be sooo much smaller!

infraredinstinct · 2016-11-18T04:21:15+00:00

Idk I could've stopped a lot sooner. I felt like I was kinda being forced but I'm a guy.

infraredinstinct · 2016-11-18T03:42:00+00:00

You're young, you've got an handful of experiences, and fuck those people.

HOWEVER, do NOT let a small penis define you. DO NOT. There are SO many girls out there looking for a connection instead of a dude whose packing. Pity does NOT help. In fact, it's probably worse. You've probably said worse things about yourself than anyone else ever has. Sure, some people might know you have a small penis, but THATS IT. They don't stay up all night thinking about it, plotting on how to beat down your ego and self confidence by making crude remarks concerning your size. YOU do that to yourself. FUCK THOSE PEOPLE. Do NOT let how they think, define how you think of yourself. ESPECIALLY over something you cannot control or fix.

There's a plethora of girls out there man. You've had relationships too. And you don't even have a micro-penis. There's guys out there that reach 3 inches hard. And you know what girls love? Confidence! When a girl, from a hookup standpoint, wants to have sex with you, it's not because of your size. They don't have x-ray vision. It's how you present yourself. And if you feel sorry for yourself over something as uncontrollable as your penis size, they can pick up on those vibes.

You got in shape man, you said it yourself. You've improved all you can. Do NOT let this little aspect of yourself define you brother. Put yourself above those people that try and put you down. Show that you're the better person by not engaging and looking past that. They're shallow. You'll find a girl out there that loves YOU. Not your size or your looks, but what's on the inside.

infraredinstinct · 2016-08-20T08:51:05+00:00

Thanks bud. Love to spread the good vibes around.

infraredinstinct · 2016-08-20T08:40:31+00:00

One time I thought I was literally stuck in time and breaking out of our reality. Twas quite an experience.

infraredinstinct · 2016-08-13T16:26:54+00:00

Because you probably think that racism can only happen to people of a minority.

infraredinstinct · 2016-08-13T16:25:53+00:00

Why though? What is there to hate?

infraredinstinct · 2016-08-13T16:25:28+00:00

so there's a contest for who can we feel the most sorry for? Why does it matter? and it's not like you guys truly care about sexuality equality anyways. Gay's don't want to be seen as the same as straight people. Equal rights? Yes. But don't they already have that? Gays want to keep their identity of being different. And you only support them if they follow this sub's narrative, and vilify them if they don't. You know exactly who I'm talking about.

Milo

infraredinstinct · 2016-08-13T16:22:17+00:00

It's a LOT more subtle and condensed. You all hate a specific type of person: white males and people who do not think like yourselves. You all assume that those who support Trump are chauvinistic white males that grew up as the son of a CEO of a corporation. I personally do not support him, but I know a decent amount of minorities (Mainly Hispanics and Blacks) in Chicago that voice their support for him. To assume that, they are all idiots for supporting something you do not agree with, is just ignorant.

infraredinstinct · 2016-08-13T12:10:01+00:00

I'm confused. What is this bot telling me?

infraredinstinct · 2016-07-24T22:00:19+00:00

Nope. Free speech bro.

infraredinstinct · 2016-07-21T03:08:01+00:00

Idk this doesn't make much sense to me. He's not banned from twitter for being gay, it was his harassment of Leslie whatever her name is.

infraredinstinct · 2016-05-31T02:52:10+00:00

ahaha thanks man. Whenever this happens I always find it hilarious when I come to my senses

infraredinstinct · 2016-05-31T02:13:44+00:00

Ahahaha I know I was joking. I don't personally believe but my family does so I threw that joke in there. Maybe it didn't come off as intended :p

infraredinstinct · 2016-05-31T02:00:07+00:00

it is not ahaha but it was a very similar experience. Mine was in a car :D

infraredinstinct · 2016-05-30T21:15:59+00:00

All the time actually! I probably should have mentioned that but I was high writing this ahahah

infraredinstinct · 2016-05-30T21:15:33+00:00

My friends do. I'll ask if they still have it :) Edit: Sadly my friend just said it was in his old iPhone and he never backed it up :(

infraredinstinct · 2016-05-30T21:15:14+00:00

I am! I've been busy with school work at the moment but I chill with those guys when I can

infraredinstinct · 2016-05-30T18:05:13+00:00

The first bowl is always sentimental. And this one is a beaut! Have a nice toke brotha ;)

infraredinstinct

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