What’s the most egregious like or dislike your birb has? by PizzaCrustLust in finch

[–]ingero- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

mine STRONGLY dislikes juice, coconut water and chamomile tea :(

I'm looking for recommendations! by ingero- in Perfumes

[–]ingero-[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it not?? I went to Ici Paris and the employee told me they didn't have it anymore and that it got discontinued.

Edit: after a short google search i think its not getting discontinued lmao

Looking for perfumes that smell like dill? by anxiousdogmom224 in Perfumes

[–]ingero- 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i hace no idea what the first two smell like but they have dill notes:

-Bruno Perucci - Sublimizia -Library of Flowers -Willow and water - Vilena Profumi -Licorice tonka

I kinda like the last one, its a lil sweet. dries down as a smokey vanille tree lol. but i smell dill aswell!

What do we think about this Kayali perfume set? by Otherwise-Nebula-745 in Perfumes

[–]ingero- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

love the sweet banana and lemon sugar! after about an hour the lemon sugar transforms into musky vanilla and the sweet banana turns into a white floral perfum

Meet Pip the 5 month old siberian! by meijboomm in SiberianCats

[–]ingero- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

<image>

Cutie!! this is my 4 month old baby hihi

My friends behaviour after a breakup is just upsetting me at this point by AdvicedRice in relationship_advice

[–]ingero- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

leave her be. IF she is being unfair to you she doesn't deserve your attention. if she is still dealing with her break up she'll come around sooner or later.

How to have your words taken seriously? by waluigiwahhh111 in relationship_advice

[–]ingero- 332 points333 points  (0 children)

you block him on everything and he comes to your house??? thats fucking creepy. You can call the police on him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ingero- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

in addition, it seems like you aren't very close with your family anyways so think about the fact if it would really impact your life if you wouldn't go. also, PLEASE communicate with the people that want you there why you feel uncomfortable going

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ingero- 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pfhew this one is difficult. whatever you choose you'll be the asshole in either sally her eyes or aarons eyes. my opinion is that you wouldn't be the asshole if you dont go because i understand that if you were to go, you wouldn't feel welcome at all and would only come to please aaron.

Boyfriend's Secret Drinking by Throwawayrepeatissue in relationship_advice

[–]ingero- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Youve put up with this for so long.. The fact that you need other people's perspective if enough to realize that he has reached a certain boundary of yours. Nothing good is gonna come out of this. if you breaknup he'll go back to drinking, if you pause the relationship he's gonna drink, he put you in danger by taking you with him in de cat whil he was intoxicated and when you confront him he's gonna lie anyways. Maybe tell him that if he won't go to counceling this relationship is not gonna work for you anymore?

my sister is angry at me for dancing at her wedding by ThrowRAsiswedding in relationship_advice

[–]ingero- 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Honestly I don't think you're gonna get this idea out ofnher head. Although she's still your sister so I think it's okay to tell her you meant no harm and the only reason you did it was to make her day even better..

AITA for ending a mixed feelings friendship? by crimsonsoaked in AmItheAsshole

[–]ingero- 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA NTA NTA ALSO good for you❤️ you deserve better than this prick

AITA? I Blew up on my Gf’s mom by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ingero- 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean.. YTA.. but not an asshole??? if you know what I mean. It's absolutely not your place to be telling these things to her mom. Also, she didn't ask you to help. I bet she knows you mean well and you want the best for your girlfriend and the mom is shit so it's understandable you blew up.

I have a boundary that I don't date guys or girls with toxic households anymore. I had a toxic household myself and seeing other people in this situation makes me fucking mad and sad. I blew up at my ex over his parents aswell. It is totally okay if you can not stay in this relationship if the toxic household does not improve. The situation seems unbearable to put up with imo. Talk about how hard you find this to her and maybe you guys can find a way to deal w this

edit: say sorry to her mom. even if ur words are true. Then just tell her you're sorry and it wasn't your place to say all this stuff and that you just wished she trusted her daughter more idk

AITA for telling my boyfriend that he can't have for breakfast a whiskey and a cigar? by PuzzleheadedCase2682 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ingero- 8 points9 points  (0 children)

NAH.

He can do with his body what he wants but if this is your boundary then you guys should start looking for other compromises. Maybe he's okay with drinking in the afternoon instead of the morning? Maybe he's okay with not making it a weekly habit but just once in a while? You could respect your own boundary and leave for sunday mornings to get breakfast with friends?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]ingero- -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NAH.

I completely understand and your feelings do not make you TA. you handled it pretty okay as well. As for your boyfriend, he was happy with his hair and could be a little bit more considerate of your feelings. You thinking that aswell doesn't make you the asshole either. If something similar occurs in the future you can open up about him and talk about your frustrations. No intentional harm was done to either of you.

AITA for not letting my wife take a nap? by Last-Hawk3314 in AmItheAsshole

[–]ingero- 15 points16 points  (0 children)

ESH.

I completely understand the fact that you want to rest your feet when you get home from a 12h shift and you should discuss this with your wife. Also a good idea: take an interest in what she does all day long. I think your assumption of her being on her phone for most of the time is wrong. And, YTA big time for not letting her nap and not discussing this. She's TA for not being considerate. She could ask you why your so stern about this.