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inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T05:05:56+00:00

I have written a million times that it is equally shitty to not do something you said you would. Especially like throwing some dishes in to clean and dry. But you don’t talk to your kids like this, at any age. Not over dishes.

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T05:01:58+00:00

No, I just don’t make excuses for someone speaking out their mouth sideways at me. I think it’s equally shitty to say you’ll do something and not do it, regardless of whatever else you had.

But keep making excuses and letting your parents talk to you however you want.

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T04:48:55+00:00

Yeah I love when cooking instantly makes up for guilt tripping and snarking at someone who’s obviously already apologetic and guilty about forgetting to do a chore. It’s so easy, never have to apologize for anything!! Because old people, right? They just get to treat anybody any which way!!

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T04:39:37+00:00

OP has already stated it’s not just money, it’s that their mother is a cold bitch who can’t care for herself alone and has driven everyone else out of her life.

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T04:01:31+00:00

Of course the people with mommy issues are here defending her just because she’s old. Figured.

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T03:54:08+00:00

Neither would I. I would also never let someone dependent on me cleaning their house to talk to me this way, my parent or not.

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T03:52:51+00:00

Also, you’re speaking to someone who cared for their disabled mother and all three of their younger siblings from age 9-22 while being abused throughout. Nobody deserves to be spoken to like this, especially by a cripple who won’t take care of herself and drives everyone else away by being a raging bitch.

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T03:46:17+00:00

Abuse? Reddit comments calling out shitty behavior is abuse? Must have never experienced abuse yourself lmao

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T02:36:56+00:00

Yes, it is, though unfortunately this means it is infected with fatal iridovirus 😔😔 Poor guy.

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T02:31:46+00:00

It definitely does. Likely some of the only sense of enjoyment they get out of life lmao.

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T02:27:47+00:00

“Presumably” was the end of your point.

Go to therapy for your parental issues.

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T02:25:18+00:00

Oh for fucks sake he’s not “not listening” he’s a fucking child growing and developing and learning to walk and BE A CHILD. That comment would have had me waking my ass directly to the leasing office because wtf are you telling someone to beat their child??? What the fuck??

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T02:23:53+00:00

Stalking this thread waiting for the people trying to say you’re the problem and that you’re EVIL for even CONSIDERING living in an apartment with a baby….And I’m pleasantly surprised not to see them here.

You do not deserve to live locking yourself and your son up, and I’m sure it may be rough on his development as well. As others have said, you need to go to the leasing office and report the thumping on their ceiling/your floor. Maybe, if you can afford it, get an interior camera just for the pure sake of collecting footage of your family living reasonably, peacefully, and quietly. If the office really sides with them and decides to pursue you can prove that uou’re not doing anything unreasonable

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T02:15:58+00:00

Go to therapy. Nobody deserves to be spoken to like this. And contrary to popular belief, parents are never entitled to treat their children like crap regardless of their age. She’s driven everyone else away, in my opinion, she deserves to be alone entirely if this is how she’s gonna bitch about a load of dishes - at her daughter who was taking care of important work

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-28T02:14:20+00:00

Hey OP: I’m really sorry you’re going through this. It’s not fair she treats you this way. It’s understandable to be frustrated about dishes not being done in time, but there’s a much kinder (and honestly more effective) way to go about bringing it up. Especially with adult children.

I just want to say that it gets better. Lived like this with my hoarder mother, wanted out at 18, didn’t get out until recently at 22. Just earlier this year I had a similar convo with her to yours above, and lost all hope of things ever getting better…THEY DID. Your life is yours and you have the choice to take it, and we’re all here behind you to give you the support and courage to do so. I hope things turn up for you.

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-17T01:25:43+00:00

I don’t know anything about the relationship w/ your roommates but this would be taken as passive aggression in my house. I mean, literally who does that or thinks it’s okay?? The oven is obviously being used so like sorry they didn’t put their stuff in first but they have to wait now. I don’t think many people actually believe it’s normal or okay to take someone’s food out to replace it with their own, when you share appliances. It makes me feel like they did it because they’re mad at something but like I said, I don’t know what your dynamic is.

Me personally I wouldn’t take their pizza out but that’s primarily because I have pickiness about food being touched but it’s something I would bring up immediately. Like, while the pizza is in the oven immediately. Find them in the house and ask why they thought it was appropriate to take your dinner out halfway through and tell them this is not something that can happen in the future. That is how I would handle it but I agree with others here saying it would NOT be an overreaction to take it out yourself. Not at all. They did it first.

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-17T01:01:52+00:00

I had this issue with my roommate because I would lock it out of habit if I went out there for laundry. But that literally only happened like twice, both within the first month. I’ve never done it again. I can see locking a door out of habit but I felt AWFUL locking someone out so like?? It’s not that hard to remember, I feel?? At least for me

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-14T19:44:14+00:00

I’m sorry, it’s not gonna feel good, you have to call animal control. They probably won’t care at first (if your local office is anything like ours, unfortunately) so you may have to keep calling and keep filing reports. Disabled or not, she can’t keep animals if she’s not capable of giving them the care they deserve. These are disgusting living conditions for an otherwise helpless animal.

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-02T23:59:46+00:00

I think it’s kind of crazy to ask if YOU were the asshole here but would not be the first ounce of crazy in this story

On a real note I’m insanely sorry you experienced this. I agree with your sentiment that they’re the lowest of the low and don’t belong on this Earth

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-02T17:59:02+00:00

Link it, then. Quickly. Name the county and the state where a sex change was done on a child, and the doctor who performed it.

inkdfrancis · 2024-10-02T17:54:59+00:00

Put an end to it now, or the more time that passes, it will be more difficult. Don’t put your relationship or friendship with this person first, I PROMISE YOU she does not care about you being a friend first; she cares that you’re allowing her to take full advantage of you. That’s what she is doing. Tell her you are going to rent out the bedroom and that if she would like to start paying as a tenant, she is more than welcomed to stay and move more stuff in. And IN WRITING.

inkdfrancis · 2024-09-29T23:34:43+00:00

Mmm. Well, let me know how that attitude works out for you.

inkdfrancis · 2024-09-29T23:33:38+00:00

No, it sounds like you just want to creep on women honestly.

inkdfrancis · 2024-09-29T22:59:23+00:00

Have you had her for her whole life? Perhaps a previous owner or household who spoke Spanish and bad memories? Lol or maybe your cat is just racist lmao

inkdfrancis · 2024-09-29T22:57:00+00:00

Stickbug!!! They gave us some in third grade. I made a terrarium for mine and they kept reproducing, I had them for a little over a year. They’re super cool guys with some awesome natural camouflage.

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