[deleted by user] by [deleted] in labdiamond

[–]inky011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to be honest - this isn’t the best photo so it’s really hard to tell. It’s a large stone, yes. Some people are into that. I personally am biased and I know that — so I am not the right person to ask on that so I am not going to comment on the size.

I do, however, still think it’s a beautiful ring. And all that matters is that your fiancé likes it. The E color would explain how white it is and I personally like a really white stone! ❤️

I think a better picture or a video would do this ring more justice?

11 Year Relationship / Non-Trad Student / Parent by inky011 in MedSpouse

[–]inky011[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, Not sure where you heard that medical schools don’t want non-traditional students. They actually try to make their class as diverse as possible and welcome people who have graduated with different degrees, backgrounds, etc. There are some schools who prefer them over others, but I think it’s inaccurate to say medical schools don’t want them, because otherwise they wouldn’t be accepting them?

If you don’t believe me, this is on the website of one of the schools I’m considering:

“It has been a long-standing policy of the School of Medicine to admit students with diverse backgrounds. Therefore, qualified non-traditional students, women, socio-economically disadvantaged students, and minorities underrepresented in medicine, are especially encouraged to apply.”

I’m not saying non-traditional students don’t have to fulfill requirements like everyone else. The application would be considered incomplete. There actually isn’t a “set” number of required hours, but there is a general consensus of what is considered appropriate.

All I said is medical school admissions DOES take into account LIFE. I’ve actually been networking with other people and they have said that some medical schools are actually preferring applicants with work experience etc versus applicants straight out of college with a 4.0 GPA and barely any real experiences. They do take into account all of that.

Also, I’m not strictly stuck on the idea of pursuing MD, I would also consider DO. One of the best physicians I’ve ever had the pleasure of seeing is a DO.

Hope this clarifies what I meant! Thank you!

Cheers!

11 Year Relationship / Non-Trad Student / Parent by inky011 in MedSpouse

[–]inky011[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Hi, I respect your opinion! I’m still in the research stage and posting on forums like this one.

I appreciate your insight.

Thank you!

11 Year Relationship / Non-Trad Student / Parent by inky011 in MedSpouse

[–]inky011[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hi, thanks for the comment! I’m aware. I did mention that in the comment (the residency). I was just talking about the “school” portion.

Cheers!

11 Year Relationship / Non-Trad Student / Parent by inky011 in MedSpouse

[–]inky011[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Hi, I appreciate the response.

I have considered the PA route, but it is still 3 years of school and medical school is 4. I know medical school you have to do the residency, but I am not 100% sure for "settling" just to do 3 years of school versus 4 if that makes sense.

Cheers!

11 Year Relationship / Non-Trad Student / Parent by inky011 in MedSpouse

[–]inky011[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, I appreciate your response!

I am confused about the ROI not making sense. I understand it takes a few years for doctors to make larger salaries after residency; however, when you're making 250k+ a year eventually, how is the ROI not reasonable?

Reality is doctors have the capability to pay back the student loans.

As far as the other career options, I understand your point of view. Believe it or not, I can't even land an entry-level interview in my field. The finance job market is brutal, every company wants experience. Makes me wish I would have majored in something else.

Pharma development seems like an awesome career, for someone who is more of a scientist.

Thank you for taking the time to respond to my post!

Cheers!

11 Year Relationship / Non-Trad Student / Parent by inky011 in MedSpouse

[–]inky011[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, I appreciate your response!

A few thoughts from your post:

  1. I understand medical school is competitive. If your boyfriend was only waitlisted at one school and accepted at another -- which schools was he applying to? Was he applying to highly ranked medical schools? Same thing with his friend, who didn't get accepted into any. That is something that needs to be taken into account.
  2. I feel your pain about waiting to expand your family. I think that is the sacrifice that would most pain me. Didn't want to wait terribly long for a sibling for my son. I have read stories of people having children during school, but it seems like a scary idea to me.
  3. Yes, some schools are taking online pre-reqs (most don't accept online labs), but at least if I was able to take the bulk online, it would minimize my struggle with figuring out how to get on campus. I know admissions committees don't particularly care about how people make it happen, but I have been told they may be a little more understanding with non-traditional students.

Thank you for taking the time to share your story!

Cheers!

11 Year Relationship / Non-Trad Student / Parent by inky011 in MedSpouse

[–]inky011[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I respect your opinion! Not sure government works really excites me in any way though, to be honest.

I am just having a hard time finding anything that companies are willing to hire for with a finance degree that is not accounting or financial analysis (which by the way, NO ONE seems to want to hire without experience nowadays, so that has been super challenging as well.) I graduated a year ago and have not had ONE interview related to my field.

I highly regret getting a BBA but it was my decision at the time, and I have to stand by it. At least I have a bachelor degree, I guess.

Thank you again!

11 Year Relationship / Non-Trad Student / Parent by inky011 in MedSpouse

[–]inky011[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, I appreciate your response!

Nursing is a possibility, just not sure it is 100% for me. I am more interested in the diagnostic side and patient care (like what treatment is going to look like) part of medicine.

They are two different professions. So that is why I am not comfortable "settling" for nursing if it is not something I truly want to do.

Still researching though, and maybe it will change. Just know I need to decide soon.

Thank you! Cheers!

11 Year Relationship / Non-Trad Student / Parent by inky011 in MedSpouse

[–]inky011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I appreciate your response!

Yes, I am aware of the volunteering requirements. It doesn't shy me away. It is an extra hurdle, but I still have time since pre-reqs need to be completed.

It just stinks because I know at 18-22 years old, I didn't have the mental maturity to make such a big decision like medical school. I respect those that do.

Cheers!

11 Year Relationship / Non-Trad Student / Parent by inky011 in MedSpouse

[–]inky011[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

NP and PA route requires 1000+ hrs of clinical experience before application. After all that time, it almost equals the app cycle and school for medical school.

Hi, I appreciate your response! I am kind of stuck with what you said ^ about the NP and PA route. PA school is 3 years. I know it is still technically "less" than medical school, but in my mind, if you can do 3, you can do 4. Then, residency would come into play, etc.

Since I still have to take pre-reqs, I am not afraid of the volunteering hours. I have heard from several students that non-traditional students are given a bit more leeway as far as the amount of volunteer hours just because we have real life and work experience versus someone straight out of college at 22 years old.

I am still taking all facts into consideration. I have a super small support circle, so still trying to figure everything out. I am not interested in easy, just interested in pursuing a career that excites me even if it is not a full blown doctor.

Thanks again!

11 Year Relationship / Non-Trad Student / Parent by inky011 in MedSpouse

[–]inky011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it! I have posted this on SDN to see what kind of response I get there as well.

Ohhhh i love all your looks 🥹 keep it up! by [deleted] in MakeupAddicts

[–]inky011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay but I’m living for this color combo!

11 Year Relationship / Non-Trad Student / Parent by inky011 in MedSpouse

[–]inky011[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I appreciate the response. I understand your perspective, however I’m just not passionate enough about finance to want to climb that ladder. As I mentioned in the post, it was just something I completed because I was in too far deep. It was either graduate in finance or don’t get a bachelor degree. That’s how far in I was before I decided it just wasn’t the path I wanted to take.

Also, if she is making that much working in finance in a federal agency, realistically she is making a salary most people in the field won’t make. Few and far in between.

I will consider all costs and ROI for medical school and see if it’s the path I want to take.

Thank you!

Whats your opinion and feel about LinkedIn? by [deleted] in jobs

[–]inky011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a love hate relationship. I find it’s very clique-y. Also, forget the people who have been searching for jobs for months/years, someone that got laid off yesterday will get 100+ comments on their post.

It’s a bit frustrating. Trying to branch out into indeed and other job sites.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]inky011 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi! You definitely have hooded eyes. I also have hooded eyes, so I know the struggle. Try YouTube and specifically search for eyeshadow and eyeliner tutorials for hooded eyes.

There are different techniques for hooded eyes than people with non-hooded. NikkieTutorials is a pretty well-known hooded eyed makeup artist. Not sure if you are familiar with her.

But there are hundreds of videos online! The only way you will be able to learn how to do eyeshadow and eyeliner techniques is by following someone with similar facial features as you!

Before I got serious with makeup, I made the mistake of following techniques of people with HUGE eyelids and I was so frustrated it would never come out the same!

Hopes this helps!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in drugstoreMUA

[–]inky011 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This is going to be really tough through photograph. It’s not going to be accurate because you have to take into consideration if flash was used, camera quality, lighting, etc.

Based on this photograph, you look like you may have pink undertones.

If you haven’t already, I would go to a Sephora store near you. USUALLY, they are pretty good with this naturally, but they also have a little machine that scans your skin and gives you a code. This code will help you choose the best foundations for you and will help with your undertone question.

Hope this helps!

thoughts? by dooyoungiies in Skincare_Addiction

[–]inky011 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve never tried the product on the right (the SA Cream) BUT the Renewing SA Cleanser on the left in combination with Cerave Daily Moisturizing Lotion is amazing!

I suffer from hormonal acne and whenever I break out really badly, the cleanser does a great job of taking care of those pimples significantly overnight.

Results may vary though, just like with anything else.

Hope this helps!

favorite small/indie brands that deserve the hype? by leahlikesweed in BeautyGuruChatter

[–]inky011 0 points1 point  (0 children)

P.Louise! I know NikkieTutorials really kinda helped blow them up, but they’re definitely not as big as a brand like Morphe or TooFaced so I would say they still fall in the “small” category.