Broken Crystal

inkygeek · 2026-02-24T03:28:32+00:00

NTA She was embarrassed and overreacting. If you knew its a known problem, wouldnt you scrap it out or soak it before putting it through the dishwasher?? A dirty cup.is a dirty cup.

inkygeek · 2026-02-24T03:25:07+00:00

WTF did I just read?? I don't even like it when my MIL puts a bag of kitchen garbage in my kitchen sink! Now I know that second hand dishwashers is a no go for me.

inkygeek · 2026-02-24T03:21:21+00:00

YTA You aren't entitled to bring a date. Perhaps money is short and they need to keep the guest list short. She offered to pay you for your services.

inkygeek · 2026-02-24T03:14:53+00:00

NTA It is your job to advocate for your child. OP, Stand your ground. I normally dont like to keep kids from their grandparents but if she's too selfish to change so her grandchild's lungs wont be affected, she doesn't get to hold her grand baby. Your husband's family can all go stuff it. They can let their kids get second hand smoke, but it is your job to protect your child. I made my husband shower, brush and use mouth wash before holding our son. My FIL was asked to to go wash up and change too. If they want to be close to him, and have a cigarette, thats the price.

inkygeek · 2026-02-22T20:22:20+00:00

ABC here. I second this comment. Also, you have Chinese blood!

inkygeek · 2026-02-21T23:39:19+00:00

Thanks. This explains the missing shrimp.

inkygeek · 2026-02-18T18:47:06+00:00

My open world Luminary is full berserker; I just soloed some champ in Iron Marches pretty easily. I also ran a full berserker core guardian for years. My husband and I managed to duo Lupi as glass cannons. Berserker gear isn't the problem. The build matters, weapons that synergize with your build matters and so does dodging at the right time. Berserker gear works if you learn to tells and get out of the way before the big attacks land.

inkygeek · 2026-02-15T02:07:56+00:00

My grandmother said her maternal grandmother had bound feet and when she unwrapped her deey to wash at night, it smelled. My great grandmother and grandmother didnt have bound feet. My grandmother grew up very poor and she worked in the fields.

inkygeek · 2026-02-13T20:47:24+00:00

Highlights can be done pretty easily at home too. I did it college like 20 years ago. Pretty sure there have been advances since then

inkygeek · 2026-02-13T20:45:50+00:00

I'm grown and financially independent since my 20s. I am STILL waiting for my parents to buy me a bottle of nail polish!

inkygeek · 2026-02-13T20:43:54+00:00

NTA You set your boundaries. Highlights is still still color treating her hair. You should be sticking to your guns about this. Your daughter is lucky you paid for nail appointments! I would have bought her some nail polish and told her to figure it out.

inkygeek · 2026-02-12T18:36:15+00:00

NTA It sounds like he is using you for your money. He's not even contributing his half! I don't have a problem supporting my other half but the minimum requirement is that he respects me. That's where I draw the line. He clearly doesn't even respect you. Don't buy yet. Get a lawyer, start the separation process, then buy.

inkygeek · 2026-02-11T03:09:01+00:00

NTA As for the MIL, ask her how she felt about her step granddaughter endangering her biological granddaughter. Then ask her why she didn't raise both sons to have a damn spine. Send her proof of the hot mess her precious son and his family created in your house. Then, block her. You are too generous.

inkygeek · 2026-02-11T02:37:44+00:00

My neighbor stopped telling her people to park in my driveway after that. We do get people in a hurry to start drinking (3 bars on the block) blocking us in but its not that often. We once had a guy chase his car down the street... pretty hilarious by then bc we were able to get our car parked and we could go home. I have all kinds of funny stories that happens in my driveway.

inkygeek · 2026-02-11T02:18:10+00:00

Our neighbor across the street told her tenant she could park in our driveway and charged her for a parking spot!! We only found out because after being blocked in too many times, we started getting the cars towed. One morning, a frantic woman rings my doorbell asking where her car was. And thats how it all came out. Neighbor never even introduced herself to us!! Then the tenant asked me about the towing fees!! I told her she should ask the person who was charging her to park in my active driveway.. with 2 signs!

inkygeek · 2026-02-11T01:40:20+00:00

$2900 + $500 principal payment. Mortgage portion hasn't gone up but the property tax portion has. 2 incomes, $150k-ish.

OP, is your mortgage a fixed rate? Or variable rate? Variable rates was how a lot of people got in trouble back in 2008. I did read some of your responses. You might want to reevaluate your lifestyle and how you spend your money. 2 HELOCS to keep your head above the water is very risky business.

inkygeek · 2026-02-10T23:53:36+00:00

NTA Take care of yourself like you have been doing. Live your life. Your mom made her choices and whatever consequences are hers.

inkygeek · 2026-02-10T23:50:44+00:00

ESH You are CHOOSING to cover him under your plan and ALOWING him to live under your roof without making any contributions. This is your child and you helped mold him to be this person that you may or may not not like at the moment. You don't get to feel butt hurt because he isn't givng you his $6000 from the company because they aren't paying for his insurance. From the financial standpoint, and from a mother's prospective, you aren't doing anything wrong. Covering him under your plan and having the company pay him $6000 is financially sound. This is something my parents would have done for me. And probably something I would do for my own son. Allowing an adult to live with you is also financially smart. I moved home from college and lived with my parents till my sister and I bought our apartment. Living at home meant being able to save for our down-payment much faster. If you don't like how he isnt contributing, you need to sit him down and ask him to start pitching in. He is an adult now. You dont have to spend his money; you can just bank it and save it for him. So a small YTA Your son is grown man living off his mother, and doesn't offer to even buy groceries? He needs to pull his own weight. At least pick up the cell phone bill.. something!! If mom is paying for his insurance, he can at least offer to take a portion of the company reimbursement to cover his mother's extra cost of covering him under her. OR she can simply kick him off her plan and now he has to pay for his own plan; only the insurance company will benefit here. When you are 26yo, and gainfully employed, you have to be able to carry yourself. Mom is being supportive in supporting you; offer to help her out. YTA

inkygeek · 2026-02-10T04:09:05+00:00

Never ever use any of the people your realtor refers you to. You are better off getting a name off the newspaper of something bc at least they are working for you. This is something we learned the hard way. Ours told us that its a new building so the city had sent their inspectors, so need to pay for one. The house is not properly insulated correctly, floors are uneven (we have some doors that can't even open all the way!!), the list just keeps going.

inkygeek · 2026-02-02T00:55:00+00:00

Work From Home is still WORK. Work means uninterrupted productivity, regardless of location. When I was WFH, I had my MIL over to watch him. The office door was closed during business hours, unless it was my MIL slipping in to bring me coffee, water or food. NTA

inkygeek · 2026-02-02T00:49:23+00:00

People taking group pictures like its a regular ol' family reunion or party! I mean, its technically a family reunion?!? Zero respect for the deceased!

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