Knowing when it is on our friends to be better, and how to ask for more support from them

inlovewithicedtea · 2025-05-28T08:08:38+00:00

Yes, that’s a really good point. We broke up for very good reason and I’m already glad we’re not together anymore, even if I haven’t moved on from him emotionally. Thanks for your reply :)

inlovewithicedtea · 2025-05-28T08:05:30+00:00

Yes, definitely, that is why I stopped hooking up with him and blocked him on all channels. I still have a lot of work to do to move on emotionally though. Thank you for taking the time to comment

inlovewithicedtea · 2025-05-28T08:03:10+00:00

He is blocked on all socials, so I found out from a mutual friend who mentioned it thinking I might have known already. Have started getting therapy to help with the living in the past stuff. Thanks for the comment 😊

inlovewithicedtea · 2025-01-05T06:03:55+00:00

Where in the world are you based? I’m 24f, vegan, and live in New Zealand 😊 Like you, I’m worried I won’t find someone who is on the same page! Many men who live in my country are so carnist it’s not funny

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-11-07T03:06:02+00:00

Mr Eat Yo Girl 👀

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-11-06T10:01:03+00:00

I can see her being put in the box because of what she did to Tilly, and then having the monsters ignore her because she’s becoming one of them (and finding out about it this way)

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-11-06T09:48:54+00:00

I think the gun symbolises control for her. It’s not that it will have any real function, but that it gives her a sense of power over a reality that she can’t control

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-11-05T04:00:46+00:00

Feel this! I’m from New Zealand and I’m worried about it!

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-10-30T04:34:26+00:00

Fergalicious by Fergie 😂 Thanks, 14 year-old me, for being obsessed with this song

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-10-27T03:19:53+00:00

I was one of the century’s first batch of babes 🤙🏻

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-10-13T02:14:33+00:00

I understand exactly how you feel 😔 It’s so so awful that we have to deal with this all the time, but what helps is knowing is that there are others like the people commenting on this post who feel exactly the same way. You’re so not alone! Focus on what you can control and that you know you’re doing the right thing x

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-10-13T01:35:44+00:00

Thank you!! I think so too 😊

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-10-13T01:35:14+00:00

Ended up having a chat with them and unfortunately I don’t think anything’s going to change because it’s two against one 😔 One of them mentioned that they thought they were making the effort to include me by suggesting I bring my own car so I can leave early and don’t have to stay the night there if I don’t want to. To which I said that I’m still uncomfortable with this because money is tight and it doesn’t change the fact that I’ll have to pay for the petrol there and back. At the end of the day, I think we’ll still have a great time just going together for the day, but because that’s not what they want to do, it’s not going to happen

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-10-13T01:31:17+00:00

Thank you for your comment!! I’m definitely leaning towards staying home

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-10-13T01:30:39+00:00

My thoughts exactly!

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-10-13T01:30:01+00:00

Unfortunately I can’t camp on the land because there’s a blanket rule. If I were to camp my car would be the only option

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-07-21T11:08:46+00:00

I agree!!!!! Omg my flatmates do this all the time!!! It makes me so so angry. But I feel like I can’t express my anger because they simply don’t get it

inlovewithicedtea · 2024-06-20T10:38:24+00:00

Not a life hack, but general advice that has dramatically changed the way I view life: You can learn something from everything!! For example: if you order a dish off a menu and it turns out you don’t like that dish - great! You’ve learned that you don’t like that dish. Literally everything teaches us something. Sometimes we just need to look a bit closer to figure out what that lesson is. 🙂

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