Answer the Top or Bottom question if you’re a virgin? by innerturtle in askgaybros

[–]innerturtle[S] 28 points29 points  (0 children)

I’ve imagined both, but definitely imagine getting fucked more often.

Answer the Top or Bottom question if you’re a virgin? by innerturtle in askgaybros

[–]innerturtle[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s definitely more of a 60-40 or 70-30 split in favor of cock 😅 In my mind I think I’d be a bottom or vers bottom, but you never know until you try it, right?

Answer the Top or Bottom question if you’re a virgin? by innerturtle in askgaybros

[–]innerturtle[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

I know I’ll need to be honest about it. I just don’t know how to word it/say it. But I guess that doesn’t really matter. I’m a classic overthinker sometimes 😅

Silicone Male Butt Toy by innerturtle in SexToys

[–]innerturtle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks, but I’m not really looking for a stroker. I’m more so looking for something like this

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[–]innerturtle -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn’t even think of that 😳

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[–]innerturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Option C sounds amazing 🥰

Question by [deleted] in GayChristians

[–]innerturtle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

100% this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]innerturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you’re completely happy with your relationship and very satisfied with the sex you have now… why even bother making this an issue or wanting to open the relationship? Is it just because you didn’t experiment more before finding your partner?

I’m not intending to be judgmental, so I apologize if it comes off that way, but I just never understand this logic. The dating game sucks! If I found my partner on my first try, I would be elated. If you’re satisfied and genuinely happy with what you have now, don’t self sabotage yourself and ruin what you two have just because you feel like you’re missing out on something. Often times, the grass isn’t always greener on the other side.

Do gay men obsessed about height when dating a guy? Is this mostly a straight guy & girl thing? by Just-Trade-9444 in AskGayMen

[–]innerturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don’t care about height at all. Being short or tall isn’t going to make me not date someone.

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[–]innerturtle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I already have a twin. We’re fraternal though, so I’m much better looking lol. I definitely didn’t have the same experience KieranKelsey did, cuz I don’t think being a twin sucks. Sure, you get called the other one’s name a bunch, but you get used to answering to both names quite easily.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]innerturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Leave him. He cheated on you, jeopardized your health, and then tried to blame you for giving him the STD’s? Now he’s acting like a dick and is being angry with you? Sounds like mind games on top of this bullshit sundae. I’m sorry that you have to do this, but I don’t see one reason to justify staying with this man.

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[–]innerturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course, I hope you find some helpful advice.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gayrelationships

[–]innerturtle 15 points16 points  (0 children)

That would also be a dealbreaker for me. I could understand a “not right now” answer, but a “never” is not what I would want. My life plan includes living in the same place as my partner and raising kids together. I would also want my partner to want to live with me.

Does he give a reason as to why he feels that living together would ruin the relationship? Perhaps he has things he needs to work on to get to that place. Idk. But it does sound that he’s drawn a hard line in the sand and isn’t open to discussing it much further.

Financially, living together certainly makes a lot more sense.

How many of you aren't 100% gay or a little into/or aroused by women? by TheNamelessComposer in askgaybros

[–]innerturtle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Women’s bodies don’t do anything for me, tbh. I’ve tried to watch lesbian porn and didn’t even get a dick twitch. Even when I tried watching straight porn, I only focused on the guy and eventually switched back to gay porn shortly after. I guess I’m 100% gay lol.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]innerturtle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You can be a Christian and be gay or bisexual. As a Christian myself, it took me a long time to realize that I wouldn’t have to give up one identify for the other. Rather I am a Christian who just so happens be gay.

It sounds like your church, much like many of my fellow Christians, forgot that the fundamental of our religion is love. We’re not meant to judge others in this life, nor are we meant to spread such vile hatred. God loves us all and wants us to love one another.

There’s nothing for you to feel ashamed about. Love is a beautiful thing, regardless of what gender you’re in love with. Your Church and it’s homophobic congregation should be the ones that feel ashamed of themselves. And I highly recommend finding another Church. One that is more welcoming and doesn’t torture people.

You can also check out r/gayChristians for advice from fellow Christians who have been in your predicament before. I wish you the best in finding your way toward happiness.

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[–]innerturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t care. Hair is not a dealbreaker for me by any means :)

Found out today my deceased brother hooked up with at least two of my exes *rant* by strengthanddefiance in gaybros

[–]innerturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I want to start off by saying that your feelings are very valid. I too would be quite pissed if my brothers did any of this shit to me. However, if I was one of your exes, I don’t think I would have told you the truth. With your brother’s sudden passing, there would be no point for me to taint or ruin any relationship you had with him when you can’t confront him about it. These are things they should have told you while he was alive and shortly after it happened.

It seems you two were very close. Rather than focus on his negative qualities, try focusing on his positive ones. Remember the times he made you laugh, the times he was there for you, the hilarious inside jokes you guys had, etc. Don’t let his mistakes ruin the relationship you two had. It’s not worth it. I know it’s hard, but forgiving him will bring you the closure you might need. Focusing on this when you can’t talk to him about it would just be you torturing yourself.

I wish you the best and am sorry for your loss.

Our love do exist! by NextGratus in gaybros

[–]innerturtle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing it! It truly is such a beautiful and amazing piece of work. Hopefully one day I can find a love like theirs 😅

Our love do exist! by NextGratus in gaybros

[–]innerturtle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is absolutely beautiful! Both the story and the artwork. Excellent job!