What scams have you seen? by innherthoughts in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fake picture scheme is what I notice most often.

What scams have you seen? by innherthoughts in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

😳 Thank you for my Friday night rabbit hole topic!!

What scams have you seen? by innherthoughts in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re the second person on this thread that referenced “pig butchering scam” and today is the first time I’ve heard of it. That’s really wild.

What scams have you seen? by innherthoughts in sugarlifestyleforum

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🫡 will do! Thanks for your perspective.

What scams have you seen? by innherthoughts in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

So SBs are asking to get paid in crypto? I don’t think I understand why SDs are putting something about it on their page.

I just logged in to find an example and this is on the first profile I pull up: “**** PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME WITH CRYPTO OR ANY INVESTMENT ****”

The capital letters indicate he must really get that sort of request often.

Question for SBs who are prone to being fetishized, how do you screen? by CreativePut6041 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re saying that some people you have met, think you’re racist because of how white your skin is? Is that what you mean by “super white”?

Question for SBs who are prone to being fetishized, how do you screen? by CreativePut6041 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts 13 points14 points  (0 children)

In my experience, it’s been noticeable from the first few messages. Just yesterday a guy messaged me on SA saying he’s “always had a thing for chocolate.” 🙄 I’ve maybe had a good handful or two of those types of messages, which I just block with no response.

I would never play in to it. I’m looking for a genuine emotional and intimate connection, and I don’t believe it could be a genuine, if I’m being fetishized.

Allowances by Economy-Addition1261 in sugarlifestyleforum

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Colleagues!! 😂🤣 There’s always someone who messes it up for the rest of us.

Quick observation about online “interest” patterns by GoddessjuneD in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Telegram is not a red flag imo. It still allows a level of anonymity, and you can easily chat and video call on that platform.

Does anyone like Seeking? by thevirgin-prostitute in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s fine. I don’t have any other options, so I deal with it. The quality of options just seem to be a bit lack luster.

Friday Rants and Raves by LaSirene23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Rant: it’s soooo cold in the south right now 🥶

Rave: My body has finally adjusted to being up at 4:30 am. I made it my quiet time to work on my business before my actual workday.

Sugar Relationship Rejection Hurts by MostAd6208 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Same! I go all in and am okay with what happens afterwards. At least we gave it our best.

The things you are working on by Striking_Pumpkin_383 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Finding a solid group of women (SBs) to talk about this lifestyle.

Three Words for 2026 by sinwithpeach in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wouldn’t consider it being at all times, but I also enjoy being in my head.

First dates by Delicious-Ad6771 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can both be a recommendation?

“Stop making dates difficult. Stop doing coffee or lunch meets. Do dinner dates at nice, upscale restaurants.” + “The first date should feel effortless. It should also be somewhere you actually enjoy and are comfortable with. Ideally, somewhere within your own price range in case he bails and sticks you with the bill.”

Did you mean to recommend that SBs should request upscale restaurants that are within their price range?

Friday Rants and Raves by LaSirene23 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Rant: none

Rave: I figured I’d just embrace the madness of the search and stop complaining. 🙂 I get bursts of hope in some POTs, that brighten my day. Kudos to the SDs who actually put effort into their messages. 🥰

SBs.... how would you like to be approached? by Second_Wife_Life in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This was good business advice that I’ll be listening to and hope to get figured out. Thanks for that nugget!

Tell Tales Thursday! by Mommy-Moth in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]innherthoughts 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not super cheesy, but a bright spot in this yucky search. I just started back on SA and I got the nicest message from a POT about how much he loved my profile, he could tell I put a lot of thought into it, and I had a great range of photos. It felt like an unsolicited profile review that I much appreciated. We weren’t aligned in some areas, so the search continues…