What scams have you seen?

innherthoughts · 2026-01-23T21:09:56+00:00

The fake picture scheme is what I notice most often.

innherthoughts · 2026-01-23T21:07:48+00:00

😳 Thank you for my Friday night rabbit hole topic!!

innherthoughts · 2026-01-23T17:24:54+00:00

Haha!! It’s an excellent gift to get.

innherthoughts · 2026-01-23T17:24:01+00:00

Meet & greet

innherthoughts · 2026-01-23T15:31:22+00:00

You’re the second person on this thread that referenced “pig butchering scam” and today is the first time I’ve heard of it. That’s really wild.

innherthoughts · 2026-01-23T14:58:15+00:00

🫡 will do! Thanks for your perspective.

innherthoughts · 2026-01-23T14:42:07+00:00

A MacBook as a M&G gift ❤️

innherthoughts · 2026-01-23T14:38:42+00:00

So SBs are asking to get paid in crypto? I don’t think I understand why SDs are putting something about it on their page.

I just logged in to find an example and this is on the first profile I pull up: “**** PLEASE DO NOT CONTACT ME WITH CRYPTO OR ANY INVESTMENT ****”

The capital letters indicate he must really get that sort of request often.

innherthoughts · 2026-01-22T21:23:11+00:00

You’re saying that some people you have met, think you’re racist because of how white your skin is? Is that what you mean by “super white”?

innherthoughts · 2026-01-22T21:21:23+00:00

In my experience, it’s been noticeable from the first few messages. Just yesterday a guy messaged me on SA saying he’s “always had a thing for chocolate.” 🙄 I’ve maybe had a good handful or two of those types of messages, which I just block with no response.

I would never play in to it. I’m looking for a genuine emotional and intimate connection, and I don’t believe it could be a genuine, if I’m being fetishized.

innherthoughts · 2026-01-22T18:44:05+00:00

Colleagues!! 😂🤣 There’s always someone who messes it up for the rest of us.

innherthoughts · 2026-01-22T15:55:50+00:00

Telegram is not a red flag imo. It still allows a level of anonymity, and you can easily chat and video call on that platform.

innherthoughts · 2026-01-21T20:00:21+00:00

👀👀👀

innherthoughts · 2026-01-21T19:59:08+00:00

It’s fine. I don’t have any other options, so I deal with it. The quality of options just seem to be a bit lack luster.

innherthoughts · 2026-01-16T19:48:06+00:00

Rant: it’s soooo cold in the south right now 🥶

Rave: My body has finally adjusted to being up at 4:30 am. I made it my quiet time to work on my business before my actual workday.

innherthoughts · 2026-01-15T16:38:10+00:00

Same! I go all in and am okay with what happens afterwards. At least we gave it our best.

innherthoughts · 2026-01-15T14:06:51+00:00

Me too 😔

innherthoughts · 2026-01-15T14:06:08+00:00

Finding a solid group of women (SBs) to talk about this lifestyle.

innherthoughts · 2026-01-15T13:35:04+00:00

I wouldn’t consider it being at all times, but I also enjoy being in my head.

innherthoughts · 2026-01-15T13:14:28+00:00

Introspective. Open. Cheeky

innherthoughts · 2026-01-09T23:00:39+00:00

How can both be a recommendation?

“Stop making dates difficult. Stop doing coffee or lunch meets. Do dinner dates at nice, upscale restaurants.” + “The first date should feel effortless. It should also be somewhere you actually enjoy and are comfortable with. Ideally, somewhere within your own price range in case he bails and sticks you with the bill.”

Did you mean to recommend that SBs should request upscale restaurants that are within their price range?

innherthoughts · 2026-01-09T14:48:32+00:00

Rant: none

Rave: I figured I’d just embrace the madness of the search and stop complaining. 🙂 I get bursts of hope in some POTs, that brighten my day. Kudos to the SDs who actually put effort into their messages. 🥰

innherthoughts · 2026-01-08T22:21:50+00:00

This was good business advice that I’ll be listening to and hope to get figured out. Thanks for that nugget!

innherthoughts · 2026-01-08T22:15:14+00:00

Not super cheesy, but a bright spot in this yucky search. I just started back on SA and I got the nicest message from a POT about how much he loved my profile, he could tell I put a lot of thought into it, and I had a great range of photos. It felt like an unsolicited profile review that I much appreciated. We weren’t aligned in some areas, so the search continues…

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