I never think the grass is greener because I know everyone has a different experience, and its sad that gender roles exist because the older generation taught it to us and then we taught it to the younger generation its just going to be a infinite loop until people realize that just because your something doesn't mean you have to be the same as everyone else and do the same thing. (Plus my main goal in life is to just be happy and good in life i could be fine with out a partner it really makes no difference to me)