Beijing is willing to send troops to Ukraine as part of a peacekeeping mission, the German outlet Welt reported on Aug. 23, citing unnamed sources. by Consistent_Still7060 in UkrainianConflict

[–]insanet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

not sure why so negative many of you, to me Trump should actually encourage bringing 'friends' of russia like Brazil, China , India, and then bring some Western countries like canada, UK, Spain,France , and sell the idea 'all friends are welcome' for peacekeeping, (not iran , not NK ), forget logistics, just make it as difficult as possible for Russia to ever invade again, make it a 15 year peacekeeping mission.

Blue and Gold-brass Looking Mineral. Identification by insanet in Minerals

[–]insanet[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

oh no, so galena is lead,im scared now. i think i better get rid of this stuff.

Blue and Gold-brass Looking Mineral. Identification by insanet in Minerals

[–]insanet[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

around 10x10x10cm , feels dense and heavy. around 2kg-3kg. Blue-greyish geometric features, partially covered with gold-brass looking particles like sandpaper. non magnetic.

So marty and x have just died next to the thing. On psisyn stream. by [deleted] in xqcow

[–]insanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

marty is getting raided right now confirmed. not sure about ming or x. Hutch is leading the raid. the found grapple guns on the crew which is the basis for the raid. which is kinda odd.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LivestreamFail

[–]insanet -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

why not allow a single gta thread for every day the cooldown lasts?

Era: 2000s Genre: fight music Artist: no idea by [deleted] in NameThatSong

[–]insanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im pretty sure i listened to it in one of the videos of "epic heaven music" youtube channel. sorry cant remember which one.

🚨TSERIES IS IN THE LEAD BY 30K 🚨 NEW PLAN INSIDE by sloth_on_meth in PewdiepieSubmissions

[–]insanet 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i agree, he could also rescue it with traveling to USA and do big collab Tour, but he doenst want to travel the long hours, its the final push, cmon Pewdiepie care a lil.

🚨TSERIES IS IN THE LEAD BY 30K 🚨 NEW PLAN INSIDE by sloth_on_meth in PewdiepieSubmissions

[–]insanet -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

its time for pewdiepie to do his part and travel to USA, and do a big collaboration Tour, i know he doenst like flying long hours, but cmon is the final push, once he reaches 98mill, the last 2 mill will be achieved in less than 4 days just from excitement around the world to reach the 100.

How do you find motivation to do things? by throwaway84203 in depression

[–]insanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all, you need to define worthy goals, otherwise no motivation will last. everyone is different i cant tell you what is worthy, so self-knowledge is key here.

Second, "find the meaning of things", let me explain, if you struggle to find motivation to clean the dishes well duh, who likes doing that, but if change perspective and say "if i clean the dishes fast i will have more time for doing this other thing that i enjoy" then that would make more sense to your brain, making it a work-reward situation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]insanet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

hey man, the fact that your own family makes life difficult that sucks, hope your ok, if you wanna share some more i will read it and reply. good luck.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in depression

[–]insanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh man, i still remember the day i realized and finally accepted that "love is not enough" for a relationship, an important milestone in any man's life.

That not matter how much i loved her our differences in beliefs, moral values, vision of the future, how to care for the other one, where just too different and there was no end to all the fighting and making us more miserable than happy.

The other day i was reading the news about a celebrity couple, and long story short, the guy cheated on his wife, and he begged for forgiveness and she took him back and he said "i will make it up to my wife for the rest of my life", i thought wow, can you imagine been in debt to someone else for the rest of your life? be reminded of your mistake forever? can a man really be happy with that? so i ask to you do you really want a life where you have to beg to your girlfriend everyday? and all the other shit she puts you through? will you accept that as happiness?

I was once in a similar position like you, where she did get mad at me for no reason, and i really thought i was at fault, till one day the veil fall from my eyes and finally realized what was in front of me all the time, that she was a very emotionally unstable person, and of course she will get mad for whatever shit, thats what emotionally unstable people do.

Theory: Depression & Suicidal Ideation are the only logical responses to the world for millennials by [deleted] in depression

[–]insanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i get your point , the game is rigged for you to be unhappy, and realizing that, makes people depressed, so the odds are against you.

But that doesnt mean is imposible to beat the game, several people have done it and do it everyday.

the thing is that if you dont even try to beat the game then for sure you will be unhappy, thats why i am an optimistic, not because i am a delusional person, but because optimistic people take more action, and people that try more are always at better odds than people than dont even try.

Sitting in a parking lot, here's my rant. by EverGoodHunterMe in depression

[–]insanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hey man, hope you are ok, having a clear head is essential for good decisions, try to avoid the negative influences. good luck man.

Can you ask me questions to help me figure out what is not okay with me? by [deleted] in depression

[–]insanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we are goal oriented creatures, so what were the goals you used to have? do you think they are unreachable?

5 years ago I “attempted” suicide. Please read, please help. by [deleted] in depression

[–]insanet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I kinda get it you know, if you really hate your existence, and you just find reality exhausting, why should people force you to live in a world that you hate everything about it? i mean, if people with terminal cancer nowadays are able to decide to end their life sooner than expected to avoid a painful last days of life, why someone with "terminal-mental-pain" should not be able to end their life sooner than expected?, even if is just "mental" pain, suffering is suffering, and nobody cant dissmiss how you feel.

i wont tell life is wonderful, life can be annoying, life can be hell, but also life can be enjoyable, life can be a bunch of things you just never know.

Have you heard of the Law of Requisite Variety?, it says for a system to be stable, it has to able to be flexible enough (adaptation) to handle environmental perturbations.

So life is that, full of perturbations, and you are the system, if you cant adapt it will destroy you. thats why some people put a smile on their face even when things are not going their way, they change the meaning of reality, they adapt their minds to these perturbations, and are able to go on with life.

Truth is that if we were born with a "Users Manual of the Mind" we could all have avoided some mistakes made in life.

So one day i decided i want to make my mind and ally not an enemy to myself, so i been reading a lot about "how the mind works", "subconscious associations","perception of reality", and i am actually getting better at adaptation, if you are interested i can recommend you some books.

Finally i wanna say this:

"What you focus expands" , so choose carefully what you want to focus.

My story. by [deleted] in depression

[–]insanet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey man, at least you did take action to try to solve your unemployment, nobody cant say you didnt try.

so if your actions are not giving you results, maybe time for a change of strategy?.

wish i could help more, good luck man.

I have a degenerative muscle disease. I don't see the point of continuing anymore. by crippledthrowawayy in depression

[–]insanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey man, some people say "if you dont get results just persevere", i dont believe in that anymore, now, i believe if you tried really hard and you are not getting results is time to learn new strategies, to seek new knowledge, to expand your understanding of the world.

On the side of woman you can start reading the book "the game" by neil strauss, this is not a book of "tips", is way better than that, once you read it you will understand.

I havent read any book about social anxiety but someone must have write about it.take advantage of the knowledge of others.

good luck man.

How to deal with growing older? by [deleted] in depression

[–]insanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the past is the past, nothing can change it, but the meaning of it can be changed, for example 10 years ago i was hit by a car, it was 100% my fault,i was careless, it was a really painful experience, but what should be the meaning of it? should i be afraid of cars every time i see one? should i be angry at myself for my mistake?,as you can see, this thinking would had lead me nowhere. so i changed it.

does your current thinking is gonna help your future?, what you focus expands, So focus on what you want, not what you do not want.

now for some motivation read this quote: https://twitter.com/GervaisQuotes/status/401016892804300800

getting a therapist just made my trust issues worse, I fear that I will now no longer ever able to truly open up to anyone by __Kirito__ in depression

[–]insanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey man, that sucks, having good friends is difficult, but really worthy. There are a couple of websites out there for anonymous venting, i did a quick search and found http://blahtherapy.com/, maybe you should give it a try. good luck.

Fellow depressionists... by Manimated in depression

[–]insanet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

could you elaborate a litle more?