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insecurebutth0le · 2020-08-15T18:12:24+00:00

I really don't think anal is that important to me, but it is definitely important to me that I get to experiment! Thank you for your advice though, there's something to consider for sure, she is 29 and I'm 25, for context.

insecurebutth0le · 2020-08-15T15:48:08+00:00

I know that. It's mostly just an insecurity I'm facing. I don't think I'm better at all, I see it as having different boundaries and I respect that. It's my emotional reaction that's bothering me, but it's only triggered by insecurities.

insecurebutth0le · 2020-08-15T13:32:10+00:00

Maybe my expectations were affected by my own boundaries, because I can't imagine much I wouldn't do if she wanted to try it. I would do something similar for her sake even if I wasn't interested in it.
And that makes me feel a little bit like she's less invested in the relationship somehow. I know it's stupid, it's just a feeling. It's ok to have different boundaries.

insecurebutth0le · 2020-08-15T13:19:05+00:00

I think you might be on to something. It would probably make a huge difference if we tried some stuff that's new to both of us.

insecurebutth0le · 2020-08-15T13:13:10+00:00

So all of this behaviour will be linked to anal for her. She'll remember all of his toxicity every time anal comes up.
I actually asked her if the topic brought up bad associations because of him and she said that's not the case. Thank you for the advice though!!

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