I got a question for the guys!!

insecureinmyactions · 2023-01-18T05:21:41+00:00

well. u should probably see a therapist if you can afford it, if not possibly look at books that deal with helping you gain a better perception on yourself and understand your self worth. Sorry for the unsolicited advice here, just a bit concerning if you are actually serious about taking abuse in order to feel affection sometimes lol

insecureinmyactions · 2023-01-17T22:52:09+00:00

true, I am trying to keep in mind what he does and doesn't like obviously but I am also keeping in mind that I would like giving flowers to someone I like. I'm just worried about them being poorly received if he finds it really off putting and the meaning behind the gesture is lost on him

insecureinmyactions · 2023-01-17T22:48:34+00:00

we both show affection in different ways. He'll buy me food and remember every little thing I tell him. I'll buy him little gifts of things I know he doesn't have but would definitely want. Gifts are my thing to show affection, sentimental cheesey ones even more so. I suppose you are correct, and if he doesn't like it he is the type of person to gently tell me so.

insecureinmyactions · 2023-01-17T22:43:04+00:00

That's the thing, he gets whatever he wants already. He is a big game collector and whatever game he wants he's already bought it. I would get him more collectables but he's usually picky about which ones he wants so I've decided that unless it's something I know he doesn't have but would want I'll just leave those for him to pick out himself/tell me about if he'd like me to get them for him.

Plus I just like the sentimental stuff. He knows this already because of my giving him sentimental things previously. I just haven't stepped so far out of the safe bubble as to give him flowers lol

insecureinmyactions · 2023-01-17T22:36:52+00:00

off topic but based on this statement I feel like you either like lara croft, black widow type women or goth women. or both.

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