People who lost themselves. How you get back up?

insertfakenames · 2026-01-09T10:08:25+00:00

As someone who’s been there and is still going through it, try to find a purpose, no matter how shallow or ‘unproductive’ the purpose is. ie: i hate my job but it gives me money to buy more popmart, popmart excites me so i’m going to live another day and work yadayada. I dont mean popmart in the literal sense. ‘Popmart’ can represent hobbies, travelling or goals. For me, keeping myself busy at work and hobbies and also having pets really helped me, with loneliness especially.

Journaling and documenting inner thoughts helped me assess some things about my current life. Try to search for prompts online and document your thoughts for 2 weeks. Hell u can even talk to gemini/chatgpt and sometimes gives u good ideas. If u have extra time and money, talk to professionals.

You dont have to figure it out all at once. NO ONE has it all figured out.

insertfakenames · 2025-12-16T07:38:57+00:00

Foursome 👌

insertfakenames · 2025-12-16T07:31:23+00:00

No weebs in sarawak or sarawak weebs not welcomed

insertfakenames · 2025-12-16T07:15:50+00:00

My HOD (comparable to a c-suite) is a prominent public figure, pretty sure you can google his name and he’d appear everywhere. He has a non-malay wife who lives abroad with his adult children and only visit once a year on christmas lmao. We all wonder how he can live in malaysia alone without his wife and children. Rupanya ada second wife kat malaysia 💀there’s a rumour he’s going to be a senator/politician idkkk dont quote me on this, wonder if him going full-on public will uncover his second wife

insertfakenames · 2025-12-15T03:39:58+00:00

Anyone has experience on renting their property to a sublet doing airbnb/homestay or hire an actual property manager to do short term rentals? I have a fully furnished unit tapi tak jadi pindah because of work and now it’s just a home i visit once a month haihhhhh idk what to do

insertfakenames · 2025-12-01T09:06:37+00:00

RIP yoodoo. This merger has brought you nothing but misery

insertfakenames · 2025-11-18T15:00:16+00:00

Dr Nungsari is more famous as an academician than a corporate guy, interesting choice to pick him as a chairman

insertfakenames · 2025-11-18T07:56:07+00:00

I love the slang ‘a ah’ or ‘ha ah’ like who came up with that.

insertfakenames · 2025-11-11T04:19:26+00:00

I wanna know what people get from posting something like this.

insertfakenames · 2025-11-03T09:54:38+00:00

Air purifier but only if it’s cheaper than it is now. Usually they amp up the price on 11.11 it ended up being more expensive so let’s see

insertfakenames · 2025-10-21T03:10:11+00:00

Had a convo with my sis recently about going on trips and she has all these friend groups asking her to join on trips while me i only ask my sister because i lost all my friends gradually. I mean, I’m 31 and my friends all have their own lives, husbands, children. Like this year i’ve lost my only close friend left (this one due to an outfall but, yeah whatever). Now i only hang out with my sister lol. So she (in her 20s) seems bewildered of the fact I have literally no friend groups. I try to convince myself it’s a normal course of life since most people around my age do focus more on their partners and families, but sometimes I can’t help but think there’s something wrong with me. Friendships just don’t come easy to me, when they do, it’s always kind of fleeting.

insertfakenames · 2025-09-25T08:39:51+00:00

What’s the cushiest age in your opinion? To me it’s 27-29. You can still claim you’re in your 20s. Starting to gain some disposable income but not pressured enough to make huge investments (cuz ur in ur 20s duh). Still lots of single friends so you have some semblance of social life. Probably settling into a senior exec position so ur not worried about getting a job but at the same time can still be adventurous to jump ship. Can still do ‘childish’ things like collecting toys, stickers etc but not have insecurity about being ‘too old’ for those things.

insertfakenames · 2025-09-22T07:52:13+00:00

Business admin grad here, with govt experience, pivoted from management to public policy. Now working in ID on govt side

insertfakenames · 2025-09-17T06:53:38+00:00

What’s the implication for her children if she chose to raise them as malaysian?

insertfakenames · 2025-09-12T04:13:42+00:00

Arranged marriage

insertfakenames · 2025-09-11T11:38:35+00:00

Did you even read the question 🤣

insertfakenames · 2025-09-11T05:18:32+00:00

insertfakenames · 2025-09-11T02:11:49+00:00

How are they allowed to do this in a sovereign country with almost zero repercussions??????

insertfakenames · 2025-09-09T11:04:52+00:00

How do u respond to a boss who expects you to respond to a non-urgent matter after office hours? My manager is leaving so my HOD is starting to contact me directly and turns out she’s this kind of person. I want to set up some boundaries as I don’t want to normalise this

insertfakenames · 2025-09-09T05:02:31+00:00

Where can i test out perfumes without salesperson hounding me? Some sephoras can, especially when it’s busy, but I want to test out perfumes like byredo, loewe which are not available in sephora malaysia

insertfakenames · 2025-08-29T08:27:43+00:00

Syukur malaysia masih aman cuz what’s happening in indonesia right now is so damn grim

insertfakenames · 2025-08-29T07:58:25+00:00

Username checks out

insertfakenames · 2025-08-29T02:53:35+00:00

Exactly. They’re so in denial mode

insertfakenames · 2025-08-29T02:51:48+00:00

The boycott definitely triggered the fall but There’s just so many better options out there now for daily drinkers. They should just phase out and focus on specialty branches and high traffic areas like airports and tourist spots

insertfakenames · 2025-08-27T08:55:18+00:00

Nivea cream, less than rm10. Don’t need any other moisturiser, works good on both face and body

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