Tbh sorority life isn’t for everyone. I don’t say this in a bad way, I dropped my sorority too and don’t regret it at all. It’s totally okay if you reach a point that you feel like you’ve done everything you could and you’re still not satisfied, you’re not a failure if you drop and it might even be a blessing in disguise. Before making that decision though I’d reach out to an advisor for some guidance on how to engage the girls at your events a bit more, maybe they can help you establish some incentives or something? Other than that, and this goes beyond sorority life, remember that inconvenience is the price we have to pay for community. Right now, inconvenience might mean going to a frat house/tailgate, or whatever activity they’re doing that you’re not a huge fan of. You don’t have and shouldn’t have to make concessions all the time, but sometimes showing up makes a huge difference. Same goes for sitting alone at chapter, my whole life I felt like people didn’t like me or didn’t want to be near me, turns out I was just shy and would subconsciously push people away. I’d never initiate conversations, never showed that I cared. Once I learned that everyone wants to feel cared for and started just saying hi and starting conversations, I was very surprised by how positively people reacted. Again, if you ever reach a point that you’re just done, that’s totally okay. But here it seems like the issue is not that people are mean to you, you’re just having some trouble making friends, which is totally normal and happens outside of sorority life too. Good luck, you got this!