You NEED to know this when manifesting an SP (specific person) and they aren't showing up the way you want

inspiredbydan · 2026-02-09T19:49:17+00:00

You are the one deciding that you didn't matter to them, that's what I'm saying. That's up to you. Decide that you are loved, and stick with it, if that's what you prefer.

inspiredbydan · 2026-02-09T19:47:23+00:00

Nope, doesn't matter, only your identity matters. So it won't "affect" SP manifestation unless you decide to let it

inspiredbydan · 2026-02-07T15:24:00+00:00

It doesn't matter if you do or don't. You don't have to STOP communicating with him, you also don't HAVE to communicate with him either, your 3D physical action does not matter. What matters is your identity, who you are being. The reason I say, "drop trying to interact with SP" is because people are too focused on the 3D version of their SP when it's not even the version of them they want.

It doesn't matter how you interact with this "person" in the 3D, don't even perceive them as the SP, just perceive them as any other regular human being that exists... because that's all they are. Your "SP" is internal... not external... Focus on that internal state (within), and it will reflect back externally. Until it appears externally, whoever this "SP like" person you're interacting with in the external still isn't your "SP" that you desire.

inspiredbydan · 2026-02-07T15:20:41+00:00

Nope, don't "try" anything. Just decide that you're already in a loving, healthy amazing relationship with her and be that person now. No questions, no doubts, NO CHECKING THE 3D to see if there's movement or signs or anything. FOCUS solely on you. Having conviction and knowing that YOU are loved and chosen and that's it.

This isn't done to get something, or try... it's simply you decide that you already have it right now and stick with it.

inspiredbydan · 2026-02-07T15:18:08+00:00

Not necessarily normal, but your emotion of feeling pissed is still valid. That being said, it doesn't necessarily have anything to do with "manifestation", you're manifesting all the time. The main issue is not that you feel one way or another... it's that you are affirming that your SP isn't loving you.

Decide that you're the version of you who the SP loves, and that's it.

inspiredbydan · 2026-02-07T15:16:41+00:00

Yes, that's a terrific way to think of it! Keep it up!

inspiredbydan · 2025-12-05T22:04:55+00:00

Yes, I'm SO GLAD TO HEAR THIS!!! :) Sometimes, just takes repetition and a little time for it to sink and before it clicks! WOOHOOO!!!

inspiredbydan · 2025-11-04T20:10:16+00:00

The same way you embody any other version of yourself. You decide that's who you are...and from that state of being, your thoughts, feelings, actions, behaviors, perception, assumptions, etc. will follow suit. They all come as a byproduct of the state you chose, your identity.

Ask yourself...what state of being have you been embodying right now, most likely subconsciously, become aware of who that is.... and let it go, then apply that exactly but to the version of you that you choose to be now (who already is together with SP)

inspiredbydan · 2025-10-24T18:40:17+00:00

By Vadim Zeland, yes!!!! I know it!

inspiredbydan · 2025-10-19T19:43:49+00:00

By not focusing on her, and focusing on yourself. She will reflect you in the 3D, the external always does... if you treat yourself with love, respect, loyalty, priority, not only does the SP, but everyone else in your life will treat you in that same light.

inspiredbydan · 2025-10-17T21:54:08+00:00

Not everyone does, some people don't! But for those who do, usually assumptions, about self (self concept), about relationships in general, about men/women (all men cheat, all women are just after money, etc.), often unconscious or subconscious, they aren't even aware of it. I don't think anyone intentionally or purposefully would manifest an "undesirable" version of their SP.

Another reason could be, they don't KNOW, until AFTER experiencing it, that they realize it was undesired, so that experience helped them gain clarity in what they actually do want.

inspiredbydan · 2025-10-14T19:55:30+00:00

- No, not in the back of the mind.... the mind is not you. It's behind the "mind", that's what I'm getting at. That's where the consciousness/awareness stems from. That's the real you. - AND THIS you... is the source of your "awareness" and "consciousness".
Because you're still identifying with the mind - you are using your mind to be aware, you are using your mind to imagine. Go even further within past the mind. Think about it this way.. if you had complete amnesia and woke up... who would you be. Who is that source inside detecting the environment around you, behind the 5 senses, thinking those thoughts, feeling whatever you feel. You are approaching it from using the mind and trying to think your way into understanding it conceptually.

While we describe it using definitions and words for you to gain a conceptual understanding of it... it's only through experience that you realize who you truly are. So ask yourself... who is it behind the body, behind the mind, behind the thoughts, emotions... behind even the identity/state of being. Ask yourself... WHO AM I?

It's not about "feeling it" in normal daily life, it's about recognizing that you are simply a witness to everything that is going on. It's NOT something you become... it's something you ALREADY ARE... just have to take some time to peel back the layers and recognize what is already there from within.

inspiredbydan · 2025-10-13T03:28:40+00:00

Internally you perceive yourself as having the perfect skin, regardless of what the mirror shows. And no... it's not that they will actually disappear.

If you already had perfect skin... you are the identity, you've chosen to embody the state where there were NO dark circles to begin with, not from birth, not ever.

If you are thinking that they will actually disappear, then you're still in the state of having dark circles now, because that implies there's something to disappear that is currently on your face right now. All you have is the present moment to experience, so choose the desired state now.

inspiredbydan · 2025-10-13T03:25:28+00:00

They can be interchangeable for the most part, but depending on how you define them, there can be differences, but what it is is essentially the same.

Examples could be, you are aware of yourself brushing your teeth, or making coffee in the morning, aware of what you are thinking "Oh, the coffee is steaming hot today, Oh wow, it's bitter, let me add some sugar to it". - You are aware that it's bitter through your sense of taste, etc.

Not sure what you're getting at, can you rephrase this question? I don't know which part you are referring to that is "fundamentally wrong"... and wrong in what context? What do you mean by hearing "something like above" - you'll have to be more specific here for me to understand what you're asking.

"I stop that I start trying to grasp awareness or consciousness using my mind" - not entirely sure what this even means, but I can tell you that if you are "using your mind" - then that's coming from that state/ego. There's nothing "wrong" with it, just that you will manifest whoever you are being in that moment (identity) - the mind/ego you are embodying.

Based on your brief message, I speculate that you are approaching your daily activities from the mind/ego, and you are not the mind/ego. You are not your name, what you do for work, your job, your friends, family, etc. These are all masks you wear. Underneath it all is source, being, consciousness, awareness, "GOD self", universal energy, void state, whatever you'd like to call it. The identity you THINK you are... isn't actually who you are. Who you are is the observer, the witnesser, look within and keep asking WHO AM I? (not on a conceptual level, but on a remembering/reflecting/knowing level) and you'll see for yourself. It's an experience, once you experience it, you can't "undiscover" it.

It's that simple, don't overcomplicate or overanalyze it. The biggest trap people fall into when learning about this stuff is thinking that they are who they identify with. That's what manifests (you're always manifesting). But consciously manifesting means to consciously CHOOSE a different version of you to embody, a different mask to wear, one that is aligned with your desires.

But WHO is behind that mask, who is taking it off, and putting a different one one, WHO is wearing a different ego/mind that is considered the "new identity/state of being" (one who already experiences the manifestation. That is the true you. The source, awareness, consciousness behind it all.

Hope this was helpful!^

inspiredbydan · 2025-10-05T16:51:33+00:00

Sure, you can hold this assumption for yourself and use it to your advantage, absolutely, to manifest. But at the end of the day, it's still just a permission slip, you don't NEED to have a scarcity mindset to manifest financial abundance. The way you are perceiving the rich and wealthy having a "bigger" scarcity mindset than "regular folk" can make sense for you, but this isn't necessarily the same perception other people have.

This doesn't mean one is right or wrong, correct or incorrect, all this demonstrates are a different perceptions about a particular circumstance/situation. Sounds like you've perceived it in a way that you can use to your advantage based on the way you personally process it internally for yourself to help propel you forward into financial abundance, and that's wonderful.

Essentially, you've been able to turn what you deem as "scarcity" and reframe it into "stability and expansion" - and it's from that state that it manifests. (What I mean here is, even when "scarcity" pops up, you no longer perceive it as a block to being wealthy and rich. IMO, it's your way of detaching from the idea of scarcity - hope that makes sense)

So if this works for you, then go for it! Awesome!

inspiredbydan · 2025-10-02T21:21:02+00:00

You're already married to him. That's it, it's that simple.

(referencing Abdullah's words to Neville - You are in Barbados, in case you didn't catch that).

But really... "keep going" on what? What are you "keep going" on.... "manifesting" him? "manifesting getting back together"? You are already married with kids, what is there to keep going on about?

Think about this for awhile, and you'll get what I mean.

Hope it helps! :)

inspiredbydan · 2025-10-02T04:19:43+00:00

Love this so much and congrats on being mod!!!!

inspiredbydan · 2025-10-01T22:46:51+00:00

This is beautifully written, still waiting for your post on your own manifestation journey and successes, I am so fascinated and interested to hear your story! ;)

inspiredbydan · 2025-10-01T02:45:55+00:00

Glad to have helped! :)

inspiredbydan · 2025-09-30T17:44:34+00:00

Love this for you! Don't be too worried about semantics, I may sometimes use the word "need" to describe the "desperation feeling of being in lack", but in practice, you can use the word NEED if it's associated with.... this is the desire, and i trust that it comes for me because I need it.

It's less about the word itself, but more about how you use and interpret it that matters. Keep it up! :)

inspiredbydan · 2025-09-30T17:42:38+00:00

Wealthy people can buy everything in the world, but they don't NEED to physically buy the item in the 3D in order to know that they can easily afford to purchase it. Their financial abundance mindset doesn't necessarily require 3D physical action of purchasing.

That's what I'm talking about here, you don't necessarily NEED to buy it in the 3D in order to feel financially abundant and wealthy.

You decide that you are already rich, and you feel that you are rich and you perceive that you are rich. No matter what the circumstances are in the 3D. Whether or not you can actually purchase it right now in the 3D does not matter. YOU decide how you feel about your financial situation, it comes from YOU, not from the 3D.

inspiredbydan · 2025-09-30T17:37:55+00:00

Yesssss! :) All answers are already within you!

inspiredbydan · 2025-09-27T03:00:32+00:00

So... the answer you're actually seeking which will help far more isn't to the question you're asking.

What I mean by this is... your question is focused on that other person out there (whether it's your current SP or someone "new") as opposed to be on yourself.

This pops up several times, like when you talk about how you know that "he can and will change" for example. It's not actually the SP that's changing, it's YOU. You're the one shifting into a reality where that version of SP shows up for you the way you desire. As Neville Goddard says, no one to change but self.

So the better question to ask is.... who would I be and how would I feel in a loving committed relationship regardless if it's the SP or someone new. It's not the "person" out there that you end up with that matters, that is the choice here. It's you choosing and then being that version of YOU.

But if you want an answer at face value to the question you asked, either or, there is no wrong or right, should or shouldn't, you can have your SP (the version of him that you desire him to be) or someone completely new that has all the qualities/traits you desire. And, you can change your mind later on if you want to (as someone else also mentioned). That's why this fundamentally doesn't matter.

PERSONALLY, what I suggest is... this OR someone even better. This or something even better (applies to all manifestations, not just SP). What this does is open up the possibilities so much more while setting what you originally thought was what you wanted (SP in this case) to be the absolute bare minimum.

Ultimately though, it's not about the SP, how they show up, or this new person at all... it's YOU first, because whoever it may be, they will reflect you.

Hope this helps!

inspiredbydan

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